2006-07-10 13:37:22 · 19 answers · asked by carmelita71 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I feel the same way, but my parents arent dead. I miss talking to them, and having them around me. My mom and dad divorced when I was a year old, so its hard not to have my dad around. Sometimes I feel as though that my mom and dad arent there when times are good or bad. But you have to live with it. My mom was really hard and strict on me and my other siblings, but I love her to death, and I thank her for that. She let me go when I was 10 and my dad let me go when I was a year old. So, if you are talking about that then I know how you feel, but if you lost them both, then Im sorry.
2006-07-10 13:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So do I, and I can relate to what you're going through. My wife's and my father died on the same day two hours apart, three years ago this July 24. My mother died three years earlier, just five months before we got married.
I don't know how long its been since the death of your most recent parent, but, speaking as someone who has been fatherless for three years, I can say you never quit missing them. Best thing I can tell you is when you're feeling down about it, try to find others who experience your same grief. Others who have at least one parent left can by sympathetic, but they really do not understand the loss you've had. Feel free to email me anytime! May God give you his comfort and strength during your time of grief.
2006-07-10 13:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard not to have a mom and dad around. you see all these people with mom and dad and i know it hurts to see it. you keep your head up and one day you will turn into a parent and have kids and you will look back on what you didn't have and you can try to do better for yours.
sorry for the lost
2006-07-10 13:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by star a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a terrible shame for your loss, But the love and comfort you had with your folks will always be a fond memory. You will find peace in passing on thier legacy to the next generation.
2006-07-10 13:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a mom or dad either, sometimes I wish I could
just have them long enough to hug them & kiss them, but
then it would hurt even more. I wouldn't call them back to
suffer either.
2006-07-10 13:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to lose them and you'll always miss them, but life will get better. Just remember they loved you and would want you to be happy. Wishing you good thoughts...
2006-07-10 13:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miss my husband too. We were married for 34 years. Missing them will never go away,but remember,they are relay with us,forever.Love dose not die. XOXOXO
2006-07-10 13:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone. My mother tried to abort me (she totally hates my guts). I didn't see my father for 33 years and when we did meet...he was cold. My only crime to them was that I was born. Well...get over it kid, move on and be a better person.
2006-07-10 13:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry!! I lost my parents too. I lost my daddy when i was12 and i lost my mommy when i 18. It still hurts and i would anything to bring them back to me.
2006-07-14 15:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by wcoit1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a tough one. maybe you can go to a place where you feel close to them and be there or talk to them. I go to the beach to talk to my dad.
it's difficult- but you'll get stronger every day.
2006-07-10 13:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋