Family & Relationships - 15 July 2006

When I say large I don't mean obese, but just a little over weight. I'm 6' 320 lbs

2006-07-15 17:03:29 · 6 answers · asked by colvin0594 3 in Singles & Dating

My partner and I have been together for 10 years and for the last 5 months have been trying to start a family. Lately he's been withdrawn and when I asked what's wrong he's very hesitant to tell me what's on his mind. This isn't the first time he's been withdrawn, it's just his way - whenever he's down he goes quiet. I on the other hand start to freak out (inwardly) and wonder whether it's because he's not satisfied with our relationship. When I ask him, he says he's just down and then starts to put on a happy front to not make me worried but he continues to be emotianally withdrawn. It really kills me to understand what's going on, because I feel like I'm living with a stranger, and my self esteem takes a nose dive. I really love him and I trust his love for me, but I'm starting to question whether we're growing apart and too scared to acknowledge it. I don't know how to cope with this.

2006-07-15 17:03:18 · 7 answers · asked by kishapadi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should i forgive her or shoul i hate her untill she apaligises?

2006-07-15 17:02:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok this is how it is. People always ask me if I love him, I mean he is my best friend but they are asking it as more than a friends. The teachers thought I was dating him all the time and even our parents thought we would date in the future. he was the closest I have ever gotten to a guy and he was my best friend. He now has a gf and doesn't talk to me. So why does it bug me so much that after 5 years of being close friends he ditches me? Do I really love him because I can't tell???People still ask me do you love him but the truth is I don't know.

2006-07-15 17:01:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have known this man for 14 years, we definitely connect in many ways and love each other. met in college and i broke his heart when we first got together and have been together off and on since then. this last year we have been steady and only with each other. he's already 1 1/2 hrs away, he plans to move 3 hrs away, he says we can still see each other but he also says that if he does meet someone there he wants us to still be able to keep in touch casually. he doesn't have kids and i have 2, he was my first love and really want to be with him, i don't know if i should con't to take it one day at a time and wait or let him go and move on. we see each other 2/3 times a month, he's definitely single and has told me that he loves me, but is not in love with me, he just wants to take it slow, not know is frustrating, i plan to go to grad school where he's moving next year and not really looking to date, should i just be patient or let him go

2006-07-15 17:01:07 · 5 answers · asked by mcmeme 1 in Singles & Dating

im an adult, my mom comes in my room EVERY single night and sits on my bed to ask me what i did if was suppose to go out. Im 24. I was suppose to just go out for coffee with a friend for an hour and she needs to know every little **** i do. She even asked my brother "did ur sister go out" my brother gets annoyed because he dosn't keep "track" of me. We just had a screaming session because she just left my room because i refused to tell her what i did tonight and what i talked about with my friend. I sware to God i think i lived in an enmeshed family. ever hear of that term?

2006-07-15 17:00:09 · 6 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-15 16:59:46 · 15 answers · asked by kris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This may sound like crazy but yesterday i caught it red handed while i was pretending like sleeping...as the 12 year old boy was looking at me whether i was asleep and whispered something in his sister's ears and then they got into business while watching tv..
caressing and fondling each others hands,tickling,hitting each other and holding hands just like lovers...and mind you i don't have the guts to tell this to their parents or my wife as im living with them in their house at the moment....and im the brother in law to the two kids....and im 34 married with 2 kids and my wife is their sister....

2006-07-15 16:59:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i went to a party over the weekend and i met up w/ one of my old friends, and him and i had sex that night back at his place but he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend. he wants to see me agian and he asked me if we could hook up later in the future but yea should i go see him agian or should i just tell him that this can't happen and that we should just be friends.

2006-07-15 16:57:53 · 17 answers · asked by psychobutpretty_69 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 16:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

am i worth a thank you as a full time mom house wife maid and nanny oh and wicked step mom to spoiled kids

2006-07-15 16:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by rdneck 1 in Family

She comes in my room and ruins everything.Someone Help!

2006-07-15 16:55:53 · 19 answers · asked by HASSAN G 1 in Family

Re: My hubby & the 2 kids he had w/ ex-wife. We are in Oregon, she & the kids in Missouri. Divorce & custody / visitation finalized over 3 yrs. ago when everyone lived in the same state. Since then, haven't had much visitation since it was assumed we would always live nearby. Dad wants to see the kids. Ex-wife won't allow children to fly out here, and won't let dad see them when he is visiting MO for (unreasonable) fear he would "kidnap" them. Ex-wife is unstable & immature, dad & new wife (me) are successful professionals in our respective carreers & have a home. Dad is currently working against a modification for increased child support, requested by ex-wife. Because the custody/visitation can't be negotiated at the same time, what is the best/easiest/cheapest way to modify visitation order to work w/ a dad who lives out of state? Is there a form to start proccess? Can a phone hearing be requested (like the $ support), or does dad have to fly to MO & sue ex-wife there?

2006-07-15 16:54:58 · 3 answers · asked by chrystalgypsey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 19, and I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. He is a few years older. We have had a few 'breaks' that lasted about a month or so, but never dated other people. He has dated a few people before me and has had one somewhat serious relationship. He is the only person who I have been in a real relationship with. We have talked about getting married and having kids and we have gone on a few trips together. I love him and want to be with him, but I don't know if we should or when we should do it. I woulod get married to him now, but I think I should wait until I am 21. Is this too soon, and should I date other people to be sure of my feelings? I am still in school and he has just graduated from graduate school. I just want to start my life as soon as possible. How do I know if this is right?

2006-07-15 16:51:35 · 22 answers · asked by madilyn07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Exactly what do you check out physically first? You already know what we look at first.....how would you prefer a man to approach you? Direct, secretively, erotically, or just plain teasing?...IM me.

2006-07-15 16:51:12 · 7 answers · asked by az550nm 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been with my b/f for a while and he still thinks that i will cheat on him. he says he's in love with me and he doesnt want to get hurt. i understand that and thats why i try extra hard by not giving any reasons for him to doubt me. i dont have any guys friends, ive changed all my numbers so no X's have a way to get to me, i barely see my existing girlfriends, i only go places with my siblings and i always call him to let him know where i am or where im going ("check-in"). no matter how much i try it never does it any good. how can i gain his trust?? or at least, how can i make him believe im not cheating?? i am truly faithful to him and truly in love with him, how can i get throught to him???????

2006-07-15 16:50:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ME && my boyfriend been going out for the past 2 months . && sunday the 16th i am going to the beach with him && his aunt than going to t.g.i fridays what should i order to eat . please help me . thanx .

2006-07-15 16:50:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has 2 siblings, brother and sister. His sister (lets caller her #1) and I are very close, we do everything together from shopping to vacations, she was even the matron of honor in my wedding. My husbands brother just recently got married to a girl (lets call her #2) that #1 had a hard time accepting, as did I. We often found ourselves talking negatively about her and purposly not including her whenever we hung out. I decided to make a change and give #2 a chance which in turn makes #1 upset. What do I do? I dont want to hurt #1's feelings or make #2 feel left out anymore.

2006-07-15 16:50:07 · 5 answers · asked by Jackie 1 in Friends

Does my 1 year old need sunscreen if i'm just gonna leave him in a chair under the umbrella at the beach? He'll be in the shade under the umbrella and i'll be laying on a blanket in the sun getting tan so i can look hot and sexy and going in and out of the water. I have to bring him to the beach with me tomorrow cause i cant leave him alone again. So does he need sunscreen or what?

2006-07-15 16:49:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've gone out with this man a couple of times, and he has invited me to his cabin for a weekend? too soon?

2006-07-15 16:49:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok.....im a virgin, and so is my boyfriend....we are both ready to have sex. but i know when it comes time to do it, i am going to be so nervous...is there any way to get over that ? and will it hurt ? i am also verry self-consious......i dont want him to think i am ugly or somthing underneth my clothes please help.

2006-07-15 16:48:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the other name for a man that has more than one wife other than a morman. They have several different wifes and familys.

2006-07-15 16:46:21 · 21 answers · asked by welder 1 in Family

Now that I got your attention, people wanted to know my real question when I told them that nobody answers the real questions. Adobe Acrobat Professional: can I use it to save filled out forms that are set up where they can't be saved?
In other words, with acrobat reader, I have a form I can fill out, but I must print it and I cannot save the form filled out. If I open it with Acrobat Professional, can I change the settings of someone else's form so that I can save them filled out? It seems like I could, since the pro version creates the forms.

2006-07-15 16:46:21 · 10 answers · asked by pikachuflatulates 5 in Singles & Dating

my friend is so hot but he likes my 2 friends and he makes me ask them out 4 him.WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-15 16:45:46 · 23 answers · asked by sarah_dream_act 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 16:45:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

( what happen in your cause that cause you to be a single
father and what if any kind of surport do you have????

2006-07-15 16:45:03 · 5 answers · asked by little ace 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-15 16:44:37 · 8 answers · asked by kemsoda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-15 16:43:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few of you got the wrong idea about the shy guy question i posted, You all thought i dont speak to him at all. We go out a lot, and we chat all the time, but it seems whenever we are together in person he gets quiet. Hes a great guy and we share common interests. However I try to open up to him and whever we are face to face he sort of freezes and i dont know how to get him to be just like he normanly would be on the phone and stuff.

2006-07-15 16:41:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

NOTE: Please answer this question ONLY if you DO have a bad/strained relationship with your dad.

2006-07-15 16:41:01 · 11 answers · asked by keith19711 1 in Family