anyways he wants me back one mint then the next he wants to be friends but he has been talking to me about haveing sex with him with out going all the way he says if we do we be more then friends and says my ex"s is marryed and haveing sex why not me what should i do i am almost 29 but been trying to save myself for marryed but it is geting heard to say no and i keep thinking what would god think of me if i did this. part of me wants to but part of me is thinking no it would be wrong my boady says yes but my head says no not sure what to do???????????????
2006-07-05 06:33:59 · 16 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop lying to yourself. If you are truly waiting for marriage, then woman up and wait for marriage. Clearly what this guy is offering is what "MOST" men offer, if they can get the milk for free why buy the cow.
It is noble to wait for marriage and all you're gonna wind up doing otherwise is settling for someone who is not worth the wait. Make all the waiting count and continue your quest for the right man.
Then when it is THE ONE, WOW, you'll be glad you did.
2006-07-05 06:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Betty, It sounds like this guy you are discibing thinks for some reson that he is going to get down your pants really easy. He does these things not because of you but because of who he is. Not to sound upsurb but if I were you I would watch this guy He might be married or even have a girl friend that he does not want you to know about that is why see is on and off with you. The decision is yours Good Luck
2006-07-05 06:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself,any guy that tries to give you an ultimatum
is not the right,he's trying to lure you to give up one of the most precious things God has given you.
It clearly Say's that this guy will stop at nothing just to have his way.True love doesn't do that.
And let me tell you something you are only 29....your life is just beginning....the right one will come along,i just hope and pray that when he does you won't be attached to somebody who only has his interest in mind.Because dear the right one will come along!
2006-07-05 06:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by tomio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the head. The vagina tends to develop it's own brain, but with a very low IQ.
2006-07-05 06:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your instincts. I am old fashioned but I don't know how you feel about it. If you think your 1st has to be memorable and you think its with the right guy and you feel absolutely comfortable then do what you have to do. But listen to your inner self.
2006-07-05 06:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by viv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your head on this one.....he sounds like a total flake.
2006-07-05 06:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly you deserve better than that... it sounds like this guys is trying to use you. You need a man who will love you no matter what.
2006-07-05 06:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by idontneedaman91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need that. Say no to him. There's somebody out there who's better for you.
2006-07-05 06:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you don't have time for his obvious crap and walk away~
Will power!
2006-07-05 06:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to HEAD
2006-07-05 06:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋