Family & Relationships - 5 August 2006

and move on with my life. My wife is the one who told me to leave and that she hated me. I left immediately and even told her I would pay for the divorce and a portion of our debt. We were married for four years. We do not have any children together, she has children from previous marriages and the youngest two I have helped raise for the past six years.
We have been apart for two months, and she keeps calling.

She calls me several times a day, always wanting to know what I am doing and who am I with. She wants to know about my work. She is trying to find out if I am seeing someone else.

She is going through a tough time, she is trying to care for her oldest daughter (25yrs) who is having some serious health problems, and she is going through custody issues over her two youngest children and her grandchildren. Her oldest son died a yr ago.

Help! Why does she keep calling me? She wants to talk as a friend but then she wants me to act like a husband. What do I do?

2006-08-05 16:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by dustman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-05 16:22:08 · 12 answers · asked by sara t 1 in Family

I see this same woman every summer and hang out with her for the two weeks that we have the time shares for, and now that I'm home and can't see her anymore I feel distraught and dejected. I think about her from time to time throughout the year. How come i feel so atrabilious and like there is a hole in me, and why i close my eyes without seeing her face.

2006-08-05 16:21:57 · 2 answers · asked by emberjet 1 in Singles & Dating

I see this same woman every summer and hang out with her for the two weeks that we have the time shares for, and now that I'm home and can't see her anymore I feel distraught and dejected. I think about her from time to time throughout the year. How come i feel so atrabilious and like there is a hole in me, and why i close my eyes without seeing her face.

2006-08-05 16:21:07 · 12 answers · asked by emberjet 1 in Singles & Dating

I am starting school again. 10th grade. I don't know why I am so nervous and this year my school is getting uniforms. I feel like if my boyfriend might think I look ugly in my uniform. Also, cause I cut my hair. I like how I cut my hair but he might not. I don't know why I feel like that cause all my life I have had to wear uniforms except last year and I HAVE HAD BFS AND CUT MY HAIR AND BEEN CONFIDENT AND BEen liked so why do I feel like my bf will think some other girl is prettier? I just want to get out of high school! Do you think it's stupid or do you think I am just insecure or what?

2006-08-05 16:20:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf is always going to the bar he in 22 years old and acts like hes' 5. when he gets back he is realy mean and rude to me, and my room mate, last time I left him and he found me I was staying at a friends if I leave now do you think he could find me, how do I get him to leave me alone last time I tried he pushed me pretty hard if I tell him now I afraid it will be worse!!! what can I do???

2006-08-05 16:20:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 16:20:20 · 4 answers · asked by deecharming 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please no random dumb insults/spam

2006-08-05 16:19:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i just asked a serious question and this one person was really crappy. why? should i just keep my ? to myself and answer everyone elses? i need advise too. i don't know everything. most did answer nicely and with good answers but i see more and more mean people on line. where can all the nice people go?

2006-08-05 16:19:39 · 2 answers · asked by MotherNature 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

does ur avatar really look anythin like tha real u? I can sumtimes look at sum of tha responses 2 sum questions and see a really good lookin avatar, but them a week later thay put a pic of themselves on there and that 15 year old blonde chick just turned into a 300 pound redheaded 40 year old woman. do u really look like ur avatar or r u just playin a pic?

2006-08-05 16:19:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to my friends house the other night. I passed out on her bed, and the next morning my piss came out crooked even though I didn't have sex.

2006-08-05 16:18:48 · 19 answers · asked by Sonny M 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

we disagree on alot of religious beliefs, how can we get past this?

2006-08-05 16:18:04 · 27 answers · asked by Kimberly M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-05 16:17:42 · 5 answers · asked by Kaitie Jay 1 in Family

I like someone but I can't get the guts up to tell him.

2006-08-05 16:16:46 · 19 answers · asked by suohthedragon 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is 12 and she is afraid of the dark and im wondering is this normal?

2006-08-05 16:16:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my name s laurance i am from chennai this is my friends id

2006-08-05 16:16:27 · 5 answers · asked by chillout dear 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys could care less if girls have it. All guys want are girls who are physically attractive. Girls seem to want guys who are both physically attractive and have a lot of confidence. Could it really be this lopsided?

2006-08-05 16:16:06 · 9 answers · asked by Gen Xer 1 in Singles & Dating

she has been there since she has been 2. her dad has only been present off and on. never living with her. now that she is 14, he wants her to come live with him. he is the one who does have custody, he never gave custody to his mom although that is who she has been with since she was 2. i have visitation. my daughter does not want to go to her dads to live. she wants to stay with grandma. what can i do to prevent him from taking her? what are her rights, what is my rights, what is grandma's right? what do i do? i am need of answers fast!!

2006-08-05 16:15:20 · 4 answers · asked by lostbmt 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-05 16:14:39 · 13 answers · asked by sabrinaschmittling 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 16:14:08 · 7 answers · asked by sonyk78 1 in Singles & Dating

something has to be done...

2006-08-05 16:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by surfurguy126 1 in Family

My boyfriend says he loves me, and I believe him. But when it comes to hanging out, and spending time together. It's always what he wants. Like if I wanted to go movies, he's going to say no, or picks the day on which we go. On some things, its ok that he's like that. But i just can't help but get pissed off. He can be demamding at times, not that bad compared to others though. Also he always breaks promises that he makes. Just the little things like going here or there. But what bugs me is that if I complain, he gets all mad or pissed off. I mean god! So u really expect me to just say ok, or thats cool all the time? I mean dude! I do have a brain! And he makes me feel bad about it too....I just don't know what to do about it? Should I talk to him, and get him even madder? or just let him do whatever. I really don't want to break up with him. I love him! I just don't like some parts of his attitude.

2006-08-05 16:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Lucia if your out there? Mi ami?
If anyone knows her?

2006-08-05 16:12:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How long do you think would be appropriate to wait until I say "I love you" to my boyfriend? I am 15, he's 17.

2006-08-05 16:12:09 · 49 answers · asked by BRiDGETTE 3 in Singles & Dating

Like say your family don't get along and you talk to everyone in your family so each week a different part of the family is mad at u bc u talked to this part and not that part! is thier ever a time your family is happy and not fighting over something stupid and your the one always stuck in the middle?

2006-08-05 16:12:08 · 22 answers · asked by lildevil522 1 in Family

i don't know wat happen to before few months he was loving me as anything and now he is telling me to talk just like friends now just tell wat shoul i do?shall i talk with him or not?

2006-08-05 16:11:14 · 5 answers · asked by nuri s 1 in Singles & Dating

and you decide to take some time from the relationship, than does that still mean you're still obligated to talking to them and all the other things? what is a "break" for really? are you supposed to "wait" on each other? and is it okay in the waiting process to have "other" people in your life?

2006-08-05 16:09:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how really gives a sh*t?

2006-08-05 16:09:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my bf a year ago in a japanese chatroom and we were friends for 6 months after that. In december he asked me to be his gf and we have been together since. He treats me like no other and tells me I am his world and sometimes it kinda scares me but I appreciate that he treats me so well. We have a long distance relationship but we talk on the phone everyday and we are really close as friends and as lovers. He assures me that he will find a way to make this last beyond forever because he says forever is just not enough time for the love that he feels to be given out. He is coming down next month and we are going to finally meet. Sometimes I feel like this is like a dream come true and hes such an amazing guy I never would have guessed that I would find someone like him. All we have seen are pictures of eachother and when we talk its like we have known eachother forever in lifetimes before. It feels so perfect but will it actually last? I mean with all the distance between us?

2006-08-05 16:08:13 · 9 answers · asked by la weebit 1 in Singles & Dating

we just turned 18 yrs old but weve been together for almost 6 yrs and we want to move in together, so how do i get my moms approval and convince her that im mature enough for this big step in my life???

2006-08-05 16:08:05 · 15 answers · asked by Lia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships