I can talk and even flirt with guys that I have no feelings for, but than when it comes to guys I accually like, I get shy around them and become totally petrified. I was this __ close to going out with the guys of my dreams but we couldnt communicat. I still like him and he still likes me, but I dont know how i can make it work. Pleeze help!!
2006-07-19 16:11:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask them questions about themselves and just listen to them talk. Most people enjoy talking about themselves. Look into his eyes when he talks, because that increases natural attraction. If you still have trouble even approaching him, maybe try talking to him on the phone or online to build up some confidence. Have some of your girlfriends talk to him with you if this will give you some more confidence. Either way, i'm sure you're a teriffic girl and he really wants to talk to you, so smile!
2006-07-19 16:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try opening your mouth. Look him in the eye and tell him how you feel. You already said you know he likes you...so what the hell are you waiting for ?you can be awkward together.
Or there is always the cowards way out.Sit facing each other and write notes back and forth.For some reason it's easier than saying what you feel out loud.
2006-07-19 16:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do: you go up to him, take a deep breath, look at the floor and say, "John, I really like you, you know ... do you like me, like, at all?" If he has any sense he will realize how difficult this was for you to say and he will find it totally endearing. Just leave the rest up to him. Oh, and make sure you practice what you're going to say or you'll mumble and stutter and go bright red. Be brave and go for it. B
2006-07-19 16:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, i got an older sis who never wore a thong, she was a geek in school but i am like thee most popular girl i school. it would be so wrong to not wear a thong.
hmmmmmmmmmmmmm most popular girls dont need to ask that question
2006-07-19 16:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say something stupid like, "Hey, wanna go catch a show sometime...?" and tell him you're broke. Laugh a little. Smile and say, "Welllll...?" I think he'll get the hint. Hope it works out.
2006-07-19 16:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take deep breaths and try talking to him again. try hanging out with friends and him. maybe having friends around might help you 2 talk. also your friends can help you along the way.
2006-07-19 16:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are all creaturesa of habit darlin they will all respond to the same attention, so act like they are all the same, i use to have the same problem talking to pretty girls, got me over it
2006-07-19 16:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by pisof49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just seem a little bit interested in him, and then, he will talk to you...
2006-07-19 16:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by Girl F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE YOURSELF
2006-07-19 16:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by dan22man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋