Why did u split and whose choice was it?
2006-07-23 03:27:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im goin through it now and wanted some suggestions from people who are experiencing it now how they are gettin on with things, cuz i cant
2006-07-23 03:31:12 · update #1
I have broken up with my guy a few times, for various reasons: cheating, not paying attention to my needs in the relationship, and etc... and I gotta admit my last break up with him was really hard since we had been together for so long..
The one thing I did to keep my mind off of it, after all the crying, was going out with friends to movies, clubs, dinners, and etc. Also I tried to stay around people who I assigned the job to make sure I didn't think about him, so they always asked what I was thinking and then they would remind me, why we broke up and we very supportive.
A good circle of friends and family is necessary to get over a breakup...also, I recommend you look into doing things that make you happy, regardless of what activity it is. Just try to stay active and make sure that he doesn't cross your mind too much. Also, if you intend to be reflective about the situation then make sure you are with a friend you trust, tell her/him exactly what you are thinking and then cry, crying feels good...even though it hurts. Just keep a friend around u all the time, it allows for you to focus on someone else for a change.
2006-07-23 03:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah me and my bf just broke up....it was sort of a mutual thang though because we had a fight and I said I needed to chill and he did too....but yeah its a heartache of course he was my first everything and we would have been going out for a year, then Ive known him for like 4 years before and we have always been best friends...so right now Im in the process of moving on, spending time with family and friends, working (i work two jobs) and just trying to relax...honestly i really don't have time to think about the breakup anymore im so busy...but thats the way love goes!!!!!
2006-07-23 03:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just split with my bf a couple days ago, we where going out for a long time but it was just so hard not being able to see each other so we decided that we where still going to be really close friends, and call each other all the time, so it was a mutual thing, even though i still love him to death, i'm getting over it by hanging out with my friends and staying in touch with him, that way we can still be really close emotionally but be able to go and hang out with other people...who knows maybe later in life it will work out cause if it really is true love it will work...
2006-07-23 03:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by pshh =] 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes. and let me tell you, sister. it was tragic.
my heart is like a thousand birds, all migrating in seperate directions for the cold dark winter i'm entering.
she definently done me dirty. no..really.
you have no idea how many diseases you can get from just one person.
it was my first time!!! this isn't fair! :(
... so i do the only thing i can to get over it..
i have sex with as many indescriminate people as i can. of course, i don't tell them i have some pretty nasty stuff down there... that's not my problem.
it makes me feel so good, when i have been feeling so bad.
2006-07-23 03:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by smartyphred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ack, there's no hard and fast rule, just take your time, cry, eat, cry, go out and have a meaningless affair (if you wish) regret pretty much everything then over time you will get over it, but if you loved him then you'll never truly forget, but things will get better, how long and how easy it will be is something that you'll find out soon.
2006-07-23 03:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by hellahulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it was his choice. I am looking for answers my self. I am trying to find a bf b/c I have alot of love to give away right now.
2006-07-23 03:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My exs? I omit what we had, yet them? No, no longer truly. I propose it sucks and all yet i'm no longer going to stay on it. Theres quite some fish contained in the sea, and that i have met an extremely staggering fish. Now shall we see the position that is going..
2016-10-15 02:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i broke up w/ my bf and it was a heartache and im still not over it and never will be, bc my love for him is huge
2006-07-23 03:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult......to come out of it.....I just pass through this and I think it's mine life's worst experience.......but time make every thing possible.....just give yourself a bit time....every thing will be fine.....Best of Luck for Future.
2006-07-23 03:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by Ashish M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if we do this friday it will be my choice and b/c of spiritual stuff. not sure though since i didn't talk to him yet. have to wait till he gets into town again.
2006-07-23 10:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋