hey guys!!!pls give me a solution!?

Question

im an indian staying at chennai. i met a guy at my coll. we're friends 4 abt one year.everyone started saying that he loves me. i never believed in them & i ignored it.but as days went i felt that he is in love. i could very well guess it 4m his activities. i never had such feelings 4 him so started avoiding him. but once i myself very openly said him that he means nothing to me. hes like abt to cry but he controlled his tears&went off.i avoided him very badly that now he has totaly forgotten me &never even come to my class & he goes back ven he sees me on the way. this makes me fel very bad now. i never felt like this 4 him b4.ven i calculate the total hrs that i hav spoken wit him it would be max 1hr. but now i think abt him atleast 100times an hr.i wanted to stop this but i cant i realy upset i cannot tolerate this anymore . its something like paining inside me.its not love 4 sure.wat shal i do now i need his friendship verybadly. i need to talk to him.how should i approach him.help

Answer 1

Approach him with a smile! A good morning! would be a perfect start. Is there any jewel better than a smile?. Is there any expression better than that?. From your explanation, it does not seem that he expressed the love to you. Just try to find out whether he hates you to the core not to be harmed. A sorry from you would help. Guys cannot ingore a sorry from girls!

Be open, guys are not that bad. Time is the best medicine for anger. I am sure he will accept you back.

Answer 2

Some sort of communication's a must, to join/repair the broken relationship. I think it's an error on your part to be rude, hence, now U have to initiate. Pl. do not let go such a nice friend if not for any other relationship. U need 2 explain him nicely, without hurting him anymore.

Answer 3

Just go up to him and speak to him, maybe apologise for the way you spoke to him, or how you worded it, but do not say 'We can still be friends', I don't know if that works for girls, it definitely doesn't work for guys. If you merely want his friendship, leave him alone. But whatever you do, don't blame yourself too much for what happened, it's very difficult to tell somehow who likes you that you don't reciprocate, without hurting them.

Answer 4

hi dear.. why so sad.. he s ur friend da.. more than that he is loving u a lot.. so it will be a tough to him to be as ur friend.. may be he tell that he s looking u as his friend.. but surely that love feelings come out on some occasion.. so think and decide ok.. may be i am not seen u now.. but i feel ur pain.. coz me too had same pro.. i suffered a lot to make that girl.. but she still oving me.. so i leave it da. dont spoil ur health for this.. think and take wise decision.. en frienduku en manamartha valthukal.. take care.. u speak to him surely he wont reject u.....

Answer 5

He's hurt, and unintentional though it may be, you're the cause so leave him alone and let him cope and heal. Your running in and out of his life will only confuse the issue and compound his misery.

Answer 6

you can go and try and talk to him, it's sounds like things have gotten pretty screwed up already, so the most you can do is try, if things don't work out at least you can say you tried then, after that there isn't much else you can do

Answer 7

if he really loves you give him a chance its nothin but if you dont want to give him a chance you can talk with him and say you'll be friend again and its not difficult.I had the same problem i had a friend and i get i love with her and i tell to her i love her and she go and she dont talk with me 2 months and i tell her i'm sorry and i promise her i dont gonna tell to any one and like this if you want more i gonna tell in messenger my e-mail is [e-mail]

Answer 8

first of all, you gotta talk together. tell him that you don't love him but you like him as a friend and you would like he to be your friend. i think that he wouldn't be as upset as he's now and you'd be best friends!