My boyfriend (fiance) lives in florida while I in Michigan , but we visit often while he is still in school.Anyway, last night he had two guys and then a girl that he used to like( abd i think she liked him too) spend the night. I got really upset he had her over even though there were two guys there. I am I overreacting?
2006-07-19 16:09:34 · 15 answers · asked by Aely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I don't think that you are overreacting ...because unless one of the guys he had come over is presently dating his ex -girlfriend that he had over ....then honey there is no telling what the heck took place that night.....you know some girls have fantasies of doing three guys at one time ...and she might have been one of those kinda girls you feel me . Also if he has ever given you any reason to not trust him...that means even a little lie then drop that sack of poo poo. Now on the other hand if you know that he has always been honest with you then give him the benefit of the doubt and believe him .....but let him no where you stand as far as things like that are concerned.Good luck honey............
2006-07-19 16:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your guy will say you are, but I as another female, think you are not. If you knew the girl and knew the guys maybe it would be different, do you? However this comes down to a trust issue and if you can't trust your BF maybe you shouldn't be with him, but you have every right to be upset. what was his excuse?
2006-07-19 23:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you do not trust him.
BTW, if he slept with his old flame, wouldn't one of the other two guys blab about it and get him into trouble? Don't you think that your BF knows that?
If it really bothers you, sit down with him and calmly explain how it makes you feel. He will listen to you if you are calm about it. He will NOT listen to you if you attack his character (by accusing him) or if you yell and scream.
2006-07-19 23:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, let it go. a long distance relationship is enough stress without adding more. at least he told you that she was over there, which means he has nothing to hide from you. he is with you now and that's where he wants to be.
2006-07-19 23:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends.... theres girls i used to be into that i wouldnt take even the most freakiest of sex from them now lol cause im just not into them anymore for what ever reason. so maybe he just was trying to hook his boys up
2006-07-19 23:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by duff007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me jealous, but no your not. how would he feel if you had some guy stay over by you, that liked you. he'd be pissed i'm sure & so should you be. don't make a big deal about it, but tell him that it made you unhappy.
2006-07-19 23:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by trippydee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you obviously don't trust him, and if you dno't trust him then what's the point of even attempting a long distance relationship
2006-07-19 23:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..do in to other which they do unto you....it can be played both way...you have to girl friends and a guy come over... call him see what he thinks...
2006-07-19 23:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by bam592002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hum...three guys, one girl, and your guy is the one with the crush. Which one did she hook up with, because you know she had to of hooked up with one of them.
2006-07-19 23:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Aumatra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup.
You trust him enough to marry him, so why are you freaking out about this?
2006-07-19 23:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by epiCure 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋