i am 14 and my boyfriend asked me to marry him and i said yes was that the wrong answer??? we have started planing the wedding he wants to get married on my 16th birthday(06/29/08) do u think that is two young??? and the third problem is maids of honor my three bestfriends want to be maid of honor plus his bestfriend in the whole wide world(since he was like three) wants to be maid of honor and she is one of my best friends too so what should i do and if u have ANY IDEAS FOR A GOOD WEDDING PLEASE EMAIL THEM TO ME AT whitetigereyes_2010@yahoo.com
2006-07-20 06:26:20 · 12 answers · asked by heartbreaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your parents are going to sign the papers for u to get married when ur 16??? because unless they do u cant get married till your 18..
2006-07-20 07:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 years old?!!! What do your parents think? How old is your boyfriend? My parents didn't let me date until I was 16, and even then I made some bad choices and found myself attracted to some bums. The chances that you are making a wise choice at 14 are very slim.
Your friends don't get to decide who is the maid of honor. That's an "honor" that you bestow, and only you get to decide. And quite frankly, if you are not confident enough to make that decision and handle disappointment in your friends, you are not ready to be married. And how is it that you have so many "best friends"? If that is true, don't pick a maid of honor at all--just have them all be equal brides' maids and share the duties of the maid of honor.
You will be a completely different woman in your 20's from the girl that you are now. Don't get married until you are more defined in who you are.
2006-07-20 13:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1--Do not get married
How old is he?
2--Stop planning the wedding because you do not need to have one until you at least graduate highschool
3--Worry about the maids of honor after your graduate high school and plan your wedding.
make it through highschool and then get married
You arnt even old enough to legally consumate the marriage.
You cant even legally work.
Maintaining a Marriage is hard work, and I mean really hard, not like a 40 hour work week, which you have yet to experience, but like your Finals week where all you do is cram.
Word of advise--you always think you are in love with the one you lose your virginity to.
2006-07-20 13:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by hectortuba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE TOO YOUNG!!
Finish school... be a kid, for god's sake, You WILL regret not getting to be an independent woman for a bit before you get married and I predict you will end in divorce. Do your parents know?
You aren't even old enough to have the maturity to pick a maid of honor, do you think you have a CLUE about how to hold a marriage together? YOU WILL REGRET THIS! 14 is TOOOOOOOOO YOUNG TO BE THINKING ABOUT MARRIAGE!!
2006-07-20 13:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are way to young to even be thinking about marriage. Belive me I've been there. I had 5 kids by the time I was 21.I know you think you are all grown up and the two of you maybe really in love but wait til you are out of school at least. If it is TRUE LOVE it will last that long
2006-07-20 13:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by jo h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer one: yes, you are waaaay too young to be married.
Answer two: Yes, at age 16 you are waaaaay too young to be married.
Answer three: Wait until you are old enough and choose then.
How old is your boyfriend? Do you seriously think you can support yourself at this young age? It's hard to go to school and be married or pregnant. Wait until you are older.
2006-07-20 13:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Seeking answers in Him 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong to say "yes" at this moment because you love him
right? But the truth is you are really too young to think about marriage. Believe me you will see things different when you get older.
2006-07-20 13:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14?
Where will you live? How will you support yourselves?
You aren't even old enough to drive.
Wait at least until you both graduate - even that's too young in my opinion.
Marriage is not the fairytale portrayed in the movies.
2006-07-20 13:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by Aura Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap, grow up before you actually decide to make an adult decision and get married. I am sure you parents are VERY proud of you.
2006-07-20 13:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats way to young, wheres your parents at? it looks like hes doing this, so he can get down your pants.
2006-07-20 13:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋