Family & Relationships - 10 July 2006

After the birth of our baby my husband started giving me a lot of problems and then he decided to join the Military. He said he was doing it for us his family but I can not help but feel resentful that he left me all alone with our new born baby. Our baby is going to be 4 years old now and she only has seen him 3 times. But yet he says he loves his family. I think he loves the idea of a family but not the obligation of one. Now he is in Iraq and in a severe combat zone. Now he writes me letters stating all the heartache he is going through and how badly he wants to be a family. But he had been gone so long and I am practically a single mom that I do not want to stay with him but I do not want to worry about him taking my daugher away from me even if all he ends up being is a weekend father. She doesn't even know him at all. But other people are telling me that after all he has been through over there I should stay with him no matter what or how messed up he may be. I'm so confused.

2006-07-10 13:23:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am convinced that they are the most refined and sophisticated people out there and I would like to have many children with her, err, them, err, her...

2006-07-10 13:22:39 · 5 answers · asked by jarmoreno 2 in Singles & Dating

How do i get my wife of 2 years to fall back in love with me. We both have said tings to each other that were hurtful but i forgive her . I have never been physical with her ever. Can anyone help me please she is the love of my life and the mother of my 2 kids. I want to grow old and gray with her.

2006-07-10 13:22:27 · 18 answers · asked by mlingen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Having visited Winnipeg in 1979, I stayed with a Canadian family as part of my trip. Is there any way on line to check if they are still resident in Winnipeg??

2006-07-10 13:22:23 · 3 answers · asked by True B 3 in Friends

2006-07-10 13:22:12 · 3 answers · asked by pamathason@alltel.net 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm thinking about asking out this guy recently started hanging out with. i was wondering what are some good questions to ask a guy to see what kind of person they are and just to get a good amount of conversation rolling. we usually have great conversations eventually once we warm things up conversationally. please nothing too cheesy or obvious though! thanks everyone!!

2006-07-10 13:21:16 · 3 answers · asked by GIRLpassionate 1 in Singles & Dating

for girls????
and for boys?????

2006-07-10 13:21:02 · 13 answers · asked by beauty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I would like to try having a relationship with a lady, but I am married. Very unhappy marriage. I like both men and women. Is it normal for a married women to feel this way? If so, where would I go to find someone that feels the same way I do? I do not know any lesbians or anyone that is bi-sexual.

2006-07-10 13:20:56 · 12 answers · asked by Marg l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay...there's this guy, and I am extreamly interested in him. We've gone out a couple times but it just never seems to work out. And he likes 5 other girls that just, nevermind. But I want to know if I should confront him on how I feel or not. What do I do. Guys tell me what you think too.

2006-07-10 13:20:41 · 9 answers · asked by hockeyhunny2 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf said he loved me today, and we've been going out for only about 2 weeks. not only do i think it's too early to be in love, i dont love him, i just really like him. I dont want to hurt him, and i dont want to lie to him either...and i dont wanna break up with him, i just wanna know how to handle this.

2006-07-10 13:20:29 · 16 answers · asked by kale 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 13:19:35 · 3 answers · asked by pamathason@alltel.net 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i like and he supposedly likes me back, and we had been living next door to eachother for months and i had gone to Colombia for some weeks and i came back and we liked each other, and just 3 or 4 days ago i moved and he now has to move back to where he used to live, and i feel like i am in love with him, and i can't talk to him in any way becuz my mom doesn't like him and we live in two different places and he is so hot but my mom won't let me talk with him, and his birthday is coming up and i don't know what to do, but his brother works here supposedly in Macon, and my mom doesn't like him either but they are both hot but i like the 15 year old instead so what should i do??

2006-07-10 13:19:31 · 1 answers · asked by colombia129 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 13:19:26 · 1 answers · asked by the master 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I alreeady broke up with her; I had to. But, what is going on and what do you think is the best path to go? Everytime I run into one of them I feel like an aura around. Should I ask her to take me back? Should I ask her to let me try and date one of the others? Should I ask them for a three way Simon game?

2006-07-10 13:18:50 · 16 answers · asked by jarmoreno 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in a 3 year relationship and I could count on one hand the times that I have drempt about my boyfriend (It is a good relationship and we are planning a future together). At least a couple times a week I dream of ex-boyfriends and even occasionaly have wet dreams of men I don't even know. I feel guilty for having these and wake up and feel so detached from the one that I feel like I should be closest to. Is this totaly abnormal?

2006-07-10 13:18:09 · 3 answers · asked by lollykins 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you care if he was .....

2006-07-10 13:17:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been throe big break up this month ... so I was just trying to forget abou ti but I couldn't... my best Friend tell me to go out with her last saturday.. to a night clube in DC... I never been to a night clube before.. I am not kinda of girl that like night clubes.... but it was fun.... do u guys think its okay to go to a night clube for fun... I did fell batter when I went there with my frends.. it was fun being with peopel that care about u... Iam 20 so IAM over age.
thank u guys.

2006-07-10 13:16:39 · 3 answers · asked by heregoagain_1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What bothers you the most.....

2006-07-10 13:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by numeroneguy 2 in Friends

2006-07-10 13:16:31 · 4 answers · asked by loumomlou@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby,side by side with his family purpously lied about his age-hi's much older; degrees:said he had 3-never had;his past/previous marriege/relationships:said his wife was lesbian-he cheated on his 1st wife,this is why divorced;he had cancer,spend months inthe hospital-he was/still is anorexic. What else could be,what I don't know? How could we build a marrige on lies. His mom still best frien with his ex. When I told him,I'll get answer from his mother,he made his mother turn against me-we don't talk since then. Could not trust him anymore. Should I divorce? can this be fixed ever?

2006-07-10 13:16:24 · 11 answers · asked by mrs.blackship 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to beat up your kid (with hands, whip, stick or whatever) for whichever reason?

2006-07-10 13:16:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been trying to conceive for 5 months now (for a 2nd baby), but still no sign of POSITIVE. I've been told that STRESS makes it hard to conceive. Lately I've been over stress for months already, worrying too much, and pressured at work. My husband is very much eager to have a second baby (our first baby is 17 months old). tnx

2006-07-10 13:16:14 · 4 answers · asked by shaznay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-10 13:16:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-10 13:15:48 · 25 answers · asked by justo t 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 13:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by msjoseph54 1 in Singles & Dating

For example they cheat on them/don't care about the girl's feeling and do what ever they want.

2006-07-10 13:14:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a girl is is pretty muscular and does manly work like lifting heavy things? and also a girl who is obsessed with sports?

2006-07-10 13:14:16 · 4 answers · asked by NK 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 13:12:21 · 8 answers · asked by nK 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 13:11:28 · 10 answers · asked by numeroneguy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 13:11:13 · 4 answers · asked by Valerie 2 in Singles & Dating