Family & Relationships - 8 July 2006

2006-07-08 16:47:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

how do u tell a boy u like him without coming on 2 strong?

2006-07-08 16:47:02 · 6 answers · asked by ebbie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-08 16:46:49 · 9 answers · asked by erbias 1 in Singles & Dating

I think I am on the androgynous spectrum perhaps tomboyish lesbian but definitely not stonebutch. I have not been able to get a date with another lesbian femme or butch for years, nor even get a smile or flirt. However in the past 6 months I have had two guys, complete strangers chasing after me. Can someone explain this? One guy left a love note on my dryer at the laundrymat while another guy, a waiter, waits on me like I was the Queen Mother, bringing me drinks every 5 minutes and stuttering whenever he tries to speak to me. He told me he liked me. The other guy poured out his heart in the letter. Both are nice guys probably, but this freaks me out that guys like me and other dykes won't even speak to me. I had numerous guys attracted to me in another place. Why??

How should I handle the guys? Should I tell them I'm lesbian? Should I say nothing because they might end up stalking me? I really don't want to be mean and hurt their feelings.

2006-07-08 16:46:18 · 2 answers · asked by wtptoo 3 in Singles & Dating

im sooo mad at my bestfriend shes such a ***** now and she dont know what sorry is now hses telling the whole whide world what i did but she did me bogues more then i did should i stop talking to her ..i hope she doesnt see this even though its true and i feel like i shouldnt even talk to her so im not and shes in georgia right now so we are even cause she went into my email too so she cant talk cause i was in hers

2006-07-08 16:45:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

To cry been do it's been a year my brother past way but i feel like if was just yasterday???

2006-07-08 16:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-08 16:45:10 · 4 answers · asked by naomi 1 in Family

Ladies - there are a million "non-hot" guys out there that embody exactly what you are looking for in a man. They will treat you like gold. They will work hard at the relationship There's only one problem: guys are told that if they aren't Brad Pitt (or some equivilent), you won't even look twice at them. This causes a lot of guys to give up.

What can these guys do to make you look past their external imperfections and see the real great guy inside? Don't say sense of humor. We all know that's crap. There are a lot of funny lonely guys out there. There's something missing to this equation.

Tell us the secret.

2006-07-08 16:45:05 · 16 answers · asked by contrafilms 5 in Singles & Dating

Since the begining our relationship is a rollercoaster of either really good or very bad emotions. Passion kept us & is still keeping us together. We have 2 sons (our baby was born after our separation). We separated 4 years ago and he is living with his girlfriend since then. He says he loves me and wants to come back to be a family again with us. He comes to see me once in a while, calls me often, tells me what I need to hear, we have incredible sex then he goes back home to her, leaving me here, devastated, with our 2 kids.
I know I have to stop that. I am looking for tips on how to stop this for good. I tried to do it for the children - it did not work. I gave him ultimatum - he comes back after a while... I get so weak around him. When I put my foot down, w/sneaky ways, he puts the blame me for the separation of our family & I don't want to be blamed for it and he knows it. I can't meet anyone. Is it possible to get out of a manipulative & controlling relationship? How?

2006-07-08 16:45:02 · 9 answers · asked by Shaana 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want u 2b brutally honest stop lying 2 yourself what really interest u in a guy

2006-07-08 16:44:46 · 6 answers · asked by shredder97 2 in Singles & Dating

Also, is it true that all Jamaican men cheat?

2006-07-08 16:43:43 · 10 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Singles & Dating

if the sex offender have no history of abusive and change

2006-07-08 16:43:39 · 22 answers · asked by nk_rso 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-08 16:41:58 · 26 answers · asked by talk_er89 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-08 16:41:32 · 16 answers · asked by UFC middleweight 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-08 16:40:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-08 16:39:41 · 17 answers · asked by erbias 1 in Singles & Dating

He says he loves me and he wants to be with me, but he's afraid his children will hate him and he's afraid to leave his wife for they have been married for almost 26 years and he doesn't want to leave her to fend for herself and the youngest child 16. I know thats excuses, but he would be stepping into the unknown with me being 28 years old and the mother of 3 young children ranging in ages from 2 to 9.I love him and I'm prepared to wait or should I? I'm raising my children and I have no time for men right now or even for a few years so in the mean time I'm going to date, but should I stay in contact and wait?

2006-07-08 16:38:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Tell me your story, or the story about someone you know! I find this so fun and interesting!

2006-07-08 16:38:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-08 16:37:47 · 6 answers · asked by one80's chick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-08 16:37:43 · 15 answers · asked by rfr21 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-08 16:37:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Normally, if I'm attracted to someone I'll go for it, invite him for drinks, whatever. But I can't even say hello to this guy I know without my knees getting shaky, and that's never happened. I get all nervous and my heart starts beating really fast. I have to sit down if we're having a conversation my legs are shaking so bad. I'm 23 and this is a first. I don't know what it means. Can anyone help me out with this one?

2006-07-08 16:37:22 · 4 answers · asked by Hopeless Romantic 1 in Singles & Dating

Do You feel invisible when talking to your teenage kids about anything.? Do you feel that they actually listen or let everything go right out the other ear?

2006-07-08 16:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by Vanessa W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend just reacently got a bf, I don't have one and I want to be able to hang out with her, but if the 3 of us go out somewhere its like they are on a date & im a tag along. she doesn't want to spend time with me because its time she could be spending with him. How can I be friends with her without having to get a bf so we can go on a double date. Help... shes my best friend and I don't want to lose her!

2006-07-08 16:36:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Tonight during foreplay before sex with my husband he kept moving his finger around near my butt hole. I have heard in movies and things that women enjoy being fingered around there, but I never thought I would enjoy it. I thought it might be a nice new thing to try. If anyone is into that, tell me what you think, and do you have any pointers on what feels best?

2006-07-08 16:36:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, This guy and I are into alot of the same things.... music, style.... How do I ask him out and what do we do??? Like I've said before, I've been outta the dating scene for a few years and am only used to older guys..... I'm just lost when it comes to crap like this.... any help is appreciated!!

2006-07-08 16:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by Bangin To The Beat 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked him if its kay for me to come over...i just wanna chill out at his place...thing is, i just knew him for like a month...en really i dun want him to think that i like him like that u know...should i just not come over to his place no more? but we're just friends...whats wrong w/ coming over to his place? dont we go to our friends' house all the time?

2006-07-08 16:35:28 · 9 answers · asked by f00lg4l2006 1 in Singles & Dating

With all the bible thumpers and god fearing people i doubt i will get answers. but here it goes? Has anyone found themselves attracted to someone who is either 15 years plus older or younger than themselves?

2006-07-08 16:34:49 · 8 answers · asked by late_sleeper35 5 in Singles & Dating

i really want to get back in contact with a guy i went to school with 10 years ago ,everyone i know says its a good idea because he was a nice guy and he liked me alot,but im really hesitant because its been so long and im afraid he will be weirded out or something.what should i do?

2006-07-08 16:33:50 · 7 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

2006-07-08 16:33:48 · 13 answers · asked by Bre 1 in Weddings