last boyfriend i had called to tell me that as soon as i got home from vacation he would dump me. so that night i dumped him. this was all over because 2 days while i was on vacation he cheated on me.
2006-07-13 18:11:39 · 12 answers · asked by lollipop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here is the real question for you: Why are you attracted to the type of men that cheat?
clearly you are picking the wrong type of guys if is keeps happening - take a look. usually the signs are there if you look. many women like the 'bad-boy' only to be upset when they act like one. then blame all men for being 'cheaters'. just pick a good guy - there are lots of them.
2006-07-13 18:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by 2thseeker 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might be dating a bunch of assholes. Anyway, I know you're hurt and won't be able to trust again for a while, but you're going to have to trust again. Next relationship, don't be bitter or put up a wall, because you can't stop someone from cheating on you, but you can either expect it all the time and live in a miserable paranoid state, or you can have your guard down even if it means the possibility of being hurt, but at least you'll enjoy the good times. If he cheats, you'll always be hurt, so just don't let it make you bitter and defensive. Hang in there, there are better men than that asshole out there. Good luck.
2006-07-13 18:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men cheat on girls u just haven't found the right guy who appreciates u for who u are
2006-07-13 18:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by chaikid88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't married, thus can't be cheated on. Did he VOW to not sleep with other women? There ya go.
You might have thought you were in a monagomus relationship, but you thought wrong.
2006-07-13 18:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take it personal, honey we cheat on all the girls until we reach a certain age. I for some guys though its hard to tell what age that is going to be.
2006-07-13 18:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how u act, u might be something that sends off signals that you are cheating.
2006-07-13 18:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just maybe ,
Take a look at the crowd you hang out with,
And the ones you pick to date,
Maybe the one you think is a nerd,
Could be the best for you~ !
~*~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-07-13 18:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a wife that did the same thing
2006-07-13 18:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they think that it's ok to cheat if your not married
2006-07-13 18:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a possibility that you may be unattractive
2006-07-13 18:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋