My ex and I broke up about a year ago. We had a great relationship, we never fought and we broke up because we couldn’t see each other that much. Now I have a new boyfriend who I’ve been with for 6 months, but I still have feelings for my ex. My boyfriend and I were really good friends before we got together, but I never got nervous or the butterflies when I was around him, but with my ex, it was the opposite. When my boyfriend and I first started going out, my feelings for my ex faded a little, but now, I’m beginning to miss him a lot, I miss how he made me feel. My boyfriend and my ex are friends, which is probably the reason why my ex doesn’t talk to me as much and that makes me sad. My boyfriend tries hard to make me happy, and I really appreciate it, but he lacks the qualities that I loved about my ex. I love my boyfriend, he’s like my best friend, but I just can’t get over my ex.
2006-07-13 17:59:43 · 8 answers · asked by T1FF 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had the same problem... just that they wasnt friends.. but I soon came to realize that I was in love with my ex... so i followed my heart and to this day I'm with my ex.. were still a happy couple. But look at it this way... if your boyfriend had feelingz for his ex... and he'z with you how would you feel?... u would want him to happy hopefully and tell him to go see if it works.. try to see if it'z love.... or take a risk and stay with your boyfriend... cause hey .. life IS risks...and mistakes...
2006-07-13 18:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by lil_mise1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are qualities you like this in this new boyfriend, but there are also good qualities in your ex. And you miss those good qualities in your ex because the new boyfriend doesn't possess them? Think about these qualities of both of them and compare them. Why don't you make a list of pros and cons...it's old, but it always worked for me. Think about how you and your ex broke up. If you get back together again, think...what are the chances that the same problem is going to come up again? If you do get back together and you guys break up (which is probably most likely to happen), then you will regret that you dumped that new nice guy... They say on and off relationships don't work. Look at Jessica and Nick. They went out, broke up, got back together, got married and got a divorce as you know.
2006-07-14 01:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So try to think about all the things you love about your ex, and then think about all the things you love about your new boyfriend and you will realize that they wont compare at all. They are both two different people who will have different qualities and interests. If you love your boyfriend and hes your best friend and he tries hard to make you happy then hes worthy. Dont let feelings for your ex get in the way. I know what you're going through but sometimes you just have to let go.
2006-07-14 01:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so self-center you should be baned from dating.
(1) please tell the new boyfriend that you have feelings for the ex,
(2) Yes he will dump you for being an unappreciative slut
(3) The reason don't want to tell him so you can give the ex a try first--that makes you are a selfish slut
(4) If the ex don't work out you'll stay with the new boyfriend -- so yes he ends up getting used by a selfish *****
You say you LOVE your boyfriend I pray to GOD no one ever LOVES me like you LOVE him!
You just LOVE him to be your bill payer official while you go out humping your ex.
I'm off for the night I got to go vomit!
2006-07-14 01:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy but honestly i think you should not let your boyfriend now go any further cuz then he will be the one heart broken if you think you will see your ex again let him know what hes in for . there really wasnt any reason why you guys broke up in the first place i think you should have a talk with your ex also if you can and ask him if he still thinks your the one if so then i think you should wait for him
2006-07-14 01:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by juju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have to leave your new boy friend and forget about both of them. even if you started going back with your ex it wont be the same for either of you.
2006-07-14 01:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by myamoreterno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're with the wrong guy...was the distance worth the heartache?
2006-07-14 01:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not fair to do that to your boyfriend
2006-07-14 01:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋