My boyfriend says he loves me, and I believe him. But when it comes to hanging out, and spending time together. It's always what he wants. Like if I wanted to go movies, he's going to say no, or picks the day on which we go. On some things, its ok that he's like that. But i just can't help but get pissed off. He can be demamding at times, not that bad compared to others though. Also he always breaks promises that he makes. Just the little things like going here or there. But what bugs me is that if I complain, he gets all mad or pissed off. I mean god! So u really expect me to just say ok, or thats cool all the time? I mean dude! I do have a brain! And he makes me feel bad about it too....I just don't know what to do about it? Should I talk to him, and get him even madder? or just let him do whatever. I really don't want to break up with him. I love him! I just don't like some parts of his attitude.
2006-08-05 16:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Boyfriends come in whole packages. You can't just pick and choose which part to take with you. If you can't talk to him seriously about a problem you have with him without him becoming unreasonable, then you're going to have more and more problems down the road. You have to be able to be able to communicate if you want to have a good relationship. If you've already talked to him, and all he does is get pissy and angry, you have a communication problem, and things just aren't going to get any better between you. The only way to fix things is by communicating, and if you can't do that, you should break up and find someone else that you can talk to reasonably.
2006-08-05 16:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Muralasa 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This could be a sign that he no longer loves you.
He shows no respect to you and looks selfish to do things his way.
Well, you can choose to stay with him but be prepared next time he would expect u to listen to him all the times.
Dun be controlled by him btw.
All the best and good luck!!!
2006-08-05 23:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by keithster2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I am sorry to say it but you should cut your losses & leave him. It will do you a world of good to leave someone who doesn't really care what you want, if it's like this now it will be like this years from now. You will not be able to change him & you should never settle - 'I love him BUT' there should be no BUTS - Good Luck & be strong...someone better is out there...you just have to find him.
2006-08-05 23:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a very selfish attitude. I doubt that talking to him would really do any good. This is just something that you will have to decide to either accept or break up with him.
2006-08-05 23:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stick up for yourself and change things now! If he is like this now, what do you expect he will be like a year from now....? Or, marriage?
Don't put up with it. It takes two to make a relationship work. Both sides have INPUT!
2006-08-05 23:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to piss off and spend about three weeks doing any and everything you want to. He will either fall in line or you will realize you are having so much more fun without him
2006-08-05 23:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to change.. atleast a little.. its gotta be both ways... and dont feel bad coz youre worth it ! :))
2006-08-05 23:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Arvind C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋