Family & Relationships - 24 July 2006

Many of our civil servants, in fear of reaching retirement age have cut their ages half way by securing fresh birth certificates. So have the Politicians who want to over stay in power. Are there any ways that can help the common man determine the ages of these peoples to avoid their lies?

2006-07-24 07:22:21 · 3 answers · asked by kaloyzious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband claims to not think about sex... I do, and thought all men did. He never makes any moves towards sex, I always initiate it. More than half the time however he rejects me. We used to have great sex, he says it's becuase he didn't work as much then. Anyway, I feel totally worthless, and to top it off I have seen in the computer's history that he has been looking at porn... now how does a person not think of sex and look at porn? Anyway, I need to know how I can get him to open up. Everyone tells me to talk to him, but I have and he just says that he is just looking and nothing else.... but I'm still being rejected and he's still looking. I feel like he must not love me. I really need to know why men look at porn if they say that they love their wife? What could a wife do? He says he doesn't have fantasies so I can't try to fulfill any. Anyway, what can I do?

2006-07-24 07:21:44 · 25 answers · asked by colorist 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a relative who is going on 50 living in my house, he is not married, he is not in a relationship. He doesnt work, study. All he does all day is sleep watch telly, and create problems. He doesnt help with the house work, he only pays one bill in the house. How would you guys persude this person to get a life. And move out of my house

2006-07-24 07:21:14 · 16 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2 in Family

2006-07-24 07:21:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 16 and am thinking about losing my virginity and i just want to know what it is it like and things i should watch out for and should i start off small my first time

2006-07-24 07:21:04 · 4 answers · asked by Brown skin 4 in Singles & Dating

By its propper name?

2006-07-24 07:20:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 07:18:49 · 11 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

Been going out with this girl for about a month now and the sex is very very bad. I've been holding out hope that it will get better as we grow closer together but it hasn't. I'm not asking for extraordinary sex here, but 95% of the time, I'm doing everything and she is just sitting there directing traffic. The second I do something not to her exact liking, she will correct me like I'm a 5 year old. Basically she is being stubborn and only worrys about herself being taken care of. There is a basic outline that we follow everytime and it's already getting old and I'm starting to lose interest. Any suggestions on how I can relay the message to her.that I want to change things up a bit? I do satisfy her, but the same can't also be said for me. I have already lied about not being able to perform because simply put, I'm frustrated and turned off.

PS - "I'm" not the problem. I've had a couple partners before (one for 3 years) and they had absolutely no problem at all

2006-07-24 07:16:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bad thing is they said it in front of my daughter. i have never brought up the issue of weight. i was trying to be a true friend and look past the visible features. now i am the one with the hurt feelings. it is not my fault they are overweight. we are going on a trip together to the beach, how should i handle their comments?

2006-07-24 07:15:58 · 58 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

My wife have been in a new life style(swinging) for a year now it started out with me asking her to have a three some with My best friend(no I am not gay) just wanted to give her the best sexual experance she could have. Well this led us in to swinging wich we both enjoy, but We havent had the three some again and my best friend is not available for that any more... So how do I go about finding anothe guy for her for her b-day

2006-07-24 07:15:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and things are realy different now than when we first got together. I dont know if im in love any more....i know i love him but its got to were i get tired of him a lot....and i just dont feel like im in love like i use to feel. I dont want to hang on and hurt him more but i dont want to let go if it could be worked on to become somthing great!!!!! ive told him how i feel and it broke his heart....but he loves me so much that he is willin to try harder....can someone fall back in love again with the same person?? or should i just leave him beacause hangin on is selfish and try to move on?

2006-07-24 07:15:16 · 3 answers · asked by frankki p 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 07:14:14 · 7 answers · asked by rick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 15 and I have just had another argument/fight with my mom. It started when she chucked my favourite cup in the bin, sounds pathetic but i chukcked the bin lid at her (i do have a very very short temper)so that got me wound up real bad. She come over and punched me and my head up against the door she did this two times really hard. For once i havent cried but i have a real headache. She stopped hitting my head against the door and was shouting "Call the police on me..I hate you, get out of my house"!
I dont know what to do.
Please Help!!!!

2006-07-24 07:14:13 · 14 answers · asked by ..joanne.. 1 in Family

Ok so i am talkin to a hot and sweet girl on im and she said this to me " i feel you"
What does that mean?

2006-07-24 07:13:50 · 17 answers · asked by my99car@verizon.net 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been added by this guy on msn (accidently - wrong email address inputted because he wanted to add some other girl he met online apparently) and turns out he used to live in the same area and go to the same school as me and was in the same year as my older brother...
he says that he left that school early so didnt manage to get to know people that well and i questioned him a lot and his answers seem to be quite accurate and correct
its funny because i am naturally a very inquisative and suspicious person and i didnt give him any clues who i was at all - he came out with the info first and then i gradually asked him questions to see if he would answer correctly...

is this sheer coincidence or something suspicious?
i am on a mission to find out but i dont know what else to ask!
any ideas on what i should do to find out?

and for those people who have answered this before, i didnt get many replies so i posted the question again in the hope of getting more ideas :)

2006-07-24 07:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

I just need someone to talk to sometimes.

2006-07-24 07:12:22 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Theirs this boy that won't leave me alone and he keeps buying me stuff. I have no problem with him buying me stuff but I hope he doesn't want anything in return. Any ways what should I do to get him off my joc. Hala.

2006-07-24 07:12:02 · 8 answers · asked by Midnight Moolight 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a girl, she loves me too, we know each other from 5 years. Our parents are strick becoz we are from two different cultures but our cultures are almost same just caste is different. Now i want to ask, if we marry, will it work becoz i think, our families wont be too glad if we marry. do you think, i am doing wrong to go for marriage at age 24. Or i should go for my parents wish and leave her and lator i can fall in love again. Does with age, people forget their first beloved? I mean, Is this because of my age, i am in love ????

2006-07-24 07:11:55 · 24 answers · asked by Sona 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hope everyone is great

2006-07-24 07:08:58 · 21 answers · asked by arbaew 2 in Friends

Okay, I am a really nice, well rounded person. I am responsible (taking care and breaking a colt), smart ( 4.0), not unathletic, caring of other ppl, nice, all of that.

My problem is is with my family. My mom and mostly grandma. With them i just, ughhh. it seems like everything my grandma says is just so stupid. I am very disrespecful to her. I think I resent her and my mom.

See I have a little brother. he is SPOILED. He is one of those kids who have to have EVERYTHING they want. Even just having someone out of a room. If he doesn't get every little thing he wants, he screams and throws a fit. He doesn't even if he doesn't want whatever he is screaming about. EX- "If you don't let me have spagetti o's, i will run away." "No spa. o's" "YEEEES!!!" He screams and throws himself onto the ground. goes and destroys stuff. THat is how he got he way.

How do I change my feelings for my grandma and mom? I hate it when i sass or argue. I hate it when i feel like yelling at my grndma.

2006-07-24 07:08:05 · 6 answers · asked by Horse Lover 2 in Family

2006-07-24 07:07:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Beside role playing...in relationships, do you feel you have to pretend to be another person in order to continue your relationship with your bf/gf? Pretend you're into sports when actually you couldnt tell a football from a diamond plate? Do you pretend that a sappy chick flick touched your heart when you'd actually really want to see somebody being blown the hell up?

2006-07-24 07:07:30 · 16 answers · asked by ladytina30 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 07:07:05 · 4 answers · asked by latennighter 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend cheated on me. Some girl suck his dick. So he called a told me wht happen. So 4 three days i did not talk 2 him. The same day he told me he said he was lyin. A week after he cheated he told me it really happen and he is really sorry. Should i forgive my boyfriend?

2006-07-24 07:06:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 07:05:49 · 20 answers · asked by Gingerbread Man 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im getting married and my sons (8&10) want to change their last names legally to my fiances. their biological father only comes around a few times a year and doesnt pay child support but told us he will NOT let my fiance adopt them. however he did agree to let them change their last name to his. do we have to do a step parent adoption in order to change their last names?

2006-07-24 07:04:57 · 30 answers · asked by tulips♥77 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy on the net, he was the first guy I ever met off the net, well first guy i met ever. He was really sweet at first and texted and called me alot and we chatted online for hours. About 3 weeks into a sexual relationship he stopped calling me, stopped replying to my texts etc. You think I should carry on chasing him or just give up? I really liked him alot, he was the first person I had ever been 100% honest with and around him I could be myself. Could I of got it that wrong:(

2006-07-24 07:04:44 · 9 answers · asked by Happy Truth 1 in Singles & Dating

but this new person is just not the same as the guy I have been seeing for over a year. I knew it would end because he is married but still I have an awful void in my heart. I had a good time meeting the new guy but there are things about him that bother me, he is kinda cheap ( 1 item of the dollar menu only) and he can be simple minded and boring sometimes. He is single but In the month that I have know him I haven't seen him but twice. How do I get interested in this guy and feel the same way about him as I did the guy I just lost when there are things about him that turn me off?

2006-07-24 07:04:25 · 9 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

for 6 mth since i split with my wife i have been feeling low.
now i have came to terms with it and we have an agreement of friends which has its good days and bad days.
why am i in this emotional cycle?
average pattern of 3 or 4 days feeling great life in order ect..
then 1 to 2 days of feeling really low, worrying about nothing and feel like crying and as if i have nothing to live for?
but wierd thing is i have everything to live for.
i just want it to stop i dont know why i cant just feel great or at least ok about things all of the time.

2006-07-24 07:04:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I try not to harp on the past, but sometimes i wonder about some of the guys I dated in the past...generally i wonder how their lives have developed, and what not, not really a desire to be with them again...is that bad?

2006-07-24 07:04:06 · 1 answers · asked by Lemme tell ya... 5 in Singles & Dating