Family & Relationships - 4 July 2006

What would you do if you found out that the only person you thought you’d ever love did something bad? He keeps calling me and I feel so tempted to answer but when his name comes up on caller ID I fell like I’m, I think he didn’t mean to do it, it’s just pressure from his older brother, is he to blame? Or should I blame his brother, help….

2006-07-04 19:46:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is nearly three. About 2 months ago her father stopped showing up to visit her. We are now staying with my sister and my daughter sees her cousin's interactions with her dad and how much time he spends with her. My daughter has said several times, "my Daddy's sleeping." But yesterday she said "I need Dad; I want Daddy: where is he; where's Ken?" I told her I didn't know and left it at that. I have enormous guilt for giving him another chance and letting him hurt her again. It doesn't look like he is seeking any visitation, and I was worried he would in order to have access to me. I can not find out for sure because his lawyer won't say and I do not have an attorney of my own and can't afford one. Yes, I did call Legal Assistance but they are over-burdened and will not appoint an attorney in this case since there is no property to divide(!)

Please give me some ideas how to handle my daughter's questions. I do know not to burst into tears but thats what I feel like doing.

2006-07-04 19:45:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-04 19:45:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-04 19:44:04 · 8 answers · asked by kimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm in love trouble now.i'm single. my beloved gal is 23 yrs now. i'm 42 already.her birthdate is 1983.8.10.
she refused me because of my age.she said my age is double
to her.
so may i know can i marry her or not?
because i love her very much.i'm still trying to marry her.

2006-07-04 19:43:23 · 7 answers · asked by than10002000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for almost 5 years, but I've been with him for almost 12. I'm 29 and never really been in any other relationship. We've been seperated now for about 6 months (work related). I recently met this guy who is younger than me (23). I really like him and vice versa. I have a great time hanging out with him. The problem is that I'm going on vacation and I'm going there to meet my husband. I had given my guy friend an idea that I may not come back and he said that I should come back. This guy and myself share a lot of things in common and he makes me smile and do silly things, things I rarely do around my husband. His family owns my favorite store which poses another problem with the wierdness of going to that store if he doesn't take it well. What do I do about my husband? And how do I find a delicate way to tell my guy friend about my husband. I need some kinda help my brain is going to explode if i don't figure this out.

2006-07-04 19:43:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright, so, my father got me a thirdshift job,working for the company he works for. The job is running and ruining my life. Even though it pays fairly well for a first job and for my age, I don't want to work there anymore. I want my life back. How should I tell my father?

2006-07-04 19:41:51 · 18 answers · asked by travis w 1 in Family

My friend is on the phone with me and he can't get to computer right now, so he asked me to post this question, so he could get some.opinions This is kinda a long story, but we really need some opinions. My friend(guy, now 14, very mature) was dating a girl (now 15), about a year and a half ago. They dated for about 10 months. They never slept together, he's a virgin. As it turns out, she cheated on him with two different guys. One was a one-night stand, the other was an on-going affair. After he found out they broke up, and she started dating the guy she had been cheated with. About four months later(in Feb 06) he started dating some other girl. About 3 weeks ago he broke up with her, because he suspected she was cheating, plus he had stopped liking her. Soon after, his ex broke up with her bf(the guy she cheated with) and asked him out again. She told him that she had taken a bunch of pills and was going to the hospital. He hasn't heard from her since, and doesn't know what is going on. He's not sure if he should stay with her or not. He wants to give her another chance, but she has put him though alot and he doesn't want to get hurt again. He is even considering that if she was preganant, he might still stay with her. He is very confused. ANY opinions would be helpful.

2006-07-04 19:41:51 · 11 answers · asked by confusedgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 6 years talks more open to a girl that he works with then me she is 22 and he is 45...I see what he says to her on myspace,,,,it is very upsetting....should I tell him?

2006-07-04 19:40:32 · 9 answers · asked by sunshine4848 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-04 19:39:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-04 19:39:53 · 16 answers · asked by kate_hot1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy and i broke up like 2 weeks ago but before we did break up and after he still acted like my boyfriend and he tried to kiss me and when we decided that it was't gonna work out between us he acted like he wanted me to beg him not to break up...and after we did break up we made plans fo later on this week to go out...could he still like me and just broke up with me so i could beg him? so confused i mean i still have some feelings left for him but i'm not the type to be begging someone, or should i?

2006-07-04 19:39:12 · 4 answers · asked by disusi 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 6 years talks more open to a girl that he works with then me she is 22 and he is 45...I see what he says to her on myspace,,,,it is very upsetting....should I tell him?

2006-07-04 19:38:58 · 19 answers · asked by sunshine4848 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-04 19:38:47 · 12 answers · asked by ton_rimas 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-04 19:38:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am older ok...33 . I moved next door to her when she was 16. I never had anything to do with her other than a friendly hello now and then. I made friends with her father just to keep things cool. Now she is 20 and is in the middle of a very certain divorce and I am sure she wants me. I know this because I do...understand. My debate is appearances, not the law. If I get with her now it looks as though I may have been getting with her while she was underage even though I wasn't...not that the advances where not made from her. Guys have you ever had to say "NO" to a beautiful girl that lived next door whom would wait until your workout time to get in her bedroom window and undress...I am talking torture. But I am the kind that does not fall in-Love...you know. Any other girl wouldn't have done that. I have kept this door closed for so long I am thinking I should just keep it shut...I am confused and looking for advice from women...I know what the guys will say

2006-07-04 19:38:37 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. Wizard 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really don't want to get married. I know I'm still young, but with all of the problems I've had with men in my life, I don't trust any of them. Can I be happy without getting married? I love kids, and I'd love to have them, but I don't want to have them if I don't get married. Is that normal?

2006-07-04 19:37:45 · 11 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel very exited when my wife starts talking about her handsome doctor,especially when we are in bed . I like hearing her talk in deep details about the things that she is going to let him do if she get the chance to sleep with him in bed ,we both warm up and enjoy .why do I have such a feeling?

2006-07-04 19:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by rock555 1 in Family

I have to say goodbye to my sister when she is preparing to leave for college .

2006-07-04 19:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by Brunette Chick 20 2 in Family

About six months ago I found out that my husband was on the DL (sex with men). Our marriage was on a scale from 1-10; I would give it about a 4, because he never spent much time with me. He would be at home maybe 30% of the time. I would always express how much i wanted for him to spend time with me. He always replied that he would but, it never got better! But anyhow, after I found out about him being on the Down Low , I was sick to my stomach for a while. I tried to make the marriage work because I love him and of course for the kids (they just love him to death). I found myself talking about my problems to an old friend. I ended up having sex with my friend (whom I don't love) and getting pregnant by. Idon't believe in abortons at all!! I have applied for a legal separstion because I'm just not ready to let totally go (despite what I found out). It's so hard to let go when you've been with a person so long. Also, I'm worried about how my kids will feel abouth us not being as 1.

2006-07-04 19:34:34 · 9 answers · asked by tm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im about to be 20 and I like a woman who is around 30. She is a counselor, and im a student a worker. We both work in a community college, in the same office. I like her, but I dont know what to do? We are both single. Should I avoid these feelings or let her know? Will she laugh or actually go on a date with me? what to do? I need help because this has been on my mind since i meet her.

2006-07-04 19:32:12 · 13 answers · asked by wiggles 1 in Singles & Dating

How does my avatar look? Any suggestions?

2006-07-04 19:31:45 · 28 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-04 19:31:45 · 25 answers · asked by lizx002 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

the girl more?

2006-07-04 19:31:06 · 8 answers · asked by babyalwayslookatme 1 in Singles & Dating

I was planning to have a mega party but that sounds kinda over used. I need to do something new and FUN!

2006-07-04 19:30:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

got a girl been going out for a lil starting to feel like im not being that romantic to her want to make her happy what can i do roamtically that does not cost over 500 ( im 16) thats why

2006-07-04 19:30:12 · 8 answers · asked by lztexan 3 in Singles & Dating

want to search a person using name and address to find out if they R a real person

2006-07-04 19:29:54 · 7 answers · asked by Lynn P 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-04 19:28:34 · 17 answers · asked by robert k 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-04 19:27:38 · 10 answers · asked by reginaqas 1 in Singles & Dating

which one do you prefer?

2006-07-04 19:27:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends