I moved across the state a few weeks ago, 2 months after school ended. I haven't talked to the guy since the last day of school. Thing about him is, ever since Valentine's Day, there was something different between us. We weren't friends anymore, but something beyond that. Now I requested to be his MySpace friend, and I think he denied it. I can't stop thinking about it... what do I do? When I send him a message he just reads it and doesn't reply... (he knows I moved because I had another friend tell them all goodbye)
2006-07-20 06:38:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I couldn't call him to say goodbye because his brother would've answered the phone and his brother's a jerk!
2006-07-20 06:43:26 · update #1
He is hurt by the way you handled. Its not your fault you didn't realize nor do it intentionaly. You should write a letter saying you are sorry and wish you had handled it differently. be sure to say how you feel about him and how you miss him.
2006-07-20 06:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even I would feel the same way if I was your boyfriend. But what could you do? You had to move. Rarely you see someone making a mega sacrifice in not moving away from the one they love. In your case, let him do what he wants. Do send him a note, letter, or call him and tell him you are very sorry that you had to move out, explain things to him, and don't expect him to say anything...if he has something to say, he'll do. He will get over it, I assure you. I am sure there are other girls that would want to date him and all. You just comfort him the best you can, and get over it too. If he wants to continue being friends with you, he will tell you, if not, you did your part anyways.
2006-07-20 13:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea he didnt even have a chance 2 tell u goodbye dont tell some1 else 2 say goodbye 4 u if u have his cell give him a call or just let him go and move on
2006-07-20 13:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hurt. You handled your relationship with him and your subsequent move poorly and now he's hurt. Will he get over it? Will he forgive? Will you have any relationship at all? I don't know and there is nothing you can do. All you can do is learn that with the next guy next time you should be more communicative and honest with your feelings. Hopefully you won't repeat your mistake. But this opportunity with this guy seems to have passed.
2006-07-20 13:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Loss Leader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. There are other men and other women, and you both sound really young and it wasn't meant to be. There are other fish in the sea. YOu moved, you didn't abandon him for no reason, you moved and life goes on.
2006-07-20 13:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Sounds like he has.
There will be a different guy in the future that will treat you right and not ignore you.
2006-07-20 13:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you tell him goodbye yourself? Or tell him you were moving? That's lame and crappy.....but you must be young I take it. no, he probably met another girl that was perfect for him and he's involved with her..... don't worry, you'll find another guy....
2006-07-20 13:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Evil Dead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are such a loser. You coudn't even tell him goodbye and now your upset he won't let you be his myspace friend? Well - HELLO, I wouldn't either.
2006-07-20 13:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go, let time take a toll n see what he wants to do, it isnt up to u anymore, its all bout him, so if u dont call, email or write him no more then he might get to worrying n come lookin fo u
2006-07-20 13:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call thats what phones are for
write to him thats what pen paper and stamps and envelopes are for
never know you may not of broken his heart ask him to go to your newplace on a week end !
2006-07-20 13:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by BIKERBABE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋