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I like someone but I can't get the guts up to tell him.

2006-08-05 16:16:46 · 19 answers · asked by suohthedragon 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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it doesn't take guts to tell someone you like them it takes a clear head and sincere heart. here's my suggestion to you. first consider these thoughts as you work up the nerve to say...I like you! What if you thought you Had all the time in the world to tell this person you like them but you didn't. what if something terrible happened and you lost any chance to say..i like you. once you say it it gets easier every time you say it to anyone !people usually feel flattered that people like them. Now if this is a situation with the opposite sex and you're worried about rejected it may help build a bridge if you start out with...i really like you. you're one of the nicest people I've ever met , state what you like about this person and I'll bet you'll build some sort of new relationship with this person. truth is don't you like a lot of people for a lot of different reasons??? say it, what's the worst case scenario if you say it??? It's probably never gonna have that worse case scenario outcome that is making you feel gutless! don't have any expectations of the guys response and you'll be fine. Once you say it if he's acts like a jerk just say something like wow i guess i used to like you until I just found out what a ....(fill in the blank) you are practice saying billy i like you and before you know it next time you see billy you'll be saying billy i like you and you'll both be smiling! I believe we should tell people we like that we like them. say it more often to more people and it will become easier to say it whenever you feel it! good luck!

2006-08-05 16:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0 0

Why? Why do you like him? Start there. Is he funny? Smart? Creative? Compassionate? Wait for the right moment, usually when there aren't other people within earshot; then say "I am so drawn to you because of your sense of humor. I find it kind of attractive!" Smile at him. Then walk away, taking the heat off of the moment for both of you. If you are at a party, go pour yourself a softdrink and start a conversation with another guest. If he isn't "drawn" to you then no big deal. If he is, and he finds your words compelling, then believe me, he will find a way to let you know.
Guys don't hear this kind of honesty very often. Too often we gals are trying to be coy. Coming out and saying what's on your mind with confidence will impress him.
Good luck!

2006-08-05 16:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by wibbsite 3 · 0 0

I'm gonna tell ya..it's all in the eyes..and the way you look at him..it is easier that way then just saying i really reallllly like you. Most ppl pick up on eye contact in that way. You can throw A lil flirty remark in there...like..you frickin cutie' just outta the blue or in response to something hes saying. Good Luck.

2006-08-05 16:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jinkies 3 · 0 0

you can tell it to him by talking to him.... tell him that you like him but you must also be ready to face rejection.... but you can also just wait for a while and see if he likes you too if your afraid he's going to reject you.... but if ever that you can't hold your feelings anymore, its better to tell him but you also have to accept whatever he's going to tell you.... at least you told him your feelings already. I believe that if the more you'll hold that secret deep inside of you for a long time, the more you're gonna get hurt because maybe someday, you might see him with another woman and you didn't get your chance to tell him that you like him....it would be too late.... Do not hate anybody if he's going to reject you becoz i believe that you have to move on...we might not know but maybe there's someone else waiting for you!ü well, good luck telling him.... that's all i can advice you as of now because it is you who will decide whether you tell him or not....ü there a lot of WHAT IFS... and one of it is WHAT IF HE DID LIKES you too?

2006-08-05 16:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by AiMs!ü 1 · 0 0

Lolololol

2016-03-27 00:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

look chic if you like him tell him b4 its too late you cant just hit around all the time knowin someone else mite jump up and tell him... so get the guts and just say you know wat i like you no big deal nothing to sweat over... he is a guy if he dont like you then *** him if he does then go for you

2006-08-05 16:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by hesgirl 2 · 0 0

Write a note.

2006-08-05 16:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥W!f3y M@+3r!@1♥ 2 · 0 0

Just tell him that you like him. If he really likes you he will say it to you to

2006-08-05 16:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by newbies 1 · 0 0

hey you're lucky, I told someone I liked her and now I'm stuck where I was for the last three years, she doesn't talk to me much, she doesn't seem to notice me and stuff.

2006-08-05 16:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I agree- the eyes will give you away....
Give him a long longing stare. If he doesn't return the favor....he may not be interested...

2006-08-05 16:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mai 1 · 1 0

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