Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and things are realy different now than when we first got together. I dont know if im in love any more....i know i love him but its got to were i get tired of him a lot....and i just dont feel like im in love like i use to feel. I dont want to hang on and hurt him more but i dont want to let go if it could be worked on to become somthing great!!!!! ive told him how i feel and it broke his heart....but he loves me so much that he is willin to try harder....can someone fall back in love again with the same person?? or should i just leave him beacause hangin on is selfish and try to move on?
2006-07-24 07:15:16 · 3 answers · asked by frankki p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like the "newness" of the relationship is off. If you're looking for the way you felt when you first got together... forget it, it's gone... people grow and change and so do relationships. The question shouldnt be can we get back what we had, but do I love what we have now. No amount of work from either of you can bring back the fresh love feeling. You just need to figure out if you have the true love feeling.
2006-07-24 07:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by SOG Wrath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i tell you if you dont let him go now it could get to where you may not want him around at all give your self some space give it time couse you may or may not fall back in love with him i hope things work out good luck to you and him
2006-07-24 14:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by shyshyunmee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay good job for telling him. that was a good first step. and it is lovely that he's willing to try harder.yes you can fall back in love with someone. and at times it is a stronger love then you felt before. it is not selfish to hold on. especially when he knows what's going on and he wants to hold on too.
2006-07-24 14:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by GDK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋