I dated a girl for 6 years. We both decided to be jus friends. Now when she asks for advice or needs help bout guys. It seems like im not helpin much at all cuz im a bit jealous. How do i overcome this and be a good friend?
2006-07-30 04:45:09 · 7 answers · asked by krayzeman32 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just try not to think of her as ur ex. she is now ur friend that is a girl, and so treat her like you would treat her if u had never dated. as for jealousy, its normal. Tell her about it if it really makes u mad.
2006-07-30 04:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Gothalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion there is no way to be her friend as long as you have feelings about her. You can tell her that you still love her and you need some time to overcome this. And she'll probably leave you alone for a while to stop being jealous and to start seeing in her just a friend. Or if you want her back, better tell her that you don't want to forget your feelings about her, that you want her back and so on...
2006-07-30 04:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now think about it how many people do you know that break up and actually stay friends, probably none,,either get back with her or leave her be, you will always be jealous of her guy friends DUDE you still love her, now thats something you need to work on..good luck and best wishes
2006-07-30 04:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, this "let's be friends" thing never works. Tell the girl you don't want to hear about the other men in her life and wean yourself out of the relationship completely. It's like you keep scratching a scab and it can't heal. You both need to move on.
2006-07-30 04:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are always going to be jealous you dated her for 6 years hello you don't get over someone that fast. I would be jealous too. after all you shared something special
2006-07-30 05:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by *Krys* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It became rude and inconsiderate, even however what they have been discussing became interior the previous. comments approximately former relationships arise in verbal replace, and that's nice...yet to take a seat down and talk a prior dating, and "what if" in front of a modern-day companion is extremely unfeeling and shabby... you may desire to chat to him approximately this...are not getting offended or yell or lay blame, merely enable him comprehend it made you uncomfortable and disenchanted that he had an ongoing verbal replace, in front of you (yet different than for you) approximately an ex...and probably ask him if he'd want to take a seat down and hear you talk considered one of your exs with somebody...adult males in many cases do no longer want to hearken to approximately our previous relationships (intimately) to any extent further than we could want to hearken to approximately theirs (a minimum of no longer in the form you defined)... with a bit of luck he will supply it some concept, and comprehend it became a adverse judgement call...and say sorry...
2016-10-01 06:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never lovers, ever friends...
2006-07-30 04:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋