should i forgive her or shoul i hate her untill she apaligises?
2006-07-15 17:02:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Steal something of equal or greater value from your cousin. Slap her. Hard. Then hug and cry.
2006-07-15 17:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well make sure she is the culprit and get it back. She needs to be confronted and learn that stealing is wrong and it will lead to further acts of that behavior probably. I think that you should tell your parents and hers--depending on your age. If you are over 18--or out on your own--you should take care of it yourself, but get support from a friend to help you if you want. Make sure you get it back and at least get her to admit it. If she will not admit it--forgive her and tell her that until she is more mature and ready to be a good friend and relative that you are not going to be around her anymore.
2006-07-15 17:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all let her know that you are aware that she stoll .
make sure that she feels her mistake and tell her that you would have given that thing if she would have asked .it is very neccessary so that same does not gets repeated.
then tell her that you still loves her and forgive her.
i think that would be the best option.
bcoz to err is human to forgive is divine.
2006-07-15 17:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by smartygoel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing you could do if it's affordible(the thing she stole) is give her a present... the same thing she stole from you. then have her open it in front of you. then if she say she loves it , and always wanted it or whatever then you can explain that since she has it now, she can give you back the one she took from you, and that it would also be nice if she appologized for taking it to. if she denies it and you know for a fact, refuses to give it back , then take just leave the one you bought her tell her that you forgive her but you wont forget it. and that you will warn everyone that she has stolen from you so beware.
2006-07-15 17:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by truthbear1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is..Tell her a story abt two frdz who relationship got screwed up bcause of a situation were one of them accidently took something nd the other thought that she stole.....Once u finish up ur story ask her what she thinks abt it...
2006-07-15 17:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by c687stu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should hate her for that.if she is younger than u then u should tell her that stealing is bad and to return that thing to u.but if she is older or ur age then u can give her a nice thrashing until she gives it back to u.
2006-07-15 17:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
steal something from her to make it even, lol jk. i think you should talk to her about it and if she still aint sorry then dont forgive her and be angry wit her until you feel it is right to talk to her again.
2006-07-15 17:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hate her but tell her to give it back and watch her around your stuff
2006-07-15 17:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her... ask her why she did it, shes family!
2006-07-15 17:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by beach_chic_2696 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well same thing hap to me and i went and told her i was gonna punch her untill she gives it back!!!
2006-07-15 17:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋