i say im gonna be flirty and fun and seductive around guys, but when i actually get close to the, i stiffen and get really nerveous . help ?
2006-06-29 17:57:53 · 10 answers · asked by supersonicoverdrivve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmmm... not a huge problem on hand... its just a mentality problem... we can fix it.....
this is what i suggest you to do....
don't start flirting all of a sudden... actually you are not able to do so because you don't try to understand the guy first.... try to understand his nature first... it can take from a few minutes to few days... depending upon your caliber... you just have too look for the signs which will say that this guy is ready to be flirted.... (I think a flirty person knows what are those signs...)
because you dont give enough time to study the personality of a person, you hesitate ... you hesitate as to how he will react......
so all you have to do is try to be more observative and alert... flirting is all about these two things... you have to hit the weak corner of a guy.... and different guys have different weak points....
you have to learn them first........
happy flirting....
2006-06-29 18:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You freeze up because you are too vested in it. Flirt with guys you do not care to strike a relationship with. Make a game of it. See how quick you can get him to ask for a name or a number? As to not lead him down a dark dead end path when he ask, tell him you are gay. Or tell him you are Mormon and are not allowed to date without a chaperon or something. Let him off the hook quick. then you will see what works best so when you do see the guy you hope to land, you will have a better ideal on what to do.
2006-06-30 07:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous, us guys are pretty easy going. Smile at us, ask us what time it is or actually just about any question and you'll be chatting away before you know it.
2006-06-30 01:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by Some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that girls who act like that get a lot of propositions for sex. But if I was looking for a girlfriend, I don't think I would choose someone who acted like that.
2006-06-30 01:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be your self and not play games, you will do a lot
better with men, you want them to think that you are tease, that
not good, just be your self, and believe me the nervousness will
go away.
2006-06-30 01:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a common reaction, it should get easier to be around guys as you do it more.
2006-06-30 00:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once u do it u will eventually master it. guys love confidence so like the commercial says "never let them see u sweat!"
2006-06-30 01:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by malibu29130 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that. They'll love it
2006-06-30 01:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by scottpetsche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him and he not showin that he see you
2006-06-30 01:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself...
2006-06-30 01:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋