If 1) you have only been seeing your current girlfriend for a week or so, and 2) the girl with whom you had a one-time fling" hit on YOU first?
This happened yesterday when I went to the park. A 14 year-old and 15 year-old came up to me, started flirting, we hit it off, the 14 year old gave me an oral sex offer, we went to an isolated area, and then she pleasured me and swallowed my load while the 15 year-old went somewhere else for a few minutes. We promised to keep it a secret between the three of us which means my current girlfriend (of one week) probably won't find out.
Later that evening I got another ******* at the cinema, this time from my girlfriend. It was the same theatre in which I got caught cheating on my last girlfriend earlier this month.
Gtetting back to the point, should *I* be blamed when girls come up to my hot self looking to get it on (or in this case, make me feel good by pleasuring me)? I'm just a regular guy, trying to get my rocks off, so what's wrong?
2006-07-30 04:31:38 · 26 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are still at a young age where you can do what you feel like...i mean committed to anyone..please specify the girls you are with that it is not a committed relationship...go aheaed have a good time..these times might never come back...
2006-07-30 04:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Everything! Doesn't matter if she's a new girlfriend or if you've been dating for years, you still did wrong by her by allowing those other girls to do that! Doesn't matter if they came up to you, because you know something, you didn't tell them "Sorry, I'm dating soemone" and just walk away. I understand talking and flirting with them, because okay, not all that bad. It's just talk. But what you allowed them to do is wrong on so many levels. Your girlfriend is someone you are supposed to be loyal to, someone who can trust you to NOT go do that. You're not friends, you're not just casually dating her, she is your girlfriend, not a damned pet. You care about her, and because of that, you're not supposed to allow anyone else to do anything to you, nor are you supposed to do anything to them. The time you two have been dating doesn't matter. What matters is you did wrong. Tell her, because if you don't, it'll grow bigger.
2006-07-30 11:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by callmegoddess618 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WEll you betta stop cuz sooner or later no girl is going to ttake you seriuosly you shouldn't have did that yesterday, you have a girlfriend you shold be committted one week or not your in a relationship, its now up to you to tell and show every girl that wants you that you have a girlfrineed and no one will get even a lil piece of me than your girl frined otherwise you a hoe
2006-07-30 11:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong you should t be cheating on your girl in the first place, which means if your committed to someone you shouldn t be cheating on her in the frist place. I you truly love her you would tell her the truth even though it might ruin your relationship she has every right to known what you did and maybe she ll forgive you if not then it your lose because you shouldn t have cheated on her in the frist place..
2006-07-30 11:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The "what's wrong here is"...you are calling her your girlfriend, meaning you are together, as one and only, for now. So if your hot self wants to get it on with any one making offers, I suggest you start calling yourself single and dont lead anyone else on thinking you are Just With Them. That's whats wrong here.
2006-07-30 11:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cheating is 4 losers if u r not ready 2 be in a commited relationship then do not be a commited relationship there is nothing wrong with being single n doing what u want.
2006-07-30 11:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
noo, cheatin is not ok in any way. whats the point of being with someone if ur gonna cheat on them? even though they approached u and started to flirt with u, u could've said u had to go and leave. u didnt have to take that girls offer.
2006-07-30 11:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by <3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, pal.....you are a first class looser! Shame on you!!! It is not a "blame" thing........it shows that you are a scum bag and have no respect for females. What if these were your daughters.......how would you like some asshole taking advantage??? But, fear not......guys like you ALWAYS end up paying a price....it is just a metter of time!
2006-07-30 11:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To whom it may concern
In my point of view.No it is not if you cheat on your girlfriend.It is very wrong.If you don't like the girl.Or if you can not get along.Than I think that you should go your way.And let her go her way.And just stay friends.
Lori Love
2006-07-30 11:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by lorithebabe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most unfortunately, there is but ONE Evan. I personally feel that your girlfriend should be inclined to share. After all, you wouldn't want to continue a relationship with her were she really *that* selfish.
2006-07-30 12:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋