duplicity is contradictory doubleness of thought, speech, or action; especially : the belying of one's true intentions by deceptive words or action
i was being told one thing and my instincts were telling me it was lies and i knew where to find the answers.........
what do you think??
2006-07-23 03:39:15 · 18 answers · asked by clairejoolz78 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get the answers you need. Just keep in mind mistrust begets mistrust.
2006-07-23 04:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES if you are snooping to get the proof you need go for it, I had chatting to someone on yahoo IM but he kept messing up the story about himself so i knew he was lying so i dont speak to him ne more.
2006-07-23 03:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by lozzi_pop22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom always told me when you look for thing you find worse and what a person does in the dark aways comes out in the light and if there is no trust in your relationship 9 times out of 10 there will never be any and the both or you just wasting y'all time i learned the hard way
2006-07-23 03:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by beebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it is!!! I was raised to "Respect" others things, etc....But, if you feel, you have "Just-Cause", I would want to know, and "Yes" I would also go checking around for "Proof" just so I could either "Relax" about the whole thing, or "Confront" him with: Demanding some answers !!! Then, if he's "Guilty" those are definately grounds, for "Devorce" even, the bible says so...
2006-07-23 03:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically my brother was trying to spin me a story and he mentioned about his neighbour knew this too so i just called to the neighbour and asked about his story .
He was lying and thought I'd not say to the neighbour.
if you are proven wrong fine but i like to have facts if I'm suspicious
2006-07-23 03:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say yes so you can gather all the gfacts and lay it all out on the line for the person that is lying to you. that way when you confront them about you have the proof to back you up. they always say trust you instintcts they never lie that is how i fould out that my man was messing around or trying to mess around with someone else ....
2006-07-23 03:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by mlil27angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your partner, husband then you have every right to snoop, only people who lie are the ones with something to hide, think about it, you know it makes sense...
2006-07-26 07:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by thalia_marks'swife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. If you ask anyone other then the person you think is lying you'll get the same response too.
2006-07-23 03:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Treat Infamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to ur subconcious, always right! if u feel uneasy bout something ur gonna react, its only natural, and only you can decide sensibly whether u are doing the right thing by doing the "snooping" thing, I KNOW I WOULD!!
2006-07-23 03:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by storm.minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I did this recently and found my husband was not where he was supposed to be nor was he alone there. snoop and find out or you'll go crazy wondering
2006-07-23 03:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋