I have my 1st bf right now. I think he is the most amazing person I've ever known. He seems 100% perfect for me. Our personalities mix so perfectly. We have been going out for 2 months.
I know since we are so young we wont last forever. And, it almost makes me cry thinking about my life without him. Everytime he gets off the phone without saying "luv ya", I freak out & start worrying if that means something. I know guys don't think that deep, but still, I worry forever.
I don't wanna think about my life without him. And I don't wanna even imagine him with another girl or me with another. How can I not be so attached 2 him, cuz I know we won't last 4ever!!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!
2006-07-19 16:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know in the end this is going to give me a traumatizing heart-break, & I wanna avoid it as much as possible....
2006-07-19 16:06:02 · update #1
Dont stress, It may last forever, You can never tell.
Live for the moment, Enjoy what you have, stressing about the fact You May break up one day, may drive him away.
If you do break up, You will learn, Heartbreak hurts, but you recover a stronger wiser person, Who may find someone better in the future.
And guys can love Deeply. Give them time.
chill a little, and just have fun. and Dont tell him all that just yet, you might scare him away.
2006-07-19 16:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I am in a relationship right now and I even get depressed thinking about our future. I am 19 and my partner is 16. The only thing I can do is to ensure that person that I deeply love them and that I can't picture my life without them. Just because you are young, doesn't exactly mean you both are soul mates. Don't worry about the future. Only worry about the present and just let the future unfold. Hopefully it will be what you want.
2006-07-19 23:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've lost count of the number of times I've been left heartbroken since then, countless nights of sharing my tears with the pillow. The older i grow, the more vulnerable i've become. But life is not without its healing touch, in the laughter of loved ones, the kind words of a friend and the beauty of music. I do know that the heart can swell although its aching and still be whole even if it's broken.
2006-07-19 23:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw u poor grl...i remember my first bf..i thought we were perfect for eachother...guess not bcuz he dumped me and left me heartbroken....but i was only 13...it happens...its part of life..just enjoy wut u have now with him....who knows...i kno of couples who have been together since they were 13 or 14! so mayb u guys are the one in a million who lasts a long time or forever! its a llong shot..but just cherish the moment..if u break up u break up...thats life..just think after him..ull be having tons and tons of bf's and heartbreaks...and eventually u find someone u love but lyke reeli love...and u realize how stupid everything else was! lol now i sound like a preacher..but im jus giving u a lil incite from personal experience...and if u do break up and are heartbroken...well thats a whole different story lol but basically to get over him fast and move on u just gotta take everything away that reminds u of him..pictures stuffed animals etc. and basically cut off all contact with him...i kno its hard but trust me a nite out with the grls and ull be lyke whos that guy?? lol well anyways lyke i said CHERISH THE MOMENT!!!!!
2006-07-19 23:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you know that is good.
I say take it day by day.
You're in love.
First love.
that's great!!!
Hope you enjoy it, and consider every moment with him as a learning experience for yourself.
The fact that you are looking at your obsessiveness now is very good.
Unfortunately, that is what love does. At the time, you can't imagine life any other way, but you know that is unrealistic.
In time, things can change; and maybe not any time soon.
go with flow.
Enjoy the moment.
Know that what you feel is normal.
2006-07-19 23:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my 1st boyfriend for two years. And now we hate eachother because we both thought we would be together forever. If I were you I would try to make the best of the time you get to be with him. And if you eventually break up with him try to stay friends with him.
2006-07-19 23:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by lost1587 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he is your first boyfriend you are not in love...PLEASE. And second, if you are already worrying about thing like that he's not the right one for you.
2006-07-19 23:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Cordy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to chill. theres apost on here about people with borderline personality disorder and you fit the bill. if your so insecure about ur relationship u shouldnt be inone then
2006-07-19 23:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard- i dont think you can avoid heatbreak!!! your in too deep!
2006-07-19 23:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by (NO) NAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋