2006-07-19 16:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by hot_blonde_2952 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is going to be some sort of hurt when there is a loss of any kind, especially in a relationship. I have always felt that honesty has always been the best method and then there is no regret as to second guessing. Tell him why you feel your relationship has dissolved and that you still would remain friends. Let him know both the good points as well as the bad points so that in his next relationship, he can improve on those challenges instead of facing an awkward time like the present one. Be strong and straight forward to make sure he knows exactly where you stand! In that way too, there will be a clear message that you are definitely not doing this to hurt him, that should be obvious. Let him know that you are doing this for the both of you by not furthering a relationship that will only lead to continued heartache and uncomfortable situations. I know it won't be easy for you so stay strong and good luck dear!
2006-07-19 16:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by azguitar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been dating for a long time, hurting him is inevitable. Also, the same goes if you have been leading him to believe that there is something there that really isn't.
The best way to do it, though, is to be completely HONEST. Tell him you're just not feeling it, and that you would like to be friends. Make sure that he understands that the chemistry that you need in a relationship just isn't there.
He may be hurt at first, but he'll get over it a lot faster if he knows that you were completely direct with him.
2006-07-19 23:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say they 'find' love, as if it were an object hidden by a rock. But love takes many forms, and it is never the same for any man and woman. What people find then is a certain love.
Love, like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with a soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must nourish from below, tending to its roots, keeping itself alive.
Lost love is still love. It takes a different form, that's all. You can't see their smile or bring them food or tousle their hair or move them around a dance floor. But when those senses weaken, another heightens. Memory. Memory becomes your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.
2006-07-19 23:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know im not a dude. but i been thru it too.
i tried breaking up w/ my exbf he was a really sensitive guy. and i realy didnt want to hurt him
i jsut sayed that i needed time to figure out where things in my life were going.
he still got hurt. but not as much as me saying that he didnt trust me at all so i didnt want to see him ne more.
i still havent come up with a way not to hurt someone. someone will always end up getting hurt.
2006-07-19 23:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not going to happened, he will get hurt no matter what you do.
2006-07-19 23:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by puppet7112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋