Family & Relationships - 20 July 2006

we have been dating since april of this year and he just told me that he got a job offer to move and to make more money and he told me that my kids and i are the only reason why he does'nt want to move but he offered me a chance to go with him and all of my family lives where i am right now nad i really don't want to move then again i really want to see what the rest of the world is like. he told me that he loves me and that i think makes things even more confusing for me i just need some advice will you help me out?

2006-07-20 06:40:27 · 4 answers · asked by je041376 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-20 06:40:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 06:39:05 · 9 answers · asked by dizzys_gal 2 in Singles & Dating

I moved across the state a few weeks ago, 2 months after school ended. I haven't talked to the guy since the last day of school. Thing about him is, ever since Valentine's Day, there was something different between us. We weren't friends anymore, but something beyond that. Now I requested to be his MySpace friend, and I think he denied it. I can't stop thinking about it... what do I do? When I send him a message he just reads it and doesn't reply... (he knows I moved because I had another friend tell them all goodbye)

2006-07-20 06:38:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-20 06:38:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend wants me to wear something sexy but i dont know what to get. plus i dont really like going into places like that. (*** shops)

2006-07-20 06:38:24 · 24 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 06:37:52 · 11 answers · asked by Natasha C 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 06:37:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have fell in love with a man that I chat with everyday for that last 2 1/2 years .

2006-07-20 06:36:52 · 3 answers · asked by sherianne_29 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm single and I think I will die that will, because I don't think there anyone out there for me! But I guess thats life!

2006-07-20 06:36:45 · 10 answers · asked by nickelbee 1 in Singles & Dating

Imagine you are all alone at home...it is late at night and your best friend doesnt answer your call for some reason and you just really want to talk to some1 what would you do?

2006-07-20 06:36:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-20 06:36:15 · 18 answers · asked by youngbp2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-20 06:35:54 · 25 answers · asked by francie_oh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

tell the truth is girlfriend hottier then her,in the middle, or not!!!

2006-07-20 06:35:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 06:34:23 · 18 answers · asked by Kipper 6 in Family

God said,'Love your neigbour as you love yourself'. Democracy also means freedom to do whatever you want to do,as long as it does not infringe on the rights and freedom of others. Whose rights and freedoms do the gay and lesbians trode over when they mary their kind?

2006-07-20 06:33:48 · 28 answers · asked by kaloyzious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I met this cute guy at my friends party. She tried to get us to makeout, but I didn't really want to(I JUST MET HIM). So, when I get home, he asks me out. I told him that we should get to know eachother, so he was gonna go to my school dance. He didn't show, and I got really mad and sad, so I just said F-You. The next day he called me and apologized(how sweet?) And then decided it was my fault.~~~~~Some time later~~~~~ Less than a week later, he dates my best friend!!! Then I realized ho much I liked him, but, of course, he hates me. They just broke up, but he isn't really talking to me... What should I do?

2006-07-20 06:32:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

DO u think I am over exagerating...I have a bf of 5yrs now...sometimes he says things that hurt...i was joking around with him and asked on a scale from 1-10 how would u rate me...ok Im no 10..i know this but the fact that he actually answered that..he always says im perfect n stuff...he gave me a 9...but im not perfect enough for him?...i dont get it...and whn i was joking abt him finding a pretteir girl then me..he said well realistly there r prettier girls then u...i havent seen them but there are...ok thats realistic.....BUT WHO SAYS THAT TO UR FUTURE WIFE??? So0o0o we r in a fight now and he's mad b/c was upset that he told me the truth...he doesnt understand that sometimes ur supposed to keep ur mouth shut...i dont get it...do u guys think im wrong?

2006-07-20 06:31:52 · 29 answers · asked by chaand5 3 in Singles & Dating

I’m 19, 20 in Dec and I’ve been with my fiancé now for about 4 years. We lived with his mom briefly to save money for our place. Unfortunately- we needed some space to see where our lives were going and if it was what we really wanted or not. It was. So I moved out of that house. Now I live with my mother in a 1 bdr apartment- not by choice- she can’t afford anything more. She’s a single mom that does the best she can. I’m supposed to be getting my own apartment soon- however my credit score isn’t high enough because I’m so young. So in the meantime- my fiancé and I spend time at his place. Away from my mom- we don’t get along. Anywho- I get a phone call from his mother today who’s known me since I was 14 years old. She says: I don’t want you to take this the wrong way but things have been better since you left. There’s not as much “friction” in the house, and Mike spends more time with his brother now. Ugh. Ok? So what does that have to do with me? I always helped out, paid her rent, and watched her kid. She doesn’t want to wake up and see my car in the drive way anymore- and if he and I don’t “follow” the rules, I’m not allowed over period? Huh? Did she just automatically get controlling or what? She basically said she doesn’t want me to move in like before- I have way to much pride to do that. It hurts that the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, his mother, dislikes me for some reason out of the blue. She says everyone’s made comments about how “calm” the house has been. She keeps saying that there was tension when I was around we argued and what not. Ugh. I always felt like it was competition between me and her with her son/my fiancé. I just want things to go back to the way they were- it’s like she doesn’t want us to be together and I’m getting frustrated. What do I do?

2006-07-20 06:31:46 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Weddings

OK so my boyfriend says that I don't talk enough....my question is...isn't it normal for there to be silent moments???

2006-07-20 06:30:33 · 28 answers · asked by baffled 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 06:30:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she has put on a lot of pounds, promises to lose it but has not

2006-07-20 06:29:20 · 25 answers · asked by mike123456789 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Back in sixth grade, I had one rumor that was affecting my life. It was about me and my best best friend Abby. We've been friend since second grade, and now everyone thinks that we're dating. Now, the year's over and it still haunts me. How can I make it stop?

2006-07-20 06:29:05 · 2 answers · asked by Sean R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do we go back to someone who we know is no good for us? Why do still communicate with them? Even though we have the evidence thats points to there wrong doing? Why we apologize when we are not at fault?

2006-07-20 06:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 06:28:03 · 8 answers · asked by john b 1 in Singles & Dating

do you know any good one's?..or good ice breakers?...dont wanna come on too strong juss wanna start a convo...

2006-07-20 06:27:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-20 06:27:09 · 21 answers · asked by scooter47 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom was sick last weekend and i totally did everything. now, i'm sick and she's being really cold. she even was kinda upset that i couldn't help her with dinner last nite... i wanted to but i was so curled up in pain! am i wrong for hoping that she'd take care of me too???

2006-07-20 06:26:46 · 12 answers · asked by mar 1 in Family

i am 14 and my boyfriend asked me to marry him and i said yes was that the wrong answer??? we have started planing the wedding he wants to get married on my 16th birthday(06/29/08) do u think that is two young??? and the third problem is maids of honor my three bestfriends want to be maid of honor plus his bestfriend in the whole wide world(since he was like three) wants to be maid of honor and she is one of my best friends too so what should i do and if u have ANY IDEAS FOR A GOOD WEDDING PLEASE EMAIL THEM TO ME AT whitetigereyes_2010@yahoo.com

2006-07-20 06:26:20 · 12 answers · asked by heartbreaker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Because of my experiences being racially discriminated, and socially discriminated( because i'm shy and quiet and i'm not white), and being bullied in school, etc.. i have come to think i'm a bunch of worthless cr*p. Sometimes i try to get that out of my mind but if i think of my childhood or any of these experiences i had., it comes back to mind.

But i still feel like someday i wuld like to have a gf. I'm 26 and have no gf or friends. Is it possible to have a good relationship if i have these thoughts in my head often? i would say no.. so yes i have to change.. but i try and i cannot deny my past , and when i think about it...it makes me think that way again.

2006-07-20 06:25:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating