What kinda mindframe do you have to be in to prolong ejaculation during sex? Like what is your secret?
And if your answer is "think about something else while doing it", how do you prevent that from interfering with your erection?
Thanks in advance to all.
2006-07-30 04:46:24 · 11 answers · asked by ڒαиìє's ɠσт α ɠυи 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
respiration speed...
just like a yoga exercise... you can control the speed of bodily functions by adjusting respiration..
In order to suspend the ejaculation, you have to take deep breaths instead of quick runin and outs.. It helps especially when you go hot. It cools down your bodily functions without necessarily deflating your erection.
2006-07-30 04:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There are many things to help prolong ejaculation.
To start with... Many may say to double up on condoms. NOT a good idea! The use of two condoms will only help the risk of spreading STD's, and getting someone pregnant since the two condoms will only rub together, create friction, and tear.
That out of the way...
Masturbation before sexual activity often helps to prolong ejaculation. You can also try the various 'cremes' they sell to desensitize the penis. As far as being in a 'mindframe'? I don't believe thinking of anything else during sexual intercourse could possibly help, (And if your answer is "think about something else while doing it", how do you prevent that from interfering with your erection?) You seem to disprove that theory there yourself.
2006-07-30 04:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by sns.harris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to prolong orgasm? for me the only way I can is to take it slowly, which is in contrast to the usual urges I get when I orgasm or try to... but I'm sure if I love someone I could slow down and prolong it at least some... I actually enjoy it this way alot also... its different, no better or worse... it just lasts longer but I don't produce any extra seminal fluid doing it... I just "flood" it out rather than jetting it...
I think the answer I gave explains how its not exactly a mindframe for me, its not about what I'm thinking, more about how I'm feeling and who I'm with and why I want to...
the only thoughts that interfere with my errection are ones where I think of the "wrong" gender instead of the one I'm attracted to ... (note: it will probably make that statement even more confusing to reveal that I'm bisexual)
2006-07-30 04:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by ForgeAus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean.....to keep from 'finishing' to quickly?
If so, then all I can say is....it's hard to describe. It took me a long while to get to that point. I can usually last and last and last, but I think it's more about knowing myself and my body really, really well. If you de-focus too much you aren't able to give what you need to to your partner, but if you focus to much on what you are feeling then you will get lost in it and then......boom......over........lol.
I don't know how I'd describe what I do to get into this mindset. I can't say I think of something else per se, because I don't, but I can't say that I'm totally focused on what I'm feeling, but I am. Being with someone I'm in love with and care about more than anything and focusing on how wonderful that feels is indescribable, yet...I'm not lost in it, otherwise the sensations would overcome me and I'd 'lose it'.
I guess each person has to do their homework and find their own way of walking that line so they, and their partner can enjoy being together, but be able to last so it can be enjoyed.
Does that help you at all???
Sorry, that's the best I can do.
2006-07-30 05:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chuckles, get into Dom space. Take it past merely hot to something absolutely incredible . . . then I'll last as long as I feel like it.
The other thing is to change positions often. that little break in between positions gives us a chance to catch our breath. and some guys last longer in different positions. I know if I definitely want to last a long time. Girl on top is the way to go, multiple different angles to change the pace when I need it.
2006-07-30 04:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i like to think about football. When that fails i just let it go.
2006-07-30 04:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me i just slow my progress down when i'm close to my climax . it takes a lot of practice.
2006-07-30 04:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Rusty Shackleford 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus slow down when im close to finishing
2006-07-30 06:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by jb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just have to keep stopping for a few moments
2006-07-30 05:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by Rooster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i focus on the chick and nothing else
2006-07-30 04:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by chaopred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋