we have been dating since april of this year and he just told me that he got a job offer to move and to make more money and he told me that my kids and i are the only reason why he does'nt want to move but he offered me a chance to go with him and all of my family lives where i am right now nad i really don't want to move then again i really want to see what the rest of the world is like. he told me that he loves me and that i think makes things even more confusing for me i just need some advice will you help me out?
2006-07-20 06:40:27 · 4 answers · asked by je041376 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Where do YOU want to live. Are you close to family? Remember, he is a boyfriend...not a husband. I would stay where you are now and tell him to take the job and when you are ready, you will visit. If he throws a fit, that will be just a glimpse of what kind of person you will be living with. Sure, he might be a great guy, but you need to put you and your children first. Are your children already enrolled in school and have nearby friends? You got to factor them in too.
Good luck and remember, only you can make you happy not him.
2006-07-20 06:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see April to July is 3 months, and you have children to think of. Let him go to his job alone. If you guys have anything worth keeping, the distance won't hurt it. Make sure you want to spend your life with the guy before you uproot yourself and your kids with that kind of life - changing move.
2006-07-20 08:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay where you are, I tried that but my ex moved to cali from Colorado it lasted 4 months he is due to drive back with his children today!
2006-07-20 06:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do it. You have not been with him that long to move. Time is an important factor. Do not rush the relationship...Choose with your head.
2006-07-20 06:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋