if the sex offender have no history of abusive and change
2006-07-08 16:43:39 · 22 answers · asked by nk_rso 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was married for 25 years to an abusive alcoholic. He never abused the kids, just me. I was emotionally, mentally, sexually and physically abused. I finally left. I thought I was doing the right thing for my children. I thought they needed their Father. Of course, all I did was teach my middle child to sit back and take it. Which is what she is doing in her marriage now.
I have been married for almost 5 years now to Mr. Wonderful. He takes care of me. He shows me and tells me that he loves me. He never speaks harshly to me. When we are upset with each other we can quietly and rationally talk it out. He is a Christian. My children and Grandchildren love him. As a matter of fact, my grandchildren told their Mommy that their blood Grandpa (her Father, my ex) looks scary and mean. Oh and by the way, he is a Registered Sex Offender. His conviction was in 1988. We are raising two of the Grandchildren. He is great with them!
2006-07-09 12:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I cant believe anyone would even ask this wuestion!! Do you realize that a sex offender ruins a childs life for the rest of their life? The same goes for abuse!!!! Have you ever been molested or raped? If not, you need to talk to someone who has!!! There are plenty of men out there to choose from than to settle!!! Watch the new and read the newspaper to see what could happen to children in the situations in which you are describing!!!
2006-07-12 17:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by bitch_sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell all of us you have NO CHILDREN!!! Cant you find someone who has no history of deviant behavior and try to have life without chaos. Look up on your states web site exactly why your 2nd choice has been labeled a sex offender, since for some reason the title alone doent make you want to run. As for your husband...leave him. If he is physicaly abusive call and have him arrested. If it is emotional or verbal, find a battered womens support group and prepare to gain your self confidence back and leave him.
2006-07-08 16:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU PEOPLE SHOULD ALL STOP AND REALIZE THAT YOU CAN BE A "SEX OFFENDER" FOR MOONING SOMEONE OR PEEING ON THE SIDE OF A HIGHWAY. ANOTHER HYPED UP CHARGE THE MEDIA HAS RAN WITH AND LUMPED A WIDE VARIETY OF PEOPLE TOGETHER. OR HOW ABOUT IF YOU ARE 18 AND YOU HAVE A 17 YEAR OLD GIRLFRIEND WHOS PARENTS DONT LIKE YOU? = STATATORY RAPE OF A MINOR= LEVEL 2 OR 3 SEX OFFENDER.
2006-07-08 16:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the sex offence? did he hit on a coworker and get charged with sexual harrassment? or molest a 12 yr old? or rape someone? sex offender is a big category, if his offense was #1 or something like it, not that big a deal, but #2 & 3 are steer clear signals for sure!
2006-07-08 17:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you just have a thing for guys with serious issues? What's wrong with finding someone who doesn't have any type of extreme problem to have a relationship? Hopefully, this is just a general question for an answer.
2006-07-08 16:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!! I would run away from the cesspool of freaks your drinking from...and find a decent guy!!! There has got to be someone else in your area besides the winners you just mentioned. You need to quit picking them up out of the gutters..and get one that actually stands upright!!!!
2006-07-08 17:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by SKITTLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take neither you deserve better
go for conselling and get a better impression of yourself. have your esteem brought up to healthy levels again. u must have been abused as a kid to imagine that you are only fit to desreve such dead beats as yoru husband and the other suitor
2006-07-08 17:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by GEN Gamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? Both of these people are a danger to you and your children. If you don't have children, please don't have any. I have been exposed to both types of these people as a child, and I wanted to die at a young age because of the things that happened to me. The same can be said of any other child who has ever had to experience either one of these types of people. You are just as guilty as the drunk or the pervert if anything ever happened to a child near one of these people.
2006-07-08 16:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. No. No. Whoever your are speaking of needs to get themselves out of this melodrama their life has become. Be strong. Stand on their own two feet. Learn to take better care of themselves. Love themselves instead of looking for love outside. They deserve better, don't they?
2006-07-08 16:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by magnoliasandjazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋