my bf is always going to the bar he in 22 years old and acts like hes' 5. when he gets back he is realy mean and rude to me, and my room mate, last time I left him and he found me I was staying at a friends if I leave now do you think he could find me, how do I get him to leave me alone last time I tried he pushed me pretty hard if I tell him now I afraid it will be worse!!! what can I do???
2006-08-05 16:20:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that really sucks, you should definately get out of a relationship like that. its no way to live. you should first get some help from your friends. do you have someone you could talk to that you feel comfortable with? maybe they could be your backup or something. can you talk to your family? it sounds like you will need someone else before you can get this over with. do it before it gets worse.
2006-08-05 16:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by 51337 1 · 9⤊ 2⤋
Just stop talking to him, don't make plans with him and if he wants to make plans with you say that you are busy. If he pushes you or hits you call the police, it is illegal and unacceptable behavior. Get a restraining order against him, then he will not be able to come near you without being arrested and having to go to court.
2006-08-05 23:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Laura N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you really should break up with him, and you should call the cops, and tell them that a man you keep trying to get away from finds you and won't leave you alone, and when you tried to leave him, he pushes you, that files for stalking and physical abuse, and the cops should check out this man and maybe watch him from a distance for a couple of days to see what the man will do
2006-08-05 23:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully you have a good network of friends that can help you. also go to the police department and let them now so they can give you a case number. take that case number to the courts and obtain a restraining order.. good luck
2006-08-05 23:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by blossomingcactus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to court and get a restraining order
2006-08-05 23:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be careful that he's gets violent when he's drunk, I think it's best to break up with him, and move on with your life, and ask him to stay away from you, if he doesn't, get a restraining order.
2006-08-05 23:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the cops and get out of that right away the cops will give him the treatment he needs
2006-08-05 23:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by everyxthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you nead to call the police next time he pushes you and then go to your family and have them help you
2006-08-05 23:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.. hez irresponsible and has no respect for your feelings / friends
2006-08-05 23:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Arvind C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋