and you decide to take some time from the relationship, than does that still mean you're still obligated to talking to them and all the other things? what is a "break" for really? are you supposed to "wait" on each other? and is it okay in the waiting process to have "other" people in your life?
2006-08-05 16:09:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we're on break because my father is in the hospital, im getting ready for my first year of college and he's getting together his last year of college, and he's working right now extra hard for a new car... we're busy....
2006-08-05 16:21:19 · update #1
I'm going to get a little side tracked from your question and say that I think a break is a horrible concept. I can see maybe two people taking a break for a night. One person staying at home the other going to stay at a friends house. I think that taking a 'break from the relationship' is just a way of breaking up without saying so or a horrible way of trying to patch things up. All it does is add complications. BUT since you are on a break: Those terms are really for you two to decide. I've seen people take breaks simply to have a bit of time to themselves and I've seen people take breaks while they tested the water with others. Good luck with the 'break'.
Update: I understand that you both have a lot going on. I wonder who initiated the break? Has your relationship run it's course and one of you has suggested a break as opposed to just saying what you both know is an inevitable break up? Maybe it's not. I'm just saying that's what it sounds like. I hope however it works out the both of you are happy. As happy as you can be anyways.
2006-08-05 16:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that usually a break is a way of looking for someone else without actually saying that you want out of the relationship. Usually people are unhappy with each other when they want a break. I wouldn't wait and I would try to find someone else.
2006-08-05 23:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go on a break in a relationship...that means that you both are not mature enough to have a relationship....you can't work it out.....so move on and break it off completely!! Sorry, and Good Luck....
2006-08-05 23:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get breaks. i dont agree with that concept. but yeah it seems to be a nice way of saying you can sleep with others etc.
2006-08-05 23:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by illinois_guy06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get your freak on. I bet he is doing the same thing.
2006-08-05 23:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a break means do what you want. go get it and do what you please with it.
2006-08-05 23:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO do your own thing.
2006-08-05 23:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o not lie to yourself be you
2006-08-05 23:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by BERJEAFRIJUN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋