All my mom does is yell at me. She never yells at my sisters. I am the one who always gets in trouble for everything. It seems lilke she hates me. Does she?
2006-07-10 13:58:47 · 21 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am the middle child.
2006-07-11 15:47:11 · update #1
Hopefully not. Remember, sometimes our parents aren't how they're supposed to be. Good luck.
2006-07-10 14:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom does not hate you. The love that a mother has for her child is wonderful. Often times, parents get under a lot of stress and can result in you getting yelled at. I have been there and all I can say is to go into another room and number one, don't talk back to her. You may want to go back to her after the tension calms down and talk about what just happened. Your mother loves you, she is probably just under a lot of stress.
2006-07-10 21:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt very seriously that she hates you. Your mom probably thinks that she is helping you become a better person. Maybe you should sit down with her at a time that you are both calm, and share your feelings. If your mom were to hear that her actions are making you feel like she hates you, I'm sure she would hate that and try to make it better. I know it's hard to feel like you are always the one to blame for everything, but I think that telling her this might help her understand that you need positive time with her and that she's really just hurting your feelings. Good luck.
2006-07-10 21:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could in fact be her favorite. As much as adults and parents say that they don't pick favorite, it's human nature to have a favorite. Some parents actually yell at their favorite the most because, I guess they want the best for them. It's like that teacher who always gives you B's even when you try your best. S/he is just trying to help bring out the best in you.
Then again, if you fight with your mom a lot and are rude (like my own sister), then she could hate you. But it doesn't sound like you do that.
2006-07-10 21:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Debi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't think of a parent really 'hating' their child. Your mother could be under alot of stress and needs an outlet. unfortunatly she's taking it out on you. See if you can do anyting to make it a little easier on her, offer to make dinner or clean something without being asked.
This will surprise her and make her happy. (I have used this tecnique many, many times and it works 99.99% of the time) offer her a back rub or mabye some time away to herself and offer to take up some chores for her.
She will get rid of some tension and not yell at you as often, and if this doesnt work I will literally send you 10$. (but please be honest and not just try to squeeze money out of me, I really am trying to help. ^-^)
2006-07-10 21:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend's mom yells at her and used to beat her as a child because she had a bad pregnancy and didn't grow attached to her as a baby. It happens sometimes that a mother just doesn't develop any love for her child.
2006-07-10 21:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is stresses and has worries and is very tires she doesnt mean to yell at you but takes it out on you because she has so much inside of her already and is letting it out on you which is wrong maby you can try to talk to her even though your a kid and its not fair there might be some things you could help your mum with around the house to make it easier for her you will see the change its hard for us mummys
2006-07-10 21:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that she hates you.Did you ever try to just talk to her and ask her why she yells at you more than your sisters? Wait until she is in a good mood or when your Mom and you are alone and talk to her.Let her know how you feel.I wish you luck.
2006-07-10 21:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lstallion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I soooo totally know what you mean! I'm the oldest in my family too, and I always get blamed for just about anything because my mom expects me to be responsible for eveything. Even for the gosh darn people in Africa! lol! But you get what I mean? No, she doesn't hate you, she just likes to dump responsibility on you. It happens to me ALL the time and it sux. Good luck!!!
2006-07-10 21:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by To sweet for 16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her, but my guess is, no, she doesnt hate you. just talk to her and dont go yelling the next time she asks you to do a chore just say okay and smile i bet if u do that she wont yell.
2006-07-10 21:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by qwerty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋