she is one of my best friends, but her birthday party has been a pretty boring event for a few years in a row now. Even though we have a few common friends it is still sooo boring. I admit I generally don't like birthday parties too much. But should I still go ?
2006-07-30 04:39:13 · 15 answers · asked by meiguanxi :) 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes.You should make honor to her and go.You are invited and she is one of your best friends,This is a good reason.
2006-07-30 04:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Go, just so people don't start gossiping and making up stories about why you didn't go.
Stay for just a little while. Excuse yourself at some point and say you wanted to stop by, but had a previous engagement.
Better to go than not to go and risk all kinds of "drama." In the end, it's less of a hassle. Normally I'd say don't go if you don't really want to, but if you're in the age group I think you are, then better to go and not have the risk of the drama, made-up stories, etc. that might circulate.
2006-07-30 11:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afraid so. Boredom is something we often have to put up with on behalf of friends. But, here's a better idea, why don't you surprise her (as your gift to her) and plan something to make her party a little more exciting. Everyone will benefit -- including you. You don't mention your age, so I can't give any specific ideas or say whether or not you'd need to get in touch with her parents or whoever is throwing the party in order to work this out.
2006-07-30 11:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things you can do: One...be a good friend and go (stop thinking of yourself!) and tell her you can only stay a little while. Bring your gift, chit-chat for 30 minutes and leave. Or: tell her the truth....you hate parties! Then next year she won't invite you. Stop being so self centered and think of others before yourself. You sound like a brat to me...I'm surprised you even have any friends.
2006-07-30 11:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, don't force yourself to go if you don't feel like going. It might make things worst... just call her up and wish her happy birthday. If she's your best friend, she will understand. In fact, I have skipped my good friend's birthday BBQ party yesterday. I told her I will treat her a meal when we hang out together next time.
2006-07-30 11:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya. if your a good friend and you like hang out with her then I think you should go. Hey why not this birthday party maybe different who knowns..
2006-07-30 11:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you dumb ***. I'd hate to have you as a friend. I'd bet you are the type to sleep with a fiend's boyfriend because you are bored. And oh yeah, not every day is about you. This is her day.
2006-07-30 11:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should at least go alittle bit. Hey maybe you could find a way to liven it up alittle bit with a game or something.
2006-07-30 11:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Sammie Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your life you dont have to do anything if you dont want to.And who cares if someone thinks its rude give em the finger and show em what rude is all about with your boot up their ***,
2006-07-30 11:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sas-n-Frass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you don't want to - tell her sorry your parents have something else planned that you can't get out of - if your older tell her you have to go to a family wedding.
2006-07-30 11:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋