Family & Relationships - 29 June 2006

Seriously, be mature about it. Don't give some **** faced answer like 'zomg itz so dum'.

Me and my boyfriend plan on getting married before he goes to airforce. So it'd be...soon. Not too sure when, but possibly within the next 2-3 months.

We've been together for 3yrs and 6 months. Neither of us have any doubts, we're just ready. Not to mention all the benifits of him being in the airforce and married. They send extra money home.

Anyway, I'm 18, 19 in october, and he's 20, 21 next saturday.

What is your opinion on young people getting married? I've heard a few different answers from the people I work with, and they have very different views on it.

I personally think if someone knows the person they're with and is ready....Then they're ready. I don't think it's right for one person to tell someone else 'you aren't ready for this' even though they can't expirience the relationship themselves.

2006-06-29 17:22:52 · 46 answers · asked by Steph 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-29 17:22:01 · 6 answers · asked by Ice_ice 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is getting married, and he made me an usher and pretty much volunteered me to buy the apple cider and the champange, 30 bottles in all. I guess so I wouldn't flip out on him he told me all the ushers are buying things for the reception, but earlier today I asked my brother in law who is also an usher what is he supposed to get, and he had no idea what I was talking about and when I told him what I have to do he started laughing hysterically and said I'm getting screwed over.
So my question is this, is my brother in law right, or are ushers really supposed to pay for things?

2006-06-29 17:21:20 · 19 answers · asked by kissaholik4502 2 in Weddings

Good boys or bad?

2006-06-29 17:21:10 · 23 answers · asked by nickfly 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-29 17:19:56 · 31 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-29 17:19:42 · 8 answers · asked by chrstn 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

yah I just posted a question about a boyfriend that wont call me yah know...yah so he is older than me by 3 years...should I have sex with him? he wants to and so do I...sometimes I think I would have his baby..but then there is a race thing...hes black...im white...he lives like an hour away...its hard...I dont know what to do...sooo yah should I..yes or no...?

2006-06-29 17:19:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a male best friend which kind of ruined my non-existent dating life. my question to you all is why did guys back away when they knew my ex-best friend was a guy? we never did anything past friendly hug, and that's real. what's the deal with that? and now that we're not friends at all i still get a weird reaction. i'm still the same sweet girl just without my best male friend......confused help a girl out on why i'm still single.

2006-06-29 17:18:51 · 13 answers · asked by musikluver83 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-29 17:18:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-06-29 17:17:58 · 5 answers · asked by rollarcoaster brain 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

help. My mom saw the hickey on my neck and flipped...tonight i got a hickey on my arm....wat shall i do??

2006-06-29 17:17:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive known him for two years, i was dating his best friend..and we finaly started dating about 2 weeks ago. we talk on the phone every night for the WHOLE night and sleep in and call eachother too wake the other up. he sayed he loves me for real..i dont love him, i think. is he truethful??

2006-06-29 17:17:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me about a month ago (for the 2nd time). We were best friends, or at least I thought we were, but he just says that we are not meant for each other but that he still loves me. He had still been calling and texting me about how much he misses me, but now that has stopped. It's like he doesn't care anymore, but he says it's bc it's unfair to me. I feel he has some real issues, and I still love him but I don't want to be sad or hang on anymore. How do you move on when you truly truly loved someone and did all you could to make it work?

2006-06-29 17:17:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does it turn you on when a girl flirts, or ignores you, or what do you look at first when you see a girl?

2006-06-29 17:17:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a girl don't wait to have sex with a guy till marriage people don't find that wierod, but if a girl waits they think how did she make it? When just a few years ago you didn't hear of such a thing. Plus in God eyes thats the way it should be (to wait). Now it is more normal and exsepted to not wait LADIES take more pride in your self and wait till you find mister right!!!

2006-06-29 17:16:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

No matter how many times I change for a girl, I still cant have a relationship over a month

2006-06-29 17:15:54 · 46 answers · asked by Killerofgrims 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-29 17:15:28 · 7 answers · asked by B-Wizzle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a two and three year old, both boys, and they always want to fight. They hit eachother ,kick eachother, bite eachother, pinch eachother, anything they can to hurt eachother. How do I get them to stop?? Real answers please none of that smart *** stuuff.

2006-06-29 17:14:33 · 18 answers · asked by clara s 1 in Family

For those that do, why do you all do that?

2006-06-29 17:13:52 · 11 answers · asked by Ari 2 in Singles & Dating

ok im goin to mexico and i wanna get my girlfriend something from there but i dont know what i should get her. anybody got any suggestions?

2006-06-29 17:13:46 · 14 answers · asked by Skye Y 2 in Friends

2006-06-29 17:12:38 · 5 answers · asked by Soph 2 in Singles & Dating

well would you ? ~~~lol~~~

2006-06-29 17:12:22 · 8 answers · asked by ?heartthrob? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would love to be with them both ...

2006-06-29 17:11:49 · 47 answers · asked by r--- h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wanted to know if there are any white ladies that are LEGAL that want to IM. I can't sleep....let's talk.

2006-06-29 17:11:29 · 1 answers · asked by jeffinsprof 1 in Singles & Dating

well my husband gets mad at me if i go on line, so i have to wait till he goes to bed, and he gets mad when my kids are not doing what he wants, so we fight all the time, we use to get alone when we 1st got together, now i hate to wake up.

2006-06-29 17:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i deal with the cow, i have to be nice for my husbands sake and all she does is put us down behind our backs she gets jealous because we got married out of love and she used marriage as a band aid, i asked her to b foward with me but he says she has nothing to say which is a lie.

2006-06-29 17:08:58 · 29 answers · asked by nell 2 in Friends

2006-06-29 17:08:51 · 30 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this girl and until just recently I thought she liked me back. We live 30 min. from each other so it's not like I can just go over to her house. (It's not a hard drive, I just don't want to show up unexpected) We don't talk on the phone everyday, then when we do it's usually only for a few minutes. It's usually a good conversation. I've tried several times to see if she wanted to hand out. She's in summer school right now, so weekends are really the only chance we have to be together. Each time it's been a different excuse. But, all of the excuses have been real.

So I called her today to see if she wanted to hang out, and she didn't sound to happy to hear from me. As usual it was just a few minutes of talking. (To tell you the truth, I don't know how to take todays conversation) I know that she hangs out with her old boyfriend a lot. And I know that he still likes her. I just have a gut feeling that they are together again.

So, is it me over thinking it or what

2006-06-29 17:08:48 · 5 answers · asked by skillsusa_california 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have a friendly argument at work, i say the toilet seat should be left up after men have a wee, the women say we should put it back down, i think the women are just to lazy to put it down, then lift it back up when they finish.....
What do you all think??

2006-06-29 17:08:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

they seriously did and i dont know how normal that is.. haha

2006-06-29 17:08:11 · 6 answers · asked by whuteva1707 1 in Singles & Dating