2006-07-24 07:18:49 · 11 answers · asked by curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
7 years and moving on
2006-07-24 07:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were together 5 1/2 years or you've been broken up for 5 1/2 years?
together= split everything and get the hell away from one another, before you find reasons to hate each other
been apart 5 1/2 years= Get over it cause it's done.
2006-07-24 07:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by SOG Wrath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty ... just be honest ... not mean or nasty honest, just straight up and factual. There is no point dodging the cause of the problems and pretending like things may one day be OK if they're not. There's no such thing as a "good" or "nice" way to break up, especially after such a long time together.
2006-07-24 07:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ Nickels ♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find something to do with my time other than sitting on the couch looking at old pictures or something like that.
Realize that this was a learning experience and it is preparing you for the person you are supposed to be with.
It may help to find a hobby to help eat up some of your free time.Try something healthy like taking up martial arts or yoga,something that involves a social atmosphere. You never know,that special person can already be there waiting for someone like you to come in to their life.
2006-07-24 07:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a very sensitive gurl n i can imagine ur state of mind...u mus
b feelin 2 low...mus b crying every minute thinkin abou the gud times n why it all hapnd..why were u chosen...but c u need to talk it out completely many times to the people u trust...coz then it will b less painful. write it down in a diary as it lessens the sorrow. try to b in company of ur parents or friens,,,watch tv or involve urself for whole day. gudluck sweety. even im going through the same state of mind, boys r like this.....
2006-07-24 07:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by zeba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first thing is u need to let it all out. 5years was a long time. then u need to be strong. u need to realize that its not over but a new chapter in ur life. go out and have fun. i know this will all take time but hey sooner or later u will c that everythings going to be ok.just have to be strong and try to meet some people.go out and have fun dont sit there in ur room and be in sorrow. go out with ur friends and have a good time.good luck
2006-07-24 07:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow and i thought a 3 yr break up was bad... im getting over it slowly, u just got to be strong and think in ur mind i can do better than this person. no matter what theres someone better for you!! cheer up. make ur self look hott, go out, make ur ex jealous and trust me it will make u feel great about urself :D
2006-07-24 07:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by diamondprincezz456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that life really does go on, inevitably it moves forward, and you have to move with it. Allow yourself time to grieve. Take "just me" times each day where you do something for yourself, whether it's to cry, laugh, take a walk, soak in a tub, read or walk in the park...but those "just me" times allow your mind to wander and think and feel...and heal.
2006-07-24 07:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Cry , Cry and Cry your heart out. You will be mourning the death of a reationship. Seek comfort of your friends and family. Reflect on making things better for your self and try to move on.
2006-07-24 07:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start going out and finding new things and people to do.
2006-07-24 07:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋