Family & Relationships - 5 July 2006

My husband is married to his job. He hasn't touched me in over 7 months. He is verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusive to me and physically to my children ( I have stopped it). I am in physical therapy for a bad back and my therapist is single and is sending signals. Should I go for it? If my husband fins out that will be it however he has a lot of money and I would get at least half. I need advice. Please Help. Kids are 20 and 21.

2006-07-05 06:40:17 · 30 answers · asked by kksay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was in 11 grade, I got pregnant by my first love, and lost our baby for a number of reasons...after losing the baby, I lost my first love as well. I guess I lost him because of all the stress and depression involved with losing a baby. Well, after joining the military and losing hope of ever being with him, I got married, and my husband beat me metally, physically, and emotionally for every little thing-he was overly insecure in my eyes. Well, last year, it had been two years since I spoke with my ex and lost the baby, and he popped back up, I wanted closure, but my husband refused to give me that much respect, and once again beat me for wanting to obtain closure with my ex on the whole situation. I left my husband 3 months after we married becuase the abuse was all too much for me, now a year later my husband is insiting that we try...The problem with that is that once again, I have gained contact with my first love and all I can do is think about how happy he once made me.

2006-07-05 06:39:44 · 5 answers · asked by luvleesoljagurl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm surrounded by people in my life who claim to be happy but deep down inside feel depressed and lost. I wish I had some sort of role model of "happiness" to give me an idea how to truely attain it.
Are you truely happy in your life? - the kind of happiness that is clearly not materialism and what society expects you to have to be happy. ...ie. lots of money, a house, spouse, baby. etc. If so how did you find it? Also how do you maintain it?

2006-07-05 06:38:59 · 25 answers · asked by carolyne310 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-05 06:38:33 · 4 answers · asked by njoy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-05 06:37:56 · 18 answers · asked by natalie s 1 in Family

Am I hot, cute, etc?????............... Check me out at www.myspace.com/greek_penguin

2006-07-05 06:37:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like barstards or nice blokes??

2006-07-05 06:37:09 · 10 answers · asked by pig m 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

yeah i understand that it's the 4th, but 2am is a little extreme!!

2006-07-05 06:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i really h avent seen them.

2006-07-05 06:36:51 · 7 answers · asked by idaniels.svgirl09 1 in Friends

2006-07-05 06:36:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I Always do the same thing every other night. She sometimes does not enjoy it. So How do I spice things up If she does not want to do other things (Anal, Oral, Ect)

2006-07-05 06:35:51 · 26 answers · asked by James R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please don't laugh. How do you get an evil brother to be nicer to you? Especially if you are nice to him a lot and he just ignores it? And if it matters, he's older, I'm younger. I really want to be nice to him before he goes to college, but it's so hard when he's so MEAN.

2006-07-05 06:35:43 · 26 answers · asked by Autumn 1 in Family

2006-07-05 06:35:42 · 13 answers · asked by brown 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think about the name.." Achilles Dargtanan " ???

2006-07-05 06:34:58 · 22 answers · asked by liberty 2 in Family

2006-07-05 06:34:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyways he wants me back one mint then the next he wants to be friends but he has been talking to me about haveing sex with him with out going all the way he says if we do we be more then friends and says my ex"s is marryed and haveing sex why not me what should i do i am almost 29 but been trying to save myself for marryed but it is geting heard to say no and i keep thinking what would god think of me if i did this. part of me wants to but part of me is thinking no it would be wrong my boady says yes but my head says no not sure what to do???????????????

2006-07-05 06:33:59 · 16 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Singles & Dating

If you are... PERVERT!

2006-07-05 06:33:47 · 29 answers · asked by super smart! 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 and i have always been that nice guy that everyone takes for granted. I don't get many dates and i can't ever get things to go good for myself but i still make an effort to help others. should i stop worring about others and start working on myself

2006-07-05 06:33:36 · 26 answers · asked by helen 1 in Singles & Dating

anyways he wants me back one mint then the next he wants to be friends but he has been talking to me about haveing sex with him with out going all the way he says if we do we be more then friends and says my ex"s is marryed and haveing sex why not me what should i do i am almost 29 but been trying to save myself for marryed but it is geting heard to say no and i keep thinking what would god think of me if i did this. part of me wants to but part of me is thinking no it would be wrong my boady says yes but my head says no not sure what to do???????????????

2006-07-05 06:32:56 · 2 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Friends

About 4 years ago my half brother died in a car crash...I lived in Alaska back then and he was down in the states. I dont know what state he died in. I really dont know much about what happened and Im not sure if i really beleive that he did die. I have never seen his obituary and every time I ask my family about when and where he died so I can go to his grave I get a different story. I am now in Arizona and would either like to see his obituary and his grave or find out the truth.. Does anyone know of any websites I can use to track down his obituary or find out the truth. ( perferably one that is free as for i dont have extra money) ( poor college student)...thank you for your feed back and help on this...

2006-07-05 06:32:46 · 7 answers · asked by Trouble 3 in Family

2006-07-05 06:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by j b 5 in Weddings

she called me last night, and she told me she loved me. and she asked me if i remembered the promise we made to each other.. about if we ever did anything with anyone else, that we'd tell each other... and she told me she kinda kissed her best friend. she told me she even saw it coming, but it just reminded her of me, and how much she missed me. and it reminded her of the night when i last saw her...she told me that she was sorry, and that she didn't mean to. that she didn't mean anything by that kiss. i think this long distance relationship is falling apart. but i still love her... what should i do?

2006-07-05 06:30:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-05 06:28:41 · 19 answers · asked by annishl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-05 06:28:40 · 77 answers · asked by Master Lu 1 in Family

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2006-07-05 06:27:39 · 8 answers · asked by Kiera 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And why aren't there any cute good guys?

2006-07-05 06:27:22 · 12 answers · asked by judyju2004 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-05 06:27:17 · 7 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-05 06:27:03 · 30 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family

My fiance and I have been engaged for a year and 10 months. We initially planned to get married this year at the end of May, but set it back because of money. We want to get married in the Bahamas and it's about $6000 for a week and a free wedding and that's not bad. Well, I told him that I'd like to get married next year and if we couldn't go to the Bahamas in March, we'd go to Ocean City, MD in July (it all depends on when we sell our house, then we'll have some extra money to go and get married). Well, now he doesn't even want to talk about the wedding because he says we can't afford it and he says I'm bugging him when I bring it up. I wanted to get a few things here and there so we don't have to do it all at once, he told me to go ahead and get them, but he doesn't want to give me any input on the things. I don't know what to do, what do you guys think?

Thanks in Advance!!

2006-07-05 06:26:18 · 12 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5 in Weddings

2006-07-05 06:26:15 · 10 answers · asked by envy 1 in Singles & Dating