So, I met this cute guy at my friends party. She tried to get us to makeout, but I didn't really want to(I JUST MET HIM). So, when I get home, he asks me out. I told him that we should get to know eachother, so he was gonna go to my school dance. He didn't show, and I got really mad and sad, so I just said F-You. The next day he called me and apologized(how sweet?) And then decided it was my fault.~~~~~Some time later~~~~~ Less than a week later, he dates my best friend!!! Then I realized ho much I liked him, but, of course, he hates me. They just broke up, but he isn't really talking to me... What should I do?
2006-07-20 06:32:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a few days ago, at his bar mitzvah, he was soooooo nice and he has an amazing personality!!!! And part of me feels like he still likes me...?
2006-07-20 06:37:23 · update #1
You are 13 and worried about dating and making out at parties? Man, times have changed since my days of youth.
This is the perfect time for you to learn to play it cool. Let the boys come to you. If you swoon over them and chase after them, they will think you are desperate and won't want to be with you. Instead, smile and flirt when they're around, but don't seek them out. And if there is a boy you really like, flirt with a different boy in front of him.
The most important thing I can tell you is don't move too fast. You are young, so don't start thinking you need to be an adult and make out or have sex (or any sort). You have SO much time for that. And watch out if you go to camp - that's where most of it happens.
2006-07-20 06:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kristina S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. You can't make someone like you. When a man wants or loves you, he won't leave you alone. This guy you speak of is probably nice, but he is obviously not interested.
2006-07-20 13:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like my problem i had.if u really like him keep tryin dont give up.it worked 4 me itryed 4 2 months i tryed and now my best friend is tlkin 2 me.i neva gave up even tho peeps told me 2 but i didnt listin 2 them.so if u like him that much dont give up
2006-07-20 13:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by JEF2KRF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, he's a player...he just wants to hop on one booty to the next...and I know cuz I usta be like in love with this guy, he liked me at first, then I didn't like him, then I liked him, and he didn't like me...and he was just a jerk and dated everyone it seemed like to try and make me jealous...it hurts in the shortrun, but in the longrun you realize that they aren't worth your time or tears.
2006-07-20 13:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself the heartache he stood you up once already he'll do it again. My advice to you is just to get over him and move on
2006-07-20 13:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by cal-p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him,u dont really like him trust me
once a girl asked me out i said no,i didnt like her.she went out with some one else then i said deown i passed her up.4 weeks i asked her out then when i was with her i was like i dont like her .
(point is u got jelous u dont like him)
2006-07-20 13:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by Compton,CA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He stood you up! He has NO feelings for you- MOVE ON
2006-07-20 13:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 thing to say, u r da most dumb girl i've ever seen....
2006-07-20 13:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by lonely_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, he is scum.
2006-07-20 13:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by mjcariati1971 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋