Family & Relationships - 10 July 2006

i have found atleast 4 pairs of womens underwear in my house in the last 3 months and i know its not cause he is cheating because i know whose underwear they are i have also found pictures of my female friends and family made into collages right along with the panties....how common is it for a married man to steal other womens underwear...im not bad looking i am 25 years old and 110 lbs we have a fairly active sex life and he has never asked anything odd or freakish of me he is not the player type and is fairly shy but we have been together for 11 years and married for 3 years..he says it has nothing to do with me but he cant seem to tell me why?? He has also developed a methamphetamine habit in the last year that i am dealing with as well and dont know if this type of behavior could be related to drug use or not ?? please help before i file for divorce i am extremely hurt by all of this!!!

2006-07-10 14:00:13 · 5 answers · asked by valerie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im spending a whole day with my dad, and he told me what to do, and I dont know, please help me, need ideas

2006-07-10 14:00:11 · 10 answers · asked by Wilito 2 in Family

All my mom does is yell at me. She never yells at my sisters. I am the one who always gets in trouble for everything. It seems lilke she hates me. Does she?

2006-07-10 13:58:47 · 21 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family

2006-07-10 13:58:35 · 16 answers · asked by D mack 1 in Family

After 31 years of absence, Sandra came back and spent the weekend with me. During that weekend, she said many times she loves me deeply and wants to marry me. Should I believe her and buy her an engagement ring again, like I did 31 years ago?

2006-07-10 13:58:32 · 20 answers · asked by DTL37091 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-10 13:58:26 · 1 answers · asked by David L 1 in Family

2006-07-10 13:58:11 · 4 answers · asked by asmikeocsit 7 in Marriage & Divorce

What makes a good guy to be with?

2006-07-10 13:57:42 · 15 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 13:55:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with my X-boyfriend. I broke up with him because he is unable to commit to marriage right now and didn't seem to be able to consider it at all in the future either.... thing is, I now realize that i don't care about marriage as much as just getting to be around him. I've realized after the break-up that I love him so much, that if he can't promiss a future, I still want whatever time I can have with him..... Now, he doesn't want to get back together, even though he says he loves me, he thinks I should look for someone else who is capable of a commitment since he is not ready...... So, do I wait around, hoping he'll take me back? Or, am I an idiot in love for thinking he wants me at all? I really don't want to be with anyone else -- and I'm experienced enough to know that I can easily find other men to marry me, but I want him... even if I can't have him in marriage.

2006-07-10 13:55:48 · 14 answers · asked by lovesick 1 in Singles & Dating

I am an American women who is married to a Lebanese born man for 8 years, we have two small children and I was curious if there are any women who are American that are married to an arabic born man and have children and gone to Lebanon and returned safely with their children with no problems?

2006-07-10 13:55:17 · 5 answers · asked by smilesallthetime 2 in Family

How do I tell if my husband is cheating on me? He is gone an awful lot and we have been married for a while.

2006-07-10 13:54:23 · 9 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-10 13:54:10 · 3 answers · asked by ayana j 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I also tried higher and lower denominations to no avail?

2006-07-10 13:53:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here, adult sitters get $7-10/hr, depending on the quality care they can provide... I have never used an eleven year old girl before... so help me figure out what I should pay for her and should I keep a cap, like $20 per night???

2006-07-10 13:51:57 · 16 answers · asked by Jean S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When can I be sure this isn't just another one of Grandma's pranks?

2006-07-10 13:51:50 · 23 answers · asked by bbcranks 4 in Family

Guys sleep with 2 girls b4 marriage and lie and say it was 7.

Girls sleep with 7 guys b4 mariage and lie and say it was 2.

Guys say they have an awesome son but really they dont have one.

Girls say "its your baby...sniff sniff...." but really it isnt yours.

2006-07-10 13:51:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 13:50:47 · 37 answers · asked by brenderlou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but that's all they are.. just friends.. nothing less but nothing more.. I mean sure I love hanging with them and everything but why can't I meet a guy that I'll be more then jsut friends with!?

2006-07-10 13:48:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

4 guys

2006-07-10 13:46:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-10 13:45:12 · 12 answers · asked by cody h 1 in Singles & Dating

Do I like my best friend? I dream about him......ALOT!!!!
sexually and him wanting me to kiss. He wants to be the first to kiss me. We have sex. I also have a dream that we're in a co-ed dorm camp and we had sex in the summer time. What is this and how do I stop it???????

2006-07-10 13:44:41 · 13 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Friends

The wedding is this saturday and is in a church. I do not want to be to dressy and not to down dressed also.
I will like any suggestions for an attire that is suitable for both the wedding and reception.

(Take in account that I am a young black female)

2006-07-10 13:43:57 · 17 answers · asked by Toya 2 in Weddings

2006-07-10 13:43:48 · 12 answers · asked by eazy4556 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is winking is flirting?

2006-07-10 13:42:43 · 16 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Singles & Dating

When you were a child you used to ask parents about anything and tell them everything. What happened that made you stop being open and honest with your parents?

2006-07-10 13:41:44 · 20 answers · asked by Choose Life 3 in Family

I been throe big break up this month ... so I was just trying to forget abou ti but I couldn't... my best Friend tell me to go out with her last saturday.. to a night clube in DC... I never been to a night clube before.. I am not kinda of girl that like night clubes.... but it was fun.... do u guys think its okay to go to a night clube for fun... I did fell batter when I went there with my frends.. it was fun being with peopel that care about u... Iam 20 so IAM over age.
thank u guys.

2006-07-10 13:40:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been separated from my husband for 4 months, we are filling for divorc.I want to date other men is it too soon? or should I wait for a longer time?

2006-07-10 13:40:17 · 20 answers · asked by euniceart 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been single for a year now and all I keep finding is weirdos and guys that are only interested in one thing!

2006-07-10 13:38:36 · 3 answers · asked by rednessintx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 13:37:22 · 19 answers · asked by carmelita71 1 in Friends