She comes in my room and ruins everything.Someone Help!
2006-07-15 16:55:53 · 19 answers · asked by HASSAN G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
get a lock on your room and try to stay out of her way, as in do whatcha do where she wont find yoU!
2006-07-15 16:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by russian_honey007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have a younger sister and locks seem like a good idea but my sister would knock and bang and the door saying "let me in" and that is just as annoying as her being in your room and even if you dont mind your parents might and tell you to unlock the door. Maybe you could let her in your room and try to get her to do something quietly. Occupy her time. I give my sister some play dough and a spot on the floor and she is fine.
2006-07-16 00:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a lock on your door when you are not in there, give her additional time when you can give her your undivided attention..last have special "your room only toys". you may have an old backpack to store them in. Add some things you no longer want, a mirror, scarf, a stuffed animal etc along with the new toys.They do not leave your room and get changed ever so often.She will be happy to sit quietly and play with them. You are her "Hero" so love and play with her. Remember she will not stay little forever.
2006-07-16 00:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by jst4pat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 12 my sister was born. She drove me crazy with the incessant crying. I later figured out they are cute when they are just born. When the gift of language strikes, they don't shut up!!! They become demanding (most kids, not all) and don't listen. And they attach to you like a magnet. I suggest you ignore her. Have your parents buy you a lock for your door. It worked for 7 years until I moved out to go to college. Then you have to deal with a room-mate!!!
2006-07-16 00:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Nick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn that she is a child.
She does not yet know that she is hurting you with her actions.
She wants you attention so she breaks things.
Before you freak out next time show your parent or parents the damage.
Then ask you little sister why with you parent or parents present.
Try to spend a little one on one time with her then this might stop.
2006-07-16 00:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There needs to be boundaries.....maybe you can talk to your mom about it and she can help enforce some rules. If she is too little to make that happen..then you are going to have to remember to shut your door and lock it with a hook eye or something.
2006-07-16 00:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your sister and she looks up to you. Try an explain to her that she should give you some alone time in your room. Set aside time that you can spend with her and then maybe she will leave you alone.
2006-07-15 23:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are breakable things within her reach, you should put them up high if you don't want them broken. Babies will get into a lot of things, that's just the way it is. All I can tell you is put everything that you don't want mess up out of reach.
2006-07-16 00:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by sweetfeet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what they do. I was one once. My older sister was glad when we got a baby brother, so he could bug the crap out of me. Now, as adults, we're all the bestest friends in the world!
2006-07-15 23:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lock if she is old enough to understand go to her room and mess it up or whatever to let her know you were in there and when she comes to you explain that thats how you feel when she does it
2006-07-16 00:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋