This may sound like crazy but yesterday i caught it red handed while i was pretending like sleeping...as the 12 year old boy was looking at me whether i was asleep and whispered something in his sister's ears and then they got into business while watching tv..
caressing and fondling each others hands,tickling,hitting each other and holding hands just like lovers...and mind you i don't have the guts to tell this to their parents or my wife as im living with them in their house at the moment....and im the brother in law to the two kids....and im 34 married with 2 kids and my wife is their sister....
2006-07-15 16:59:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks for all the replies but still i didn't tell my wife about this as this may be a big problem in between themselves and me so im giving them some chance still thinking that it's normal but unusual to be precise...and also i haven't told u about my part of the story too as my marriage was an arranged one and even i have got a crush on this 17 year old as she acts like that at home..so that was the reason that i was looking for her activities and finally found out but not fully. Can some of u tell me how to videotape such an occurrence as we're living in a very small house and there're other members of the family too. This may sound strange but we're from south asia so we're used to this kind of stuff. I'm trying my best to forget my sis-in-law but still im trying to protect the two of them from each other as one could be molested and the other can be looked down in society...tks for your replies...expecting more...bye..
2006-07-19 00:57:50 · update #1
1. im really just surprised that a 17 year old girl would let a 12 year old boy....who hasnt even gone through puberty....touch her like that
2006-07-18 22:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should mention this to your wife and let her know that your niece's behavior has been flirtatious to you as well and that while you love your wife, you are worried about the niece's behavior and one day while resting in the same room as the niece and the nephew you noticed some very inappropriate behavior and get them to start watching as well, they might catch the siblings in the act and be able to act upon it. What the two are doing is incestuous at best. They need to be watched and maybe it would be better if they knew they were being watched. Also, you should try to keep from being alone with your niece. Try to be with your wife or someone else.
2006-07-20 00:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that exploration is a natural part of growing up - @ age 12 maybe but 17? I would say that girl pretty much knows what she is doing. You definitely need to tell the parents, before something bad happens. Start the conversation with something like
"I have the best intentions by telling you this.." And you can even ask the parents not to tell the children how they found out. Be honest with them, don't leave out how this makes you feel uncomfortable. But I would think you definitely need to say something.
2006-07-15 17:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by morgysan 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to talk and let them know brother in law because that is incest and that is wrong someone have to teach and talk to them both before something serious happen and then it will be to late.It might be hard but put your self as the parents of these two kids would you want to know if your kids were fondling with one another.It is a tough situation but rather be safe then sorry.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
2006-07-15 17:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by lu-lu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your wife. better if u do not do anything alone (by ur own). take some one in confidence. wife can be the best person. u can try to show her also what you saw. ofcourse the bro and sis and r very confident and must be doing it whenever they get a chance. once ur wife knows all this, she can handle her bro and sis in a better way. and she can also talk to her parents. but the thing is u should take some action before its too late.
2006-07-15 18:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your wife what you saw! now!!! let her help you what the best way to approach their parents is. this has to be addressed with their parents it doesnt sound like the first time nor will it be the last. it is bad enough that they are brother and sister but one is 12 he may think he is 21 but at 12 he shouldnt be doing this with anyone let alone his 17 year old sister.
2006-07-15 17:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by donna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
watch them again and c if it is happening. u can either videotape it and tell the parents and if they dont believe you show them the tape. OR u can catch them in the act but make noise and yell at them so that others can come at the same time and u tell on them rite in front of them
2006-07-15 17:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pull them both aside and tell them what you saw and tell them it just isn't right for them to act in that manner. And unless they would like their parents to know they should not let it happen again. I would also open up to your wife, she needs to know.
2006-07-15 17:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's just wrong. I don't even know what to say you should do. If you can't tell your wife, maybe you should confront the kids yourself.
2006-07-15 17:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg you need to tell their parents... this is molestation on the part of the 17 year old she is old enough she should know better they are well beyond the "experimenting age" report it ASAP
2006-07-15 17:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋