Family & Relationships - 19 July 2006

My wife and I (married 3 years, together 7) emigrated to NZ from the UK 6 months ago; we rented a lovely house near beach, bought all the furniture etc; then 2 weeks later she admits that she does not feel the same way about me. Over the next 5 months her behavior gets weirder and weirder; she flirted online with men, sent naked photos of herself to her best male friend (who is married) then I find out she has been sleeping with a bloke in the office. She left me 6 weeks ago and only told me about new bloke by email. She has been telling people that we have had big problems for 2 years....why not tell me this before we emigrated. I am stuck on myown 12000 miles from home; I have made a few friends and trying to get on with my life. Can I get her back, do I walk away - HELP! this is all a HUGE shock and I am not sure she is straight in the head. We have always got on so well; but she is a quiet one that has problems talking through her feelings. Any suggestions???

2006-07-19 16:18:26 · 7 answers · asked by will_ashcr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-19 16:18:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had a bf that tell me what to do and if i did do it he would hit me and push me around until did it and he have to know what timei was going home and what time i was going to callhim and here i was going and i just cant try it no more so when he push i when bake and hit he back and now i am not with him but i still think i dont something for him to do will that to me but what did i do i dont know is it me i dont know i am scare and i am lost i dont know what a good guys is no more i hide my self from everone because i dont want to get hurt

2006-07-19 16:17:59 · 30 answers · asked by ash 2 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone answered the most retarded question you remember what it was? what was you answer? I'm talking about Yahoos Answeres...Don't vote my question for being that !!!!!!!!

2006-07-19 16:17:18 · 5 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends

2006-07-19 16:17:07 · 1 answers · asked by mary 1 in Friends

2006-07-19 16:15:53 · 17 answers · asked by coolboifromnc 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm asking cuz i have a guy as a best friend and i think he might be falling for me at a slow rate.

if you had fall in with with your best friend, did you ever ask her out, if so for how long or is it still going.

were you scared of the risk of losing your friendship if you break up?
if so how'd you get over it?

i'm just cuirous cuz my friend told me he's scaed of that, and that he wouldn't be able the handle breaking up if we ever got together

2006-07-19 16:15:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok heres the story on the last day of school this guy who everybody thinks is popular( i think he's an as*s) gave me his cell phone number and told me call and we can hookup and f**k sometime. i actually lost my temper and kicked him in the balls and while he was on the ground and no teachers were around i said hell no. so he wasnt happy at the fact that i told him no so he said hes going to tell his friends im a whore. what should i do i cant just kick his as*s every time he does something i dont like. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-19 16:13:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 16:13:52 · 8 answers · asked by cHaStiTy 3 in Friends

2006-07-19 16:13:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 16:13:32 · 8 answers · asked by t-diddy 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering what looks good on guys these days, guys about 18 yrs old.

2006-07-19 16:12:12 · 3 answers · asked by Girl F 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 16:11:50 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can talk and even flirt with guys that I have no feelings for, but than when it comes to guys I accually like, I get shy around them and become totally petrified. I was this __ close to going out with the guys of my dreams but we couldnt communicat. I still like him and he still likes me, but I dont know how i can make it work. Pleeze help!!

2006-07-19 16:11:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Least ages 13-19

2006-07-19 16:11:25 · 8 answers · asked by L-tee21 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends and I are planning to get all dressed up and go to a pizza place in little black dresses and the guys in tuxedos. We always want to get dressed up but we never have anywhere to go. I know it will be hilarious. Has anyone else done anything like that?

2006-07-19 16:11:14 · 1 answers · asked by Pirate_Wench 5 in Friends

2006-07-19 16:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by alibababbb 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend (fiance) lives in florida while I in Michigan , but we visit often while he is still in school.Anyway, last night he had two guys and then a girl that he used to like( abd i think she liked him too) spend the night. I got really upset he had her over even though there were two guys there. I am I overreacting?

2006-07-19 16:09:34 · 15 answers · asked by Aely 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I haven't said anything to jake but i thought i should just not talk to him so how long does it take for him to realize that i don't want to talk to him? By the way jake is the guy i like really like but i'm trying to get over him!!!

2006-07-19 16:08:53 · 9 answers · asked by cutiepie4u 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf dump he said that it look like i dont want to be with him but i do and i try totell him at and i think my friend have something to do with him broking up with me because my friends are mad at me about same thing now very time me and a guy is going good them **** it up on me and i really want back and he tell me it is just a broke for now until we can work thing out i ask him what do we need to work out and he told me he with talk to e later and we can cal each other still and stuff and write e mail i dont know what to do i want him back should i wait for him or move on or what i dont know i love him so much

2006-07-19 16:08:46 · 3 answers · asked by ash 2 in Singles & Dating

when do u notice when your best guy friend starts flirting with you

2006-07-19 16:08:39 · 6 answers · asked by daniellelee10 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 16:08:38 · 3 answers · asked by Britt 1 in Singles & Dating

thank you for your answers... i really dont want to hurt this person she means alot to me.. but i just cant get past all the fighting there is now.. and how unhappy i must be makin her with me gettin mad at the simplest things.. but at times i just feel like i dont make her happy.. like recently she got really mad at me for buying something for my self and not saving towards her coming here.. which i can understand how that would make someone mad, but i paid for 2-3 plane tickets from her's to mine, and i spent a weekened in a hotel alone where she lived.. any ideas on how to let her go the right way so she understands that its not working being so far apart.. if she was here i would be more then happy to try and work it out.. but i js cant do the arguing.. i kno its probably my fault but i js dont think i can handle the distance much longer..

2006-07-19 16:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by pete s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

as i stated in my previous question.. me and this girl has been friends for a yrs and a half and thru the course of our friendship my feelings have grown more and more for her.. i want her to my gf but the thing is, she goes away to college and i dont know if she feels the same way.. we talked on the phone for hrs. everyday, we hangout most of time and we flirt alot with each other.. for the most part our chemistry together is great and i know she would agree with me on that but i dont know if she likes me enough to be her bf.. like shes very busy with school and all of her activities and idk if she wants a bf or is looking for a bf becuz of the stress it brings but i want her to kno that its not gonna be like that.. im not gonna stress her out and it would work if we got 2gether..THATS MY PROBLEM...now ima tell her how i feel soon but i was jus wondering how should i approach it.. should i take her out? should i jus tell her the next time we together? wat the best way i should do this

2006-07-19 16:07:12 · 14 answers · asked by BuGzY GoT ChA 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i'm a girl and I have big boobs. Sorry thats the only way to put it. I don't like it either because that seems like thats all the guys talk about when they mention my name. Its not like I wear clothes that show them off either. I'm really conservative. I just want to know if thats all guys look at when they look at a girl. If they are that dumb.

2006-07-19 16:05:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 16:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by hot_blonde_2952 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a gf that lives with me but i met some1 else that i think is amazing.we laugh,smile and just enjoy spending time together.She has 4 kids,my gf has none,money isn't a problem.I sleep with them both.i know it's wrond but my gf just doesn't understand i'm not happy with her and i want to be nice cuz i do care about her but i don't enjoy spending time with her.I'm 27 y/o,not a kid.

2006-07-19 16:04:59 · 36 answers · asked by Daniel S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have my 1st bf right now. I think he is the most amazing person I've ever known. He seems 100% perfect for me. Our personalities mix so perfectly. We have been going out for 2 months.
I know since we are so young we wont last forever. And, it almost makes me cry thinking about my life without him. Everytime he gets off the phone without saying "luv ya", I freak out & start worrying if that means something. I know guys don't think that deep, but still, I worry forever.
I don't wanna think about my life without him. And I don't wanna even imagine him with another girl or me with another. How can I not be so attached 2 him, cuz I know we won't last 4ever!!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

2006-07-19 16:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Now, I'm a guy who is just playing devil's advocate as he is bored. So, I ask. What is the point of marriage these days? Before, it was a religious ceremony to show dedication to another person or a way to give a women away to a man to begin a family ( so I've heard). But today, with the ease in getting a divorce, rate of divorce, and lack of a need to take in a life partner seeing as they can get finacial security much more easily thanbefore. is marriage something that should exist today? or is it just away to make a break up troublesome? Why get married? Why not just give the gift of fidelity and time? Seriously.

2006-07-19 16:03:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She wants me to wait longer i guess, but she got married young because she was pressured into doing it and felt obligated. Its not the same thing and she knows it. My mom is my best friend and i want to get married now because we've been planning on it but know it's all complicated because i have a hard time doing something without my mom's blessing. She said she's happy for us but i just don't know what to do. I need some good advice please.

2006-07-19 16:03:16 · 14 answers · asked by misspennylane 2 in Family