Family & Relationships - 30 July 2006

Alright this might be a little long so, please bear with me.

I have been dating a man long distance via the internet for a year now. He is moving here (supposedly) on August 10th to live with me and go to school. Our relationship has had a lot of ups, but a lot more downs because he has trust issues that don't really have anything to do with me. Because of this, we have never met. We talk every day on the phone, email, text message...but it isn't the kind of relationship I ever saw myself dealing with.

Now, just recently, I started a bit of something on the side with my boss. He is married, has two children, but is unhappy in his marriage despite how he tries to hide it. I am not saying he would leave her for me - he probably won't ever leave her, and I understand that - but within the last few weeks I realized I am attached to him. In love with him. And I'm not sure what to do about it. He knows my internet guy is coming soon, and he is really jealous. Any suggestions?

2006-07-30 04:49:28 · 7 answers · asked by aimeelopez 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-30 04:48:12 · 17 answers · asked by Vancouver Island Marmot 1 in Singles & Dating

is it abuse like when you where lets say 5 and you had this turdor who had sex with you but didn't force you is it but you hated it and wanted to tell your mom but you didn't know how but he was not thetenden you whos faul is it

for a friend

2006-07-30 04:47:03 · 24 answers · asked by I can never forgive you 1 in Family

2006-07-30 04:46:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What kinda mindframe do you have to be in to prolong ejaculation during sex? Like what is your secret?

And if your answer is "think about something else while doing it", how do you prevent that from interfering with your erection?

Thanks in advance to all.

2006-07-30 04:46:24 · 11 answers · asked by ڒαиìє's ɠσт α ɠυи 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy started talking and we met up and he seemed like he was into me...he called everyday until all of a sudden he stopped calling for about 2wks and when he did i was like get the **** outta here im not picking up! He knows my sister and she ran into him one day telling her that he lost my number but he called everyday... so i know he knew my number asshole!

2006-07-30 04:45:27 · 13 answers · asked by memyselfandI 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been together for 12 years and I have to admit I was very negligent in taking care of her needs for a few years. I was selfish and preoccupied with my own issues. She sought out someone else to take care of her sexual needs. I found out about it and initially got angry and she was remorseful but it spurned us on to counseling and I realized it did not need to destroy our relationship. In fact, with time, she told me more about what happened and her desires (that she could not communicate to me before due to my ignoring her)..and it adds to our sex life. We even use it to excite each other now and then. Weird? I don't think so. She needed a little more "aggresiveness" in the bedroom. A couple of long silk scarves, a bed with posts and some acting skills can do wonders!

2006-07-30 04:45:13 · 13 answers · asked by cm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated a girl for 6 years. We both decided to be jus friends. Now when she asks for advice or needs help bout guys. It seems like im not helpin much at all cuz im a bit jealous. How do i overcome this and be a good friend?

2006-07-30 04:45:09 · 7 answers · asked by krayzeman32 2 in Friends

would that not save a lot of broken mariages and the resulting suffering of children?

2006-07-30 04:43:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes we as mothers will have to dress our sons for female roles for various school occations such as dramas, plays, fancy dress competitions and dress as the opposite sex days. Specially this happens in boys only schools in india. Indian drama and dance traditions also do have a rich traditions of boys playing female roles. Although i look at these thing in a positive manner, i have seen many others looking upon it.

What do you think are the positive and negative consequences of these efforts? Wouldent it give some sort of exposure for boys to the womanhood. On the otherway round isnt it discriminative when we only accept girls wearing boys clothes or playing male roles?

Please give both positive and negative reasons......because i beleave any issue has its both sides.

2006-07-30 04:42:04 · 8 answers · asked by Nushi 2 in Family

Everytime I go on to see in these forms, almost all the time, there is SMUT, STUPID SEX QUESTIONS, IMATURE ACTIONS ETC.!!! Why can't people just ask real questions? It makes me want to just shut down the site and go elsewhere. What is wrong with some people? It just drives me crazy!!!! Maybe they should check these sites out more. And these people wonder why the world is the way it is...They need to grow up and get a REAL LIFE!!! Signed...SICK OF THE SMUT!!!!

2006-07-30 04:42:02 · 6 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family

2006-07-30 04:41:54 · 15 answers · asked by shawty_256 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is a pathological liar. It has destroyed her marriage and all her friendships, yet she continues to do it. It's as if she actually has begun to believe all of her lies. When confronted, she just tells more lies. It has become a huge complicated web of lies with differest stories told to different people. Ofent times, it seems there's not even a reason for her to lie. Why does she do this, and what is the best way to deal with it - confront her, e-mail her, be forceful or sensitive? I know deep down she is a good person, I think she has very low self esteem, but I cannot be her friend if she won't admit to this and get help. Is there any chance she will do that or is it a lost cause?

2006-07-30 04:41:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

alrite. my friend now obviously likes my ex. we've sorta talked about it, i sorta tried to convince her that she'd be wasting her time. and u no the "unwritten rule" ... yea. i mean, if she does go out with him. shouldnt it be on her conscience? she sez her intentions are to help him get over me, and that she likes him also. but we all no that ppl have different intentions.. and i dont want to stop her, i want her to stop herself. b/c i think who am i to tell her who she can go out with and who she can't? its only been about a month since the break up.. so isnt that a little rushed. and.. she told one of my best friends that she acknowledges that it makes me uncomfortable. so why did she hintingly ask him out 2 times behind my back?

[i no i asked this question already. i just... need a lot of opinions]

2006-07-30 04:40:57 · 27 answers · asked by strictly_maggie 3 in Singles & Dating

She said we needed space after she broke everything off our engagement...However, she called me 4 times since she broke it off, last Sunday, and yesterday morning she called to see what I was doing and acted surprised that I was actually going out of town for the day...When I returned home, she had called me again knowing I was gone...And she wanted to hang out today and take our dog, which we picked out together, for a walk and spend time with him...I don't get it...

2006-07-30 04:39:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she is one of my best friends, but her birthday party has been a pretty boring event for a few years in a row now. Even though we have a few common friends it is still sooo boring. I admit I generally don't like birthday parties too much. But should I still go ?

2006-07-30 04:39:13 · 15 answers · asked by meiguanxi :) 4 in Friends

wud u concider datin some one who has 4 kids or wud ya run for the hills

2006-07-30 04:38:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

most of my friends said that all the things the psychic told them came true.. for a little curiosity.. i tried to go to a psychic with my friend..! she held my hand and started to talk about my present life..i was like OMG..what she said was all true..she for tell what i did in my present life..(i was really shock)..and she did guess that my love life is going rocky...she said that the guy i love is my soulmate but there's a badluck in between us ...

2006-07-30 04:38:27 · 10 answers · asked by adrianna 1 in Singles & Dating

should i stop talking to her to stop acting that she is my freind i had try to be close to her but her characters is diffrent from mine i dont know what to do.......

2006-07-30 04:36:40 · 5 answers · asked by A.G 2 in Friends

whom I love very much , but I have no power to expres my wish. This is an Islamic Country . What should I do?.......

2006-07-30 04:36:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-30 04:36:11 · 20 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband's ex-wife is constantly calling us with her personal problems. When I answer she either hangs up or starts crying saying it's an emergency and that she needs to talk to my husband. (It usually ends up being that her lawnmower won't start or the kids made a big mess in the house.) He gets upset, but tries to stay civil with her because of his kids.
The last time she called, she and I got into and I told her that she needed to stop this, that she's not his wife anymore. She told me that she doesn't care because she has a NEW boyfriend. Yet she keeps calling...
What should we do?

2006-07-30 04:35:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't talked to him for 2 weeks. Should I mail his stuff to him, or wait until he asks for it?

2006-07-30 04:34:37 · 38 answers · asked by torn 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-30 04:34:15 · 14 answers · asked by henbakjjr 2 in Singles & Dating

im an indian staying at chennai. i met a guy at my coll. we're friends 4 abt one year.everyone started saying that he loves me. i never believed in them & i ignored it.but as days went i felt that he is in love. i could very well guess it 4m his activities. i never had such feelings 4 him so started avoiding him. but once i myself very openly said him that he means nothing to me. hes like abt to cry but he controlled his tears&went off.i avoided him very badly that now he has totaly forgotten me &never even come to my class & he goes back ven he sees me on the way. this makes me fel very bad now. i never felt like this 4 him b4.ven i calculate the total hrs that i hav spoken wit him it would be max 1hr. but now i think abt him atleast 100times an hr.i wanted to stop this but i cant i realy upset i cannot tolerate this anymore . its something like paining inside me.its not love 4 sure.wat shal i do now i need his friendship verybadly. i need to talk to him.how should i approach him.help

2006-07-30 04:34:13 · 8 answers · asked by priya 2 in Friends

2006-07-30 04:34:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-30 04:33:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do think of a girl with alot of something in the back but's little on the top

2006-07-30 04:32:25 · 11 answers · asked by GUESS 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-30 04:31:49 · 19 answers · asked by bayliss_ryan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If 1) you have only been seeing your current girlfriend for a week or so, and 2) the girl with whom you had a one-time fling" hit on YOU first?

This happened yesterday when I went to the park. A 14 year-old and 15 year-old came up to me, started flirting, we hit it off, the 14 year old gave me an oral sex offer, we went to an isolated area, and then she pleasured me and swallowed my load while the 15 year-old went somewhere else for a few minutes. We promised to keep it a secret between the three of us which means my current girlfriend (of one week) probably won't find out.

Later that evening I got another ******* at the cinema, this time from my girlfriend. It was the same theatre in which I got caught cheating on my last girlfriend earlier this month.

Gtetting back to the point, should *I* be blamed when girls come up to my hot self looking to get it on (or in this case, make me feel good by pleasuring me)? I'm just a regular guy, trying to get my rocks off, so what's wrong?

2006-07-30 04:31:38 · 26 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Singles & Dating