Family & Relationships - 29 June 2006

2006-06-29 18:13:28 · 16 answers · asked by dadx2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After finding out his cell phone records and the after hours calls back and forth between them I observed the behaviour between them. He admits he let it get out of hand and promised to transfer her to another position. Now a year later she is still there and I am not allowed to come to his work place without his permission. Everything is so secretive. I have become the outsider. Twenty five years of marriage and she has been married thirty four. He directed her to call me and tell me there was nothing between them but when I asked her were they ever intimate she did not answer. Then lied to him and said I didn't give her time to answer. He believed her.

2006-06-29 18:13:20 · 10 answers · asked by weve1151 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what did u do? follow them, call the number, see it happening, walk in on them do the deed? etc.
I suspect my BF is having an affair & I dont know how to catch him. he is too sly! they both work together.

2006-06-29 18:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by star4 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been bf/gf with my boyrfriend for 3 months almost and we haven't kissed yet. we've even TALKED about kissing but it never ends up hapeening. should i kiss him in the movie theater on our next date? should i start with a little kiss then make out later or go straight to making out? help! i've only done little kisses b4 and that was a long time ago! and don't give me some crap about "oh just have sex with him" because i don't want to hear it i'm thirteen.

2006-06-29 18:12:59 · 15 answers · asked by sofiaharriett 2 in Singles & Dating

NOTE: POINTS WILL BE AWARDED BY VOTE

A couple has been dating for a year and the guy wants to do something really special for his girl that no other guy can possibly match with. So he...

2006-06-29 18:12:30 · 10 answers · asked by Thomas 3 in Singles & Dating

Drama and pain happen in EVERYONE's lives. It is displayed often in entertainment, be it movies or books, that the one who takes everything slowly and thinks about things and usually stays far away from acting on anything does the best. For those who have seen the old Kung Fu series with David Caradine (sp) know the type. The wise character usually. Do you believe this is an effective way to deal with problems? Does it work? All the time or some of the time??

2006-06-29 18:11:56 · 9 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-29 18:10:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-29 18:10:34 · 7 answers · asked by Ex-Blondie 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-29 18:10:30 · 13 answers · asked by mina 2 in Singles & Dating

should i
1.go over to my friends house and make it up to her for not hanging out and being alone last week or go over there for awhile and go to the second session of skating or 2.go over there for and hour hang out then go see my boyfriend for 4 hours then saturday go over for 4 hours back to her house then leave and go back over on sunday for 5 and a half hours and then 2 weeks hang out with her all weekend?

2006-06-29 18:09:56 · 7 answers · asked by liv c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

thanx for your help

2006-06-29 18:09:54 · 13 answers · asked by Nate The Great 2 in Singles & Dating

I cannot stand to be touched by my sweetie. I love him but I am constantly wondering what is wrong with me. I wonder if I can really live with him. He's always pushing me to think deeply about things before I act or speak. He is positive and supportive of anything I want to do. He teases me when I panic about things (and then he calms me down and comforts me.) But I am freaked about marrying him 3 weeks from now. I don't know how to get rid of the feeling that I should run away screaming! Help?

2006-06-29 18:09:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She hails from China and is a graduate but she is working in a Singapore nightclub as the pay in China is pathetic. I want to make her my girlfriend and provide for her. Earning around SGD4000 a month should be enough for 2 persons...

2006-06-29 18:07:52 · 3 answers · asked by Guy_25 1 in Singles & Dating

A few weeks ago this girl I'd been dating for a couple months stood me up on a date. We made the plans online via IM and she said her cell phone was currently cut off. I specifically told her that it was no problem, if anything came up she could directly send an e-mail to my cell.

We planned to meet about 2 hours later at the movie theater at "9ish" for a 9:40p showing. I got there at 9 and waited a little past 9:30. At that time I was not happy. Who would be, right? Well my phone also does IM's so I sent her a couple asking where she was, that I was here.. ect. I also sent her an e-mail when I got home.

After I sent her the e-mail, I noticed she posted a blog at 9:00 the very night we were supposed to meet (it was unrelated to me).

Finally four days later she e-mails me and says she knows she's been flakey and "wants to start over." I don't actually remember an apology...

In short, I declined her offer to start over. Was this a good idea? I'm having second thoughts..

2006-06-29 18:05:37 · 10 answers · asked by Mr. J 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends 34, and im 15. We've been been dating for about 6 months. At first i thought it was wrong, but i realize i love him alot. Does age really matter

2006-06-29 18:05:15 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My name is mohamed. I'm 27 years old engaged to a good girl,who's loving me so much but the problem I feel is, that I can't feel any attraction to her.
May be because she is not that much pretty as I dreamed one day.the real reason I don't know yet but this intention all the time to breake up this engagement signing always to me on the other side the girl finds me as her hero & I don't like to hurt her by running away.please I'm realy dieing to find a proper solution for this problem.Shall I breake up relationship or not.

2006-06-29 18:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by m_fathy80 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i tell her to stop talkin to him and make time for me or dont call me at all and him cause he loves me like i'm his sister or at least thats what he tells her

2006-06-29 18:04:43 · 18 answers · asked by keanda g 3 in Family

it's a couple of girls i have to name in here they are best friends
the first one used to be my best friend and the other is her lil friend
weel my ex best friend hooked me up with this dude we was together for about 4 or 5 months and then me and my ex best friend got into an arugment and we not cool no more so she started hangin out with this other girl and now she after the dude i was with and i thnk he feelin her or what ever usally i think it's real dumb to fight over a boy but i just wanna whip her a** should i? and my old friend knew that it was this dude i like even before me and her where fighting and she knew what she was doing so just to make me mad she goin go and put her lil stinky pu$$y in a place it don't belong. even though he already made it clear that he just wanted to tap her or whatever and he not into her cuz she ugly, i still want to beat her @$$ should i? me and the dude was drive talkin or what ever.

2006-06-29 18:00:34 · 24 answers · asked by gizelle c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-29 18:00:28 · 20 answers · asked by pumpernickel 1 in Singles & Dating

Why men always want to have a virgin wife/gf while he is not, (becuz nobody can check out a man has had sex before or not!)

2006-06-29 18:00:23 · 9 answers · asked by luv_iz86 1 in Singles & Dating

My spouse loves me dearly but when it comes to listening,he is a complete conversation and attention hog.I take time to hear him out but everytime I try to start a conversation or topic,he always buts in with some stupid loke that he thinks is hilarious(I swera they never are!!), He loves fun in life,but sometimes he actually gets on my nerves when I am trying to make a point about something and he is trying to be funny.I get so mad because he doesn't change no matter how much I tell him and fuss about it.I don't want us to argue but DAMN!!I will be moving over 3000 miles away soon and I don't want this to be a big issue before I leave.What should I do because I can't just act like it doesn't bother me?

2006-06-29 17:58:44 · 10 answers · asked by candy_apple033 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know what to do should I do what he wants me to do.. But I don't know because, I want to save myself until marriage..I have been goin' with him since Elemantary and I love him to death and I don't really know should I do because, I love him... I really realize how much I love him now that he is in jail.... Please tell me what should I do??

2006-06-29 17:58:25 · 26 answers · asked by Diva 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-29 17:58:23 · 6 answers · asked by shyann m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just checking? But seriously!

2006-06-29 17:58:03 · 2 answers · asked by closeyoureyesandsaygoodbye 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i would beat her up but shes 5 im 11

2006-06-29 17:57:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i say im gonna be flirty and fun and seductive around guys, but when i actually get close to the, i stiffen and get really nerveous . help ?

2006-06-29 17:57:53 · 10 answers · asked by supersonicoverdrivve 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-29 17:57:25 · 11 answers · asked by noname247 2 in Singles & Dating

im a girl, 15 and recently ive been finding myself attracted to girls. at first it was only "studs" that i was attracted to but now im attracted to "fems" too. this year a couple of my friends came out and said they were lesbians/bi. i dont know if that has just opened my mind or if im always going to feel this way. i am still very much attracted to boys but i feel the same way about girls now.PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-06-29 17:57:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We both know that we are crazy about each other- but not only is there the age difference but he is WAY more experienced than i am and i am really intimidated by that... should i back off from the relationship or should i go for it?

2006-06-29 17:55:17 · 26 answers · asked by K8 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-29 17:54:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce