Family & Relationships - 23 July 2006

my husband goes limp and seems to find excuses not to want to have sex weather it be he is to tierd for a 3 am sexually encounter or "its to early when i get home since i work night...alot has changed since we had out 4 mo old i am very frustrated but ...i dunno what else to do... I find my self pissed off i love sex and i would never cheat but do u thinks its me or what wtaht would you do has this ever happend to you, i think its to early and were young to be facing this already...

2006-07-23 03:43:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please help. I need some advise on why I can't find someone special. Here is my profile on Yahoo personals:http://personals.yahoo.com/us/personals-1149889589-534075
Someone please tell me whats wrong......

2006-07-23 03:42:03 · 9 answers · asked by aaron c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

your daugther is working for 3 years now in the most beautiful restaurant in Groningen and she is one of the best, te pup pa pa

2006-07-23 03:41:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

supposedly it only happened once. he apologized, begged me not to leave and cried with me. he swore that he was trying to change, he started going to church every week and he makes sure that i always know where he is and that i can always get in touch with him. he does seem genuinely sorry while i am still struggling to understand why it happened. at the same time i just could not leave but i don't want to look stupid. am i?

2006-07-23 03:41:47 · 22 answers · asked by cirnek73 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-23 03:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by imlaura2006 1 in Singles & Dating

You can know a person for a while, they show interest in you
so you finally ask them out and you get I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.
Dont flirt if you dont mean it.

2006-07-23 03:41:09 · 4 answers · asked by lil bit 1 in Singles & Dating

I MET MY GUY 23 YEARS AGO, WE FOOLED AOUND A COUPLE OF YEARS, HE WAS 36 AND I WAS 17. WE BEEN BACK TOGETHER 8 YEARS COME OCTOBER AND WE,RE TALKING ABOUT GETTING MARRIED, BY THE WAY I'M 40 AND HE'S 59. HE HAS A DAUGHTER THATS 27 AND SHE'S BEEN HERE 6 YEARS AND SHE HAVE A SON THATS 5. TWO YEARS AGO HE GAVE HIS SON A 1,000 DOLLARS TO CATCH UP WITH HIS MORTGAGE AND HE STILL LOST HIS HOUSE, SO HES BEEN HERE FOR TWO YEARS, HIS DAUGHTER JUST FINISH COLLEGE BUT SHE NEEDS TO PASS THE STATE TEST FOR NURSING, SHES FELLED IT TWICE. HIS SON WENT TO SCHOOL FOR A ASSOCIATE DEGREE AND JUST TOOK GENERAL STUDIES, HE DID'NT MAJORED IN NOTHING,
BUT WHILE HE WAS THERE HE WAS IN A PLAY AND THEN HE
WANTED TO BE AN ACTOR, HE HAS NO PROBLEM GETTING JOBS, BUT HE KEEPS QUITING THEM. HE WAS LIVING IN THE DINING ROOM, NOW THATS CLUTTERED WITH CLOTHS, IN BAGS, I MENTIONED HAMPERS HE BOUGHT ONE, HE GOT TEN BIG GARBAGE BAGS ON THE FLOOR IN CORNERS AND CLOTHS THROWN ON TOP OF THEM. HE HAS CLOTHS HANGING ON HANGERS .

2006-07-23 03:39:52 · 8 answers · asked by sharky 1 in Family

duplicity is contradictory doubleness of thought, speech, or action; especially : the belying of one's true intentions by deceptive words or action

i was being told one thing and my instincts were telling me it was lies and i knew where to find the answers.........
what do you think??

2006-07-23 03:39:15 · 18 answers · asked by clairejoolz78 3 in Friends

what makes you get hard in the morning and what happens when you do, do u let it go down or do you do something about it?

2006-07-23 03:39:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been approached with an engagement proposal from a man who is 16 years older than I am (I'm 30). The chemistry is there (I thought he was younger; it was an eyeopener to know his real age!), but the only thing I worry about is public opinion. We are both Jewish, and part of an Orthodox community. What would you make of it all?

2006-07-23 03:38:58 · 37 answers · asked by ms_moonlight1977 2 in Marriage & Divorce

but there is no real garuntee of a relationship.. not having sex makes me feel ugly and in the minority. i know he loves me, he has told me so and we are both single. is it better to have sex with a true friend you feel love for or a random that would be fun but not have strings attached? it used to mean so much to me, but now i think of it as an experience that is inevitable, and probably wont be perfect. i dont want a lecture about the morality of it all, just on whether my first time should be with a friend (which could have negative consequences, but have meaning), or someone else which would be fun.

2006-07-23 03:38:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We met online two weeks ago and talked every night for hours, and met in real life last Sunday. That night he asked me out again and bought tickets for us to a concert in August. We set up a date for Thursday, but I had a situation come up and had to cancel. Since then, and it seems like since Sunday, he talks to me a lot less and doesn't seem to be pursuing setting up an interim date. My intuition therefore says he's not that into me, or maybe he has a lot of other dates, I don't know. Things like this don't normally bother me and I would just let him stop talking to me without a word, but because of this future date set up I'm wondering if I should somehow ask what is up. Do I do that? Or am I overreacting?

2006-07-23 03:38:10 · 5 answers · asked by ack 2 in Singles & Dating

she is short and i am tall it turns very difficult for both of us to satisfie each other.

2006-07-23 03:38:04 · 21 answers · asked by ray 1 in Weddings

when u have split up with ur gf, and u miss the sex. How long is it till u miss the sex and would u just sleep with any girl even though u still cared about ur ex even though u could win her back, but am scared incase u hurt her again?

2006-07-23 03:36:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-23 03:36:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-23 03:35:57 · 15 answers · asked by disco5z 1 in Friends

2006-07-23 03:34:59 · 18 answers · asked by Energius B 2 in Singles & Dating

i think the best way to chill out is go out with frnds...maybe a beach or smething..i hate the idea of movie outing theres no interaction in that...wld luv to go to beach or amusment park or simply gather up in a nice place for a dinner..tell me wat u think

2006-07-23 03:33:55 · 10 answers · asked by sweetangel32 1 in Friends

habits because she is single . Im 31 mother is almost 50 . I go along because it turns him on . Do you think he really wants my mother ?

2006-07-23 03:33:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been lookingfor so long, I know she must be out there someplace.

2006-07-23 03:33:14 · 2 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-23 03:33:14 · 2 answers · asked by someone 3 in Singles & Dating

opinion...I am willing to change my hair colour..My current hair colour is light brown (my natural colour) and since im really really white..i was thinking to change it into black..
my eyez colour is hazel/green....
what do u think???????????

2006-07-23 03:32:30 · 13 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

She doesn't want to move here to the states but thinks I should just drop everything and move to her small *** town in Newfoundland Canada where I'll be completely cut off from anyone remotely like me. any helpful thoughts or ideas because I'm seriously thinking about calling it quits over this.

2006-07-23 03:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by navyflyrz 2 in Weddings

What can I do to get my husband sexuly active again? he's only 39 and nutta. we only been married for 3 years,and we haven't changed phicaly. befor marriage, he was all over. on our wedding night it stoped,and only once since.i'm going crazy. HELP ME

2006-07-23 03:30:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why did u split and whose choice was it?

2006-07-23 03:27:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday my bf and I broke up and I asked him is it the whole cheating thing and he said thats part of it.And he also said he did worse that explains it b/c before I cheated he stoped saying I miss u and I love u. And then he said we need to take a break. He didn't even properly explain why we were breaking up do u think he cheated on me?

2006-07-23 03:27:03 · 12 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

Mine does not. It is a rule of hers. No butt slapping.

2006-07-23 03:27:01 · 15 answers · asked by timmy n 1 in Singles & Dating

This morning while me and my husband of 4 yrs were lying in bed I asked him if he was still in love with me. He asked me why would I say that. I told him because I feel that he only loves me becasue of the two kids we have. He never replied back, all he did was hug me and that was all. Was him hugging me telling that he loves me or was that hug only a hug of saddness becasue he no longer is in love with me. Please tell me what you think.

2006-07-23 03:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by Proud Mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

one has a good personality and the other is really fit. who do i choose and how?

2006-07-23 03:25:35 · 17 answers · asked by stephaniekathleen n 1 in Friends

the first one we have made plans to met as soon as he can get back home to the states.but the second guy will be coming home in a few days what is a girl to do? i have never had this problem before in my life. the funny part is that i like both. and dont know if i should say any thing to either one about the other ? help me out please need some one who knows what to do. what would you do if you where in my shoes? do you think i should tell them about each other?i dont feel right about this . i have never done any like this in my life. i have done everything to try and change their minds and nothing has worked . help confused in ny.

2006-07-23 03:25:15 · 8 answers · asked by roneygirl1964 1 in Marriage & Divorce