i went to a party over the weekend and i met up w/ one of my old friends, and him and i had sex that night back at his place but he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend. he wants to see me agian and he asked me if we could hook up later in the future but yea should i go see him agian or should i just tell him that this can't happen and that we should just be friends.
2006-07-15 16:57:53 · 17 answers · asked by psychobutpretty_69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXXX first of all, hooking up with someone the same night is a no no. Why would you want to disrespect yourself, your body and your boyfriend by having a one night stand with an old friend you haven't seen in a while. How do you know where he's been or who he's been with and what VD's he may have picked up since you last saw him, and you want to share that with your now boyfriend and act as if you've been faithful all along. And you are considering seeing him again All he wants is an old friend with benifits. You both need relationship counceling. And your boyfriend should kick your butt to the curb. He deserves the respect you aren't giving him. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-15 17:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The honest truth is this.....you need to let go of this person completely. What you both did is considered cheating and it wasn't right and could potentially hurt those you are currently in a relationship with.
No, you shouldn't see this person again as friend or otherwise.....being friends is only gonna add to the tension that is already there to begin with and will sure as heck not be good for you or your relationship with your now boyfriend.
You know in your heart what the right thing to do is and I urge to think of your now boyfriend and just let go of the guy you made the mistake with and go on with your life.
Good luck to you!
2006-07-15 17:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both were secure and happy with who you have. You guys would have never had sex. Maybe you should be asking your heart instead of other people. Listen to your heart a little more. If you want to see him again, then you are not truley happy in the relationship you have now. If that is the case then don't stay in it. It will hurt both of you in the end.
2006-07-15 17:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him again - not until you figure some stuff out.... If you both agree that you want to get back together then you need to end it with your current bf/gf's. It is only fair. Remember, treat others as you like to be treated.... You made a mistake in sleeping with him when you are with someone else, and now you need to figure out if it was what you really want for the future....
2006-07-15 17:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you love your bf then break all ties to this one night stand. IF you feel that the one night stand is way better and is what you want leave your bf and stop cheating. It all depends on what you want out of the relationship though.
2006-07-15 17:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are really stupid. Would you like to be cheated on? If the answer is yes. Then go ahead and whore yourself the way you did. If the answer is no then don't see him again? Did you really need someone to answer this question for you. Don't you have ANY morals?
2006-07-15 17:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you just want to be friends. Don't wreck what you have with your new man.Think back to why your relationship ended in the first place.
2006-07-15 17:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend you should be faithful to him and break it off with the other guy. Personally I think you and this guy should be together, you're both cheaters.
2006-07-15 17:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After this, I´m not sure if you are goinf to even be friends. Of course not. He just wants to **** you again. simple as that. Sorry for being so harsh, my point of view.
2006-07-15 17:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by astral.luna_enlightened 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want out of that relationship, Do what ever you want, know one can tell you what to do with your body, so you must decide. But remember you have someone else that could be hurt if he finds out.
2006-07-15 17:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋