Family & Relationships - 13 July 2006

Well there's this guy that I know and he's a bit obsessive and I don't know what to do to make him leave me alone... should I ignore him or what?

2006-07-13 18:19:35 · 9 answers · asked by Erin 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 18:19:31 · 4 answers · asked by mommdg 2 in Friends

or looking to cheat?

2006-07-13 18:18:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes going gay

2006-07-13 18:18:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 18:16:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know where I can get information on my husband cell phone calls

2006-07-13 18:16:18 · 6 answers · asked by Maria G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do u really bond with ur better half? i mean really...

2006-07-13 18:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by rum_fun 2 in Friends

I’m an African-American Male in his thirtysomething years.
I am really attracted to Latina women. Looking back on many of the women I have shown interest in, most of them were Latinas. I love that Latina beauty. Jennifer Lopez, Eva Mendes and Selma Hayek just to name a few. I really would like to date/marry a Latina woman. Is this a healthily or unusual preference?

2006-07-13 18:14:52 · 7 answers · asked by Alfred L 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 18:14:50 · 9 answers · asked by Vtang 4 in Friends

I am 16 and never had a real boyfriend..I could have but didnt.... Does that make me weirg or what?

2006-07-13 18:14:07 · 17 answers · asked by cassidy 2 in Singles & Dating

I was engaged for 4 years to an amazing woman its finished now with over a year and I'm even living in a different country. I still compare every woman I see to her and she's still my first thought in the morning and very last at night and last week I had my very first date since my fiancee and at the end of the night I called my date by my ex fiancee's name. Why can I not just get over her????

2006-07-13 18:14:07 · 7 answers · asked by patrick 1 in Singles & Dating

I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND BUT I AM SCARED TO GET TO CLOSE BECAUSE OF THE RAPE AND HOW WAS TREATED BY GUYS AFTER THE RAPE WHAT SHOULD I DO TO LET IT GO?

2006-07-13 18:13:57 · 22 answers · asked by BLAKELY'S MOMMY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just had a hear-to heart with my little sister who is 5 years younger than me. I was in college through almost all of her teenage years, so she went through jr. high and high school basically alone (without me there). Because of the age difference, we've never been very close, but now that we are both adults, I'm trying to get to know her better. We were talking about life, and she just finished telling me the story about how she apparently was raped by the same guy twice in a 3 year time span, but it occurred over 5 years ago. She said she's getting over it because she talks to a therapist, and she is very strong in faith. But now I have the burden of knowing this horrible secret that she hasnt told either of our parents. I feel so guilty for not being there for her and for not looking out for her, even though I know logically that was not possible. I'm in a lot of pain right now and I'm worried. How should I handle this grief?

2006-07-13 18:12:58 · 21 answers · asked by prtybrwneyez1 2 in Family

Do you consider yourself, cute, gracious, romantic, delicated, love hugs, holding hands, mostly like a child when it comes to relationships or you're a modern nasty girl?

Just asking because honestly I think nowadays is almost impossible to find a cute and beautiful "old fashined" girl.

Feel free to write down how you are and what do you think about it. Yeah, call me old fashioned but I don't like nasty girls.

2006-07-13 18:12:39 · 11 answers · asked by www.citimates.com 2 in Singles & Dating

Him and I hang out all the time...well kind of. He came over for my pool party and he flirted a lot but I still don't know for sure that theres something there. My cousin is best friends with him and she tells me that he talks about me sometimes...(and it's good talk) So I don't know what to think. He hasn't litteraly shown that he likes likes me...but I really wish he did...should I tell him how I feel and see if he feels the same or should i give up?

2006-07-13 18:11:54 · 7 answers · asked by MinaJay 1 in Singles & Dating

last boyfriend i had called to tell me that as soon as i got home from vacation he would dump me. so that night i dumped him. this was all over because 2 days while i was on vacation he cheated on me.

2006-07-13 18:11:39 · 12 answers · asked by lollipop 1 in Singles & Dating

Dear councellor,
I am undergoing a serious problem in my personal life.I will be very much grateful if you could help me cope with this.
I am a boy of 21 yrs. doing my graduation. This is about my love life. I am in love with a girl of my neighbourhood for the past 3 years since we were in school.She is also a graduate student of my age studying at a different college.We were in a steady relationship from the beginning but recently,problems seem to be creeping in out of nowhere.It seems that I have lost all interest in her.Now we seldom meet and I do not feel attracted towards her to such an extent that I have stopped taking her phone calls.She is not so much beautiful and my efforts to make her more presentable and attractive have gone to deaf ears.She is not willing to listen to any of my requests and argues with me on everything.I do not seem to like her anymore and cannot talk to her the way I used to before.But she is still deeply in love with me and I know that for sure.She says that she is very hurt from my behaviors but I cannot help it.Maybe this is because she doesnt want herself to get altered the way I want her to be.But I just want her flaws to be removed so that she becomes the perfect girl for me.Now, because of all this I am thinking of ending this relationship for the good of both of us as I believe that this relation will create more complex problems in the future.But at the same time, I know that she is a very good girl by nature & extremely loyal to me.So,on second thought I am thinking of continuing.So, as you can see,I am at a dillemma.I know her love is true but still I am not sure about continuing as I have lost attraction in her.So, if I continue, after sometime,the same problems can cope up again.I think I will not be able to forget her as this situation has already started giving me sleepless nights.We are both suffering at the same time but still I do not feel like meeting her.But still something inside me is telling that this relation will end up to no good. Again something inside me is telling that she loves me truly, so I should go back to her.I also will not be able to forget her if we breakup. I know that she will not be happy in life if I leave her and I know that her thoughts will come back to me more than often and I doubt that I will be able to stay happy with any other girl as we are stongly emotionally bonded to each other.But I have lost all attraction in this relationship.
Please tell me what I am supposed to do now so that we can be happy in the long run.

2006-07-13 18:11:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-07-13 18:10:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was deeply in love before i got married with another person and it did not work out, When I hear our song I think of the other person. How can I handle this

2006-07-13 18:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by nora7142@verizon.net 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy who i met a few weeks ago we hit it off and started hanging out alot.. then today i find out he has a girlfriend.he doesnt know that i know yet what should i say to him

2006-07-13 18:09:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-13 18:08:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Let me know if i am at the bottom of the dating list, and what if anything i can do about it.

2006-07-13 18:06:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What get's me in the rants is: "Good guys only pick the most beautiful women out there". Mann, we don't ever see the good girls out with their hot looking males that have the corvettes or the motorcycles? Good girls state, " I like the bad guy because he usually looks better.
Amazes me that good girls put down good guys for picking pretty women. Many good girls think the good guys should wait on them
Here's my thought about nice girls. Now this isn't true for all of em but here's an overall average.
That usually don't have much to say. Boring
Usually don't say what they want.
Always think their fat, even though they are not.
Act nice on the outside, but usually full of themselves on the inside. I think it's true. This is what many good girls say about the good guys.
I like usually prefer the bad girls. The one I'm with after the good girls dumped me.
Now, watch all the bul I get for this. I know I'm suppose to wait for the good good girl. Ya right!

2006-07-13 18:05:57 · 7 answers · asked by thunderbomb90 3 in Singles & Dating

whom should u give more importance if you had to choose between the two???

2006-07-13 18:04:54 · 27 answers · asked by itsmylife_khushi 1 in Friends

my gf is hot n i want her 2 give me a b l o w j o b!

2006-07-13 18:04:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 18:02:51 · 6 answers · asked by qisyia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my closest friends (Kathy) goes out with one of my closest guy friends (Steve)...I've known both of them for a while now & I just recently introduced them to one another (about 5 months ago) when I got Kathy a job where Steve & I work...& they started dating each other about 2 weeks later

However, I've always had the biggest crush on Steve...he's what I consider "the perfect guy": He's smart, has a great sense of humor (& always makes me laugh), he's got a huge heart, he's friendly & nice to everyone, & not to mention that he's really cute (hot...lol)...Also, he's always there for me & always makes me feel special

Although I know for a fact that I'll never act on my feelings towards him (especially now that he goes out with my friend), I just want to know if it's still wrong to think he's cute & have a crush on him (by the way I've never told him nor anyone else about my feelings for him)

2006-07-13 18:00:28 · 23 answers · asked by ♥WestlifeForLife♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i've had to stop myself several times when saying good bye because i dont want to blow it

2006-07-13 18:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by transplanted 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it more for the other person or more for you?

2006-07-13 18:00:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex and I broke up about a year ago. We had a great relationship, we never fought and we broke up because we couldn’t see each other that much. Now I have a new boyfriend who I’ve been with for 6 months, but I still have feelings for my ex. My boyfriend and I were really good friends before we got together, but I never got nervous or the butterflies when I was around him, but with my ex, it was the opposite. When my boyfriend and I first started going out, my feelings for my ex faded a little, but now, I’m beginning to miss him a lot, I miss how he made me feel. My boyfriend and my ex are friends, which is probably the reason why my ex doesn’t talk to me as much and that makes me sad. My boyfriend tries hard to make me happy, and I really appreciate it, but he lacks the qualities that I loved about my ex. I love my boyfriend, he’s like my best friend, but I just can’t get over my ex.

2006-07-13 17:59:43 · 8 answers · asked by T1FF 2 in Singles & Dating