I had sex with my wife's sister and would like to know how to proch the subject with my wife?

Question

I would love to be with them both ...

Answer 1

Ask someone if you don't already know what happenend to the man in the movie GHOST who was killed with a window. You shall follow in his tracks thereafter.



Leviticus 18
1 The LORD told Moses
2 to tell the people of Israel: I am the LORD your God!
3 So don't follow the customs of Egypt where you used to live or those of Canaan where I am bringing you.
4 I am the LORD your God, and you must obey my teachings.
5 Obey them and you will live. I am the LORD.
6 Don't have sex with any of your close relatives,
7 especially your own mother. This would disgrace your father.
8 And don't disgrace him by having sex with any of his other wives.
9 Don't have sex with your sister or stepsister, whether you grew up together or not.
10 Don't disgrace yourself by having sex with your granddaughter
11 or half sister
12 or a sister of your father or mother.
13 (SEE 18:12)
14 Don't disgrace your uncle by having sex with his wife.
15 Don't have sex with your daughter-in-law
16 or sister-in-law.
17 And don't have sex with the daughter or granddaughter of any woman that you have earlier had sex with. You may be having sex with a relative, and that would make you unclean.
18 As long as your wife is alive, don't cause trouble for her by taking one of her sisters as a second wife.
19 When a woman is having her monthly period, she is unclean, so don't have sex with her.
20 Don't have sex with another man's wife--that would make you unclean.
21 Don't sacrifice your children on the altar fires to the god Molech. I am the LORD your God, and that would disgrace me.
22 It is disgusting for a man to have sex with another man.
23 Anyone who has sex with an animal is unclean.
24 Don't make yourselves unclean by any of these disgusting practices of those nations that I am forcing out of the land for you. They made themselves
25 and the land so unclean, that I punished the land because of their sins, and I made it vomit them up.
26 Now don't do these sickening things that make the land filthy. Instead, obey my laws and teachings.
27 (SEE 18:26)
28 Then the land won't become sick of you and vomit you up, just as it did them.
29 If any of you do these vulgar, disgusting things, you will be unclean and no longer belong to my people. I am the LORD your God, and I forbid you to follow their sickening way of life.
30 (SEE 18:29)


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Answer 2

First of all you need professional help. No, I am being very honest, and extremly clear with you. I really believe you need to talk to a therapist. If you think this is funny, or a joke then you need help. If you're smiling or laughing at this statement then you need help.

This is a very serious matter and you could care less about your wife or her sister's feelings only your own self-gratification.

You like to control women, and cheat on them so you can feel in control. Don't shake your head, you know I'm right.

It's all about control because your life is out of control. You would rather break up a family than build one.

Why cheat? Why not get a divorce then you can go out with'em all. But not you!!! Do you get it?

How would you like it if your wife was cheating with your brother, or your father, your uncle, or your cousin, how about your best-friend?

You can't rationalize yourself on this one. If you tell her you better get ready to suffer the consequences, and believe you and me, if I knew her I would tell her, because she has a right to know.

Was it worth it??? Was your marriage worth it???
Does your wife mean so little to you??? Do you even really love your wife???

You need to get some help, or you will ruin future relationships and children if you don't have them already.

You need to grow up and be a man and start acting like a man, and be responsible, and stop hurting women, because you feel you can.

Have you ever heard of Karma, it can be a real *****!!

Answer 3

Oh my gosh.....well she will not allow it at all unless she is stupid, which I have a feeling she is not cause your scared to tell her for the simple fact that you messed up big. Well if you have kids might as well be like after this I am gonna be a weekend dad. Of all the women why her sister?? You are just gonna have to come clean with what you did and hope she forgives you. If she doesnt that would be the only way to be with her sister. No women wants to share her husband or bf with any other women. That is just how it is. I mean would you want to share your wife with another man??

Answer 4

pretend it never happened and swear your wife's sister to secracy. It's not worth the pain, and she should understand that. If your wife ever finds out, you will have to tell her the truth then and then say you hid it from her because you loved her. In the meantime, you could probably keep on having a side relationship with the sister.
Good luck.

Answer 5

the truth hurts every time know matter what the situation is. some marriages can survive an affair but it will take time, trust, and committment from both sides. you broke your vows to your wife and she will no doubt be very angry with you and dissapointed. she does have the right to know. she will find out some how and some way so it is best that it comes from you. if you still love your wife then you need to devote yourself only to her. what are you willing to do make your marriage work? what are your priorities? you need to tell your wife the truth so she can find happiness with or without you!

Answer 6

Are you crazy you are ready to get killed do not touch that with a ten foot pole let it be never go near your wife sister again tell her you did not meant for it to happen you do not love the both of them you are amaze with her sister because every woman are not the same

Answer 7

You would be wise to do it from a distance! She will be very upset, surely! If not, she doesn't have self-respect. A self-respecting person has boundaries and you have overstepped all boundaries in consummating this act with her sister. If you love her, you will attempt to take steps to let her know, but since you want to be with them both, she will probably divorce you. Then you can be with her sister if she'll still have you.

Answer 8

Hmmm this is a problem in itself. Kind of like when my common law husband was forced into telling me that he slept with one of my best friends. And by forced I mean my other best friend found out and she threatened him to tell me before she did. Well most of the night was a blur but from my sore hands and the bruises on my husband, I think I kicked his *** but unfortunately still haven't kicked his *** to the curb. As for my best friend that slept with him I was ready to bury her into the ground until I couldn't find her. Depends on your wife, she might just kick your *** for a few hours and you better be ready to take it if you want to keep her. Or she may kick your *** to the curb, fight with her sister and take you for everything you got. I hope you don't have kids together.

Answer 9

You are about as close to nuts as I have seen here, and that is saying a lot. Just come out and ask the girl's father for permission at the next family party...do it loudly in front of everyone...that way, the girls couldn't possibly say no. And the very best to you.

Answer 10

Why do you want to play the saint now?
Its done and its gonna be there always, unless your sis in law, dosent want to blackmail you! So forget it and try and come over is done is done. If you want to have it with both of them, you are going in the danger zone. It will cost you much in the future, you might even loose the dignity and respect.
Try understanding, if you cant, you are at risk! BEST OF LUCK!