my boyfriend of 6 years talks more open to a girl that he works with then me she is 22 and he is 45...I see what he says to her on myspace,,,,it is very upsetting....should I tell him?
2006-07-04 19:40:32 · 9 answers · asked by sunshine4848 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you know .. maybe that is his outlet to talk things outl.. she could just be a friend, I don't see how that can be upsetting, friendship has no age barrier... allow him his space to talk about things he feels he can't talk to you about.
OR you can calmly and nicely ask him why can't he talk to you abotu some things. Don't tell him your pissed, it could be why he don't come to you in the first place.
2006-07-04 19:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Talk to him about this. Whatever goes on between the two of you is personal.He should keep it that way. Maybe he is going through the mid life crisis thing being as she is only 22. Let him know you do not like this!
2006-07-05 02:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES MOST DEFINITELY!!! If he doesn't know that it bothers you, then he will continue doing what he is doing. I know for a fact, that if I knew that my boyfriend was talking to another female more openly than with me, I'd have issues. Not necessarily, jealous issues, but knowing that he feels more comfortable talking to someone else over me, who is his girlfriend, and the one that he loves, yeah that would be an issue for me. If you do not tell hiim, then beleive me, there will be further issues in the future and you will continue to feel stressed and put out by this situation. He NEEDS to KNOW how it makes you feel!! Talk to him!
2006-07-05 02:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. Tell him that it worries you, but don't make a big deal out of it. There are some things that are easier to tell strangers than the people closest to you. Just because you're married you shouldn't demand that there is nothing he can't talk to you about anyway. It's actually harder to talk to people close to you about a lot of things, because they judge you more. Because they think they know you, so they think they should know how you feel, or what you think.
2006-07-05 02:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by socomgoat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Talk to him, then he'll get all offended. I'll bet you anything!
Becuz thats his "precious" friend. Ask the b*tch to add you as a friend. That'll let her know, youre on to them if there is anything. Everytime, he comments, you comment right over him...Then the comments will stop (since youre bothered by the comments in the first place). Be aggressive girl!
2006-07-05 02:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by theVoiceWithin... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many time do you need to ask this question?
2006-07-05 02:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
2006-07-05 02:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by _ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you... then tell him
2006-07-05 02:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kelé 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh!!
2006-07-05 02:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋