Have you ever caught your BF or GF cheating after u grew suspicious of their behavior? how did u find out?

Question

what did u do? follow them, call the number, see it happening, walk in on them do the deed? etc.
I suspect my BF is having an affair & I dont know how to catch him. he is too sly! they both work together.

Answer 1

No, they never cheated.
Get some spy stuff and have fun with it.

Answer 2

Truthfully speaking, It happened to me. Let me tell you, I was on a mission. I knew because the attention, sex, time, different hours at work, etc. changed. They become a totally different person.
I checked cell phone numbers, I wnt through his wallet when he was sleeping, I called numbers, I called the job the make sure he was there, you name it, I did it! Nothing worked because he denied everything and so did I, I denied it by accepting stupid answers and not wanting to believe the obvious. Deep down we all know!
Anyhow, I decided to, let go and let God! I refused to sleep with him at all. Then I began to pray that God open my eyes and bring me the proof that I couldn't deny. Sure enough, when I finally gave up and stopped letting the thought of him cheating monopolize my life, a bank statement came in the mail. I usually don't open them but this time, something like yelled at me to open it, so I did and sure enough there it was. A trip to the Riviera Motel and it wasn't me. You see, we had a joint bank account and he was stupid enough to use the card, go figure!

Answer 3

One of my old bfs had been acting a little strange while we where talking on the phone. He told me that he met an old friend of his, I was happy for him. Every time we talked he acted a little strange. I finally asked him about his friend and he made an excuse to get of the phone. When I talked to him the next morning I asked him if he had feelings for the girl. Again he had to go. That afternoon he broke up with me. I told him have fun with your 'old friend' he told me that he had been for a couple weeks already.

Answer 4

I went to his house at 3am to find her car there and the lights on, knocked on the door heard them lock it. went back at 6am, car still there, then back at 5pm and turned the door knob and walked in to find him standing there in the bedroom doorway and asked if he was cheating on me and he said no. went into the bedroom to see the girl laying in the bed. but be cautious before you accuse and make sure you have enough evidence beforehand, otherwise if he's not, he'll just get mad and you are giving him a reason to cheat if you are accusing him. best of luck to you.

Answer 5

well i was in the same situation and my instincts were right, you should be sneaky and follow them or call the number i did! he is your man right? so you have a right to know !

Answer 6

no, but my GF has caught me several times